Hong Huang was born in an enviable political family, his mother Zhang Hanzhi is a rising star, and his father Hong Junyan is an admirable scholar at Peking University.
However, behind this glamorous family history, there is sadness. Hong Huang's grandmother, Xi Cuizhen, was originally a Qinglou woman, but was adopted as an adopted daughter by Zhang Shizhao by chance, and changed the trajectory of her life. But she couldn't completely abandon her past throughout her life. When Hong Huang was 8 years old, Xi Cuizhen died of a serious illness, and her face was pale and her hair was scattered before she died. At that time, Hong Huang was grief-stricken and suffered the pain of parting at a young age. She combed her grandmother's hair with her own hands, and this scene is still vivid in my mind.
When he was 12 years old, Hong Huang witnessed the changes in his mother's remarriage and his father's marriage to the actress. She stood on the narrow balcony of her father's Peking University dormitory, and through her father's resolute and forbearant face, Hong Huang seemed to see a new world outside the window. At that moment, she vaguely understood that the trajectory of her fate would be different from before. The girl embarked on the road of studying abroad in a foreign country, and the bustling world of the United States opened her eyes. She saw another possibility in life, and her mind was liberated. All kinds of encounters have changed Hong Huang's personality, she has learned to take responsibility for her own choices, and she also has a unique and open personality. This experience made Hong Huang develop a heart that dared to love and hate, even if she experienced the turbulent waves of life, she never gave up the pursuit of happiness. Hong Huang is not shy about her emotions, she has the courage to express them, and she is also decisive in making decisions for her feelings.
It is this temperament that makes her life different in the future. The girl Hong Huang stood in the warm sunshine of Southern California, and her study abroad life opened the door to her emancipation. On a foreign campus, she met the first person who was both academically talented and considerate. The ups and downs of adolescence sprout in two hearts. Hong Huang, like every girl, is looking forward to a romantic first love. The wedding was held on a sunny weekend, and Hong Huang smiled shyly, not expecting that he would marry so early.
However, the good times did not last long, and the first autumn of the marriage soon came. All kinds of discord gradually surfaced, and 19-year-old Hong Huang realized that the distance between two hearts could be so far away. After the divorce, Hong Huang walked alone on the campus boulevard, and she was no longer the girl who had innocent fantasies about love. It is the first time to seriously think about what kind of sincerity a person must use to enter another person's world. She understands that marriage does not and should not exist because of initial excitement and curiosity. It needs more touching and tolerance from both sides in the trivial matters of life. 26-year-old Hong Huang returned to China for development, and at a friend's party, she met Chen Kaige, a popular filmmaker.
Chen Kaige's first impression of her was that the bookish atmosphere and talent coexisted. He has a charm with his own aura, which is also in line with all the imagination of the artist in the girl's heart. Hong Huang couldn't help but fall into this illusionary love, and the two held a wedding in the United States in 1989. She smiled happily and proudly took her husband's arm, wanting to declare to everyone that this man belonged to hers. The sweetness of the newlywed rippled in Hong Huang's heart, until one day she found that Chen Kaige had never lacked beautiful girls who admired him. These figures who stood in the spotlight and took a group photo with him pierced Hong Huang's soft underbelly like sharp knives. Jealousy gradually erodes her heart, and Hong Huang finds herself gradually becoming a shrew she doesn't even know. In 1991, she understood that she could no longer bear the torture and chose to divorce Chen Kaige.
After the divorce, she sat alone on a bench in Beijing, lamenting the trauma that this genius man had brought her. Hong Huang understands that ideals can be very plump, but the reality is skinny. She had to accept the latter. In this way, Hong Huang announced the end of his love with the movie dreamer and continued to move forward alone. After several twists and turns in the relationship, the middle-aged Hong Huang still has hope for love. She didn't believe that there would be no one in the world who would treat her sincerely.
In 2004, Hong Huang met carpenter Yang Xiaoping in order to decorate the house. This ordinary man does not have the talent of Chen Kaige, nor the personable demeanor of a diplomat. But when Yang Xiaoping helped Hong Huang build a small home brick by brick, Hong Huang suddenly found that a warmth within her reach made her feel more at ease than any castle in the sky. With Yang Xiaoping, Hong Huang felt the long-lost lightness. She'd laugh as they cooked dinner together, and she would laugh heartlessly at a joke that made him wrestle. In 2008, she adopted her 6-month-old daughter, Pingping. When he picked up the babbling little guy, Hong Huang burst into tears instantly. She seemed to see her grandmother's once kind smiling face and felt the warmth she had not felt for a long time.
Hong Huang is no longer the woman who regarded feelings as child's play and showed her face. She learned to walk slowly, and learned to build her inner castle carefully with her hands, like Yang Xiaoping. Hong Huang understands that the most important thing in a life under one roof is mutual tacit tolerance. This time, she finally found the most important person in her life. Hong Huang hit the south wall of her feelings three times and twice, and she also blamed herself for the arrangement of fate. But the passage of time finally made her see that the most resentful and favorite in her life was actually her family.
At the age of 12, watching her mother remarry, Hong Huang once complained that her decision was extremely selfish. Later, she also faced a marriage change, and she realized that her feelings could not be forced. This resentment has also gradually disappeared on her growth path. One night after the second divorce at the age of 29, Hong Huang faced an empty room, and she suddenly missed her parents. She longed for them to sit across from her and feel sorry for their daughter's misfortune as every normal parent does. Even a short stay of companionship and a few words of comfort were enough to warm her wounded heart. This may be Hong Huang's deepest resentment in this life, because she knows that this has become an irreparable regret in her life.
Now Hong Huang has her own small family, and Pingping and Yang Xiaoping are the people she loves the most in her life. She would take care of them with both hands, just as her mother had done to her. February** Dynamic Incentive Program