"The relics 4 are not burned, and the children and grandchildren are backgammon", after the death of the elderly, these 4 kinds of relics are best preserved
When an elderly person dies at home, family members will undoubtedly feel a lot of pain. The death of the elderly who have worked for their families all their lives is very sad. In order to commemorate the old man and express his sorrow, the descendants will build a thatched hut and hold a funeral to send the old man on his last journey. According to the traditional concept of respecting ancestors and filial piety, children will also incinerate the items used by the elderly during their lifetime so that the elderly can continue to enjoy them in the next life. As the saying goes, though"The four relics are not burned, and the children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren", meaning that there are four relics after the death of an old man that are best not burned: a diary or book, a collectible, and a bed. Below, we will discuss in detail the reasons why these relics should not be burned.
*。The ancients believed that the soul of a person is immortal after death, so the coffin should not touch the ground when buried, so as not to possess ghosts. After the death of the elderly, their countenances can only remain in the memory of the past. However, for younger grandchildren, the memory of the old man's face may be blurry. When they grow up, they may not be able to remember the faces of their elders clearly. Therefore, the ** of the old man becomes an important existence and cannot be easily burned. **It is the only way for future generations to see the old man himself, and it is also the only way for future generations to feel the true affection and family affection.
Expansion: Like a gap in time, connecting us to the distant past. In **, the old man's smile seems to be still in front of us, revealing the tenderness of the years and the history of time. Each one is a precious memory, an eternal moving moment. No matter how time passes, the face in ** will always be the most precious existence in the hearts of the family, evoking people's deep attachment and nostalgia for their deceased relatives.
Diary or book.
Books are the source of wisdom and the ladder of continuous progress of human civilization. The valuable experience accumulated by the elderly in their lifetime is an irreplaceable wealth for future generations. Their life philosophies and wisdom recorded in their diaries or books can provide guidance for future generations. Behind every book and diary is the crystallization of the wisdom of life, the crystallization of hard work and the perception of the elderly. These words are not only the inheritance of ideas, but also the continuation of spiritual wealth.
Expansion: The diary is the mirror of the soul, and the text is the outpouring of the heart. In the ocean of diaries, the old man left behind the bits and pieces of life and the trajectory of emotions, which is the nursery of emotions and the preparation of thoughts. Books are like a treasure trove of wisdom, sealing the experience and perception of life for the elderly. These words carry the wisdom and blood of the elderly, are the profound thinking of future generations, and are also good teachers and helpful friends in life, guiding future generations to a better future.
Detention. The objects collected by the elderly during their lifetime represent their life's work and love. These collections can be a testimony of the years or an expression of a particular emotion. Although some people think that burning these items can allow the elderly to continue to appreciate them in another world, only by preserving these precious collections or passing them on to future generations can we better convey the emotions and memories of the elderly, so that the future can understand the perseverance and love of the elderly.
Expansion: The collection is a witness of time and an emotional sustenance. Behind each collection is the treasure of the old times and the sustenance of emotions, it is the witness of time, it is the memory of the years. These collections are not only the accumulation of materials, but also the transmission of feelings and emotional sustenance. Regardless of the value of the objects, they are an indispensable part of the lives of the elderly, the sustenance of their souls, and the wealth that future generations can never forget.
Couch. The bed, which bears witness to one-third of life, provides the elderly with a restful sleep and rest. After the death of the elderly, the bed and room layout of the old man before his death are retained, so that future generations can feel the lively atmosphere of the old man before his death and recall the sweet time of socializing with the old man. This preservation is not only a nostalgia for the deceased, but also a testimony to the warmth and harmony of the family, and a continuation of inheritance and emotion. The retention of the bed allows future generations to feel the love and affection of the elderly at all times, and also shortens the emotional distance of the family.
Expansion: The bed, carrying the life and hope of sleep, is the warmth in the ordinary, and the happiness in the comfort. The old man's bed is like a beacon of time, recording the murmurs and vicissitudes of sleep. The preservation of the bed is a respect for the life of the elderly and a memory of a happy life. The story under the bed opens like a fine fold, allowing the love and warmth of family affection to flow through it, maintaining it and keeping precious memories.
In short, after the death of the elderly, the descendants will always have respect and filial piety to incinerate the relics of the old man during his lifetime. But,"If the relics are not burned, future generations can move forward", because the old man's **, diaries or books, the old man's collections, beds, etc., are all precious treasures in the hearts of future generations. These items not only carry the spiritual heritage of the elderly, but also serve as a bridge to inherit the family's emotions and life wisdom. Retaining these objects will not only allow future generations to remember the efforts of their elders, but also enable future generations to continue to forge ahead and reach a higher level in gratitude and filial piety. May we remember this family affection and love, stay in the warmth of the family with the elderly, and feel the beauty of life and the inheritance of affection.