The "new type of dependence" spreads in society and is invisible to parents
The generation of a new type of addictive behavior.
In the early days of the rapid development of the Internet, parents' concept of children's education was gradually strengthened. In such an era of highly open information, social media has appeared"A new type of gnawing old people"、"A new type of loss of belonging"and other network terms. In the past, we can often clearly see a kind of "college student" who "relies solely on parents", that is, those who do not go out to work and rely only on their parents to make a living"."Gnaw the old"”。However, today's students have made great progress in both IQ and EQ, even"Gnaw the old"All taken"Gnaw the old"way, and it's hard to spot.
The first manifestation of this new type of "dependence" problem is the learning of students. Take his former classmate Kobayashi as an example, he was a failed student back then, and he was later admitted to a junior high school. After that, he entered the school with excellent grades, and after graduation, he was fully prepared for the graduate school entrance examination. Everything Xiaolin did to prepare for the exam was recognized by the parents, who all expressed their opinions on her without reservation. However, Kobayashi was too anxious, and he made a mistake in his first test and ended with a failing grade. However, Kobayashi gave up on his desire to study. However, when it came time for the second exam, Xiao Lin often went out with his friends, and he always came back late. Obviously, he still didn't pass this assessment. Even so, Xiao Lin still had to take the test for his three sons, which made his parents very helpless.
People like Kobayashi are very common around us. Many college graduates hope to improve their education through the college entrance examination, but gradually by"Older age"This curse is trapped. They can't go to college and don't have the desire to work, so the only thing they can do is rely on their parents at home to support their education. This new type of "reliance" is called "the new generation of "gnawing at the old generation", and those unwitting parents are boasting about the great achievements of their children.
Analysis of the causes of addiction to new drugs.
The new problem of "gnawing at the old" is closely linked to China's current social and economic situation and people's ideological concepts. At present, the employment situation of college graduates in China is grim, and many people choose to study for a master's degree to enhance their competitiveness. The Graduate Record Examination is becoming more and more competitive, and it is becoming more and more difficult to enter the banking industry. After several efforts, some students gradually lost interest in work, began to rely on their parents at home, stretched out their hands for clothes, and opened their mouths for food, and gradually lost themselves.
There is no doubt that for students, the gaokao is the best way to improve their education and technology. Although the graduate school exam is hard, if you are willing to work hard, there is always a silver lining. However, many college students encounter some difficulties in the learning process, which makes them afraid to take the "first step" of learning English. Instead of passively looking for a job, it is better to pretend that they are preparing for exams and preparing to take the public office*** In fact, the most difficult thing for today's college graduates is not to find a job, but that they do not have the courage to face the facts, and then lose their jobs. It is necessary to put on a correct posture, learn to be humble, take the initiative to face it, and gain practical experience. Money grows step by step, while experience is accumulated step by step. In any case, it is impossible to achieve success overnight. Even those young college students with excellent educational backgrounds, if they don't have real skills, they will not be valued by the company. Therefore, only through continuous accumulation can we obtain the recognition of the enterprise.
Reflections and Suggestions on New Internet Addiction.
At present, college graduates are facing severe employment pressure, and they must establish their own development direction and formulate career plans as soon as possible. If you want to get the job done smoothly, you need to plan well. Otherwise, some people will be eliminated. Only hard work can lead to victory.
Parents should have a good attitude towards their children's education and growth. We should not dictate to them, let alone make them dependent. Parents should cultivate their children's outlook on life and values, and establish their own ideals in life. At the appropriate time, children should be appropriately encouraged and supported, so that children can receive appropriate guidance and assistance in the learning process.
College graduates should establish their own concept of career choice and do a good job in their career planning. For the job search pressure of college students, we should not completely trust the words of parents, let alone easily escape from reality. We must have a good working attitude, be good at discovering opportunities, and have a skill to improve the competitiveness of work. College students should pay attention to closely linking practical work with practical work in their employment work, and pay attention to both their studies and practical work. In addition, it is necessary to pay attention to expanding the scope of communication, strengthening communication skills, strengthening cooperation with others, and enhancing team spirit.
All in all, this new problem of network dependency has caused people to think. Parents and college graduates should face up to the facts and establish a correct concept of career choice. Only by relying on their own diligence and hard work can they be able to compete in the society and achieve their life ideals.