Is it really good to go back to their respective homes during the Spring Festival?
When it comes to the Spring Festival, is the picture that comes to everyone's mind all a family reunion and lively? But recently, a young couple who have been married for five years have returned to their respective homes for four consecutive Spring Festivals, which can be described as quite "unconventional" and has also caused a lot of heated discussions among netizens. Professor Yao Huasong of Guangzhou University stood up and saidNothing bad.
Isn't there really anything wrong with that?
We have to admit that the way of life and concepts of modern people are simply upside down compared with the past.
In the past, the Spring Festival was a gathering for the whole family, but now, with more and more open-minded minds and a faster pace of life, the reunion of the Spring Festival is less and less.
On the one hand, it does reflect the pursuit of personal freedom by modern people, but on the other hand, it also makes many people of the older generation begin to worry: Is this traditional reunion flavor going to be so scattered?
To be honest, for Chinese, the Spring Festival is not just a festival, it is a cultural symbol and an emotional sustenance. When the couple went back to their respective homes, this culture and sensibility were compromised. Especially for parents, the Spring Festival is a time to look forward to the stars and the moon and the whole family reunion.
So the question is, is the "separation" Spring Festival a new fashion, or is our old tradition challenged?
In my opinion, this thing scores. If the young couple can't get together for the New Year because of work, family, etc., then this choice is understandable. But if you go back to your own home just because of your personal preference or your desire for freedom, then I don't think that's a stretch. After all, we still can't lose family responsibilities and traditional values.
So, on the issue of "separation" Spring Festival, I think we should maintain an open but cautious attitude. It is important to respect the individual's freedom of choice, as well as family and tradition. Only in this way can we find a way to celebrate the New Year in modern society that is both in line with our own hearts and does not violate the tradition.
The taste of reunion is the taste of the New Year, I really hope that don't let these good things be lost in the hands of our generation!