There are many young men who say they don't know how to chase girls and how to create topics, and the following points are for your reference:
The interest of the other party。Before the communication, you can learn about the other party's interests and hobbies through the other party's colleagues, friends and her circle of friends, etc., and take the initiative to mention them in the exchange, and ask the other party about the relevant situation, so that you can guide the other party to talk about the topics you are interested in. For example, if the other person likes to travel, you can ask the other person what places they have been to, what interesting spots they have, etc.
Current hot topics。The current hot topic is a topic that people are generally concerned about and can easily resonate with people. You can learn about current hot topics through news, social ** and other channels, and take the initiative to mention them in the communication and discuss them with the other party. For example, recent technological developments and gossip in the entertainment industry are topics that people are more concerned about.
Shared interests and experiences。Sometimes in the exchange, you will find that you have common interests and experiences with the other party, at this time, you can take the initiative to mention it, and go deeper**. For example, if you like a certain type of movie, or sports, you can share your experiences and feelings together.
The other party's job and occupation。Sometimes when you communicate with the other person, you will find that the other person's work and occupation are similar to your own, so you can take the initiative to mention it, ask the other party about their work, and share your own experience. For example, they are all workers in the IT industry, and they can work together to develop trends and technical difficulties in the industry.
tips:Be careful to be modestly when looking for common topics. Don't keep asking about the other person's situation, but also share your situation and life appropriately. At the same time, be mindful of respecting the other person's privacy and reluctance to share.
Through the above methods, I believe that we will be able to find common topics with each other and establish a more pleasant and intimate communication relationship.