"Cram schools can buy houses! ”
In the second half of high school, classmates have a heavy academic load and parents have high expectations for their children. With the comprehensive implementation of quality education in our country,"Double minus"It has not really reduced the academic burden of the majority of primary and secondary school students. Especially for new students, while facing academic pressure, they also face many competitors, and many parents will send their children to participate in tutoring classes. It is often said that the gaokao is an invisible battle, and a candidate's score is related to whether they can be admitted to the ideal university. Therefore, parents do not hesitate to spend a lot of money to nurture their children.
1) Holidays for the elderly: make parents worry about cram schools.
The summer vacation of the third year of high school is not as relaxing as the normal summer vacation, because they have to suspend school to make up for it, and parents are afraid of delaying their studies. Even if you don't want to tutor, you will be pulled in unconsciously when you see that everyone around you is tutoring"Make-up quagmire"。Therefore, most high school graduates fall in love with cram schools during the summer vacation, and even if the tuition fees are so high that they are distressing, they have to pay for them themselves. Faced with such a situation, parents have called for relaxation, but for parents in the third year of high school, summer vacation is a tutoring.
2.High costs: Parents are frustrated by it.
At a high school in Shanghai, parents hope to find one for their children"There is personality"teachers, despite the high cost, parents still have to get a good score for their children. The parent's post on the Internet that "tuition can change a house" makes people can't help but sigh. If the calculation is correct, the cram school is 1,200 yuan, plus three courses of language, mathematics and English, a total of more than 3,600 yuan, and after three days, it is more than 10,000 yuan, and the high tuition fee is unacceptable to parents. For the average family, the annual tuition fee is as high as 50,000 to 100,000 yuan, which is definitely a huge expense. While some people can afford it, for most people, it's a pretty big number.
Weighing the benefits of teaching against the cost of teaching: a dilemma for parents.
The fees for teaching vary, some range from 700 to 800 yuan, but no matter how you calculate it, it will not be less together. Parents would rather spend more money to get their children to get better grades. However, there are also people who question this, feeling that it is completely determined by talent, and that it does not even help in class. Netizens also left messages, and some suggested that parents can save tuition fees as a treat"Start-up capital"Because reading is not the only way. For various opinions and choices, parents should weigh the pros and cons when doing or not doing tutoring, and should recognize their children rationally and not blindly follow.
The Importance of Correction and Behavior: The Ultimate Research Purpose.
Different tutoring classes have different requirements for different students, and the effectiveness of tutoring depends on the quality of the students themselves. As long as you have a clear purpose and are willing to work hard, then the effect will be better when you attend a tutorial class. However, if a child does not like to read, just to meet the expectations of his parents, then he will only waste his time and money. As far as parents are concerned, more attention should be paid to developing good English learning habits so that students can experience the true meaning of English. Reading is not just about coping, it also helps children develop better. Parents should pay attention to their children's wishes and create a good learning conditions and atmosphere for them, but they should control them to a certain extent and not let the fees for make-up classes be too high.
5) The dilemma of the elderly's recovery: Awakening is crucial.
In high school, parents need to be rational enough to think about whether or not to teach their children. Find out if a child really wants to learn or if they are being swayed by external factors"Follow the trend", which is critical. Spending money to hire someone to make up the class is not satisfactory, and it is really not worth it. Paying attention to children's inner needs and giving appropriate guidance and help is conducive to children's healthy development.
Conclusion. Parents should consider the specific situation of their children to determine whether psychological counseling is necessary. It is necessary to have a clear understanding of the students' learning mentality and motivation, prevent "following the crowd", and not let the money bought with money go down the drain. The road to study is a bumpy road, and children must be allowed to experience the true meaning of reading, and they must not only regard reading as an exam. In order for family education to achieve the desired results, it must revolve around the healthy development of children. Together, let us care about children's development and lead them to victory.