A beautiful and mature relationship will inevitably go through four important stages. Only by carefully understanding and going through these stages can you truly understand what is wrong between you and find a solution.
At this stage, two people are just beginning to date, full of passion and freshness. You don't want to be together all the time, you feel that each other is flawless, and even the other person's shortcomings can be tolerated. At this time, you will feel that you have a heart-to-heart connection with each other, as if you have found the person you are destined for.
At this stage, you begin to discover the differences and contradictions between you. One partner may begin to need more personal space and time, while the other may feel left out as a result. If this gap is not handled well, it is easy to cause suspicion and quarrels between the two sides.
Due to your upbringing and different perspectives, you may disagree on certain things. If these contradictions are not properly handled, they are likely to escalate and even evolve into major conflicts. At this stage, one or both of you may feel tired and helpless and begin to wonder if the relationship is worth continuing.
After a split and a merger, you eventually found a solution to the problem and are willing to grow and improve together. At this stage, the relationship between you will become more stable and mature. Although there will be some minor frictions from time to time, they will not affect your relationship anymore.
However, in real life, many people break up because they can't get through the second and third stages. They often have no ability to solve them because they have accumulated too many contradictions, and in the end they can only choose to break up.
The development of feelings is regular. The joy and sweetness of the hot love period will always be accompanied by the difficulties and challenges of the run-in period. Only those who are willing to face problems together and grow together can really go to the end. So, please cherish everyone who goes through these four stages with you. After reading and sharing** to your brother who can only, like and collect it!
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