Mr. Yang Jiang said:
Women must know that in a relationship, if you are getting better and better, more and more enthusiastic, more and more tolerant, more and more obedient, and more and more spoiled to a person, then this person will definitely become the person who cherishes you the least in the world.
Sentiment. When I saw this passage, I immediately thought of Zhang Ailing.
In Zhang Ailing's love story, everyone must be able to feel the struggles and emotions of a woman in love. She uses her own experience to tell us how women should see themselves and each other in a relationship, and how to maintain independence and self.
First of all, women need to learn to be independent and self-conscious in love. Zhang Ailing once loved Hu Lancheng deeply, but in the end the two parted ways. One of the important reasons is that she is too dependent on each other in love and loses herself. She pinned all her all on Hu Lancheng, so much so that she couldn't extricate herself when the other party left. This reminds us that in a relationship, women need to maintain their independence and self-worth and not treat each other as their own.
Secondly, women should learn to look at love rationally. The theme of love is often ** in Zhang Ailing's works, and she has a profound depiction of the complexity and sadness of love. She told us that love is not the whole of life, nor is it the solution to all problems*** In love, we must look at love rationally, do not blindly pursue and worship, and do not give up our career and life goals for love.
Finally, women need to learn to express their feelings and needs. Zhang Ailing is often too passive and silent in love, unwilling to express her true feelings and needs. This caused her to suffer a lot of grievances and injuries in her relationship with Hu Lancheng. In modern society, women need to learn to be brave enough to express their thoughts and feelings, and to build an equal and balanced relationship with their partners.
In short, Eileen Chang's love story tells us that women should remain independent and self-conscious in love, look at love rationally, and bravely express their needs. Only in this way can we establish a healthy, equal and long-term romantic relationship and reap our own happiness. At the same time, we should also draw strength and courage from Eileen Chang's experience, bravely face all kinds of challenges and opportunities in life, and become a more independent, confident and attractive woman.
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