My name is Yang Kai, I am 38 years old, and I am an ordinary office worker. My wife, Li Xiaofang, and I have been married for 10 years and have a son, Yang Li, who is now in the sixth grade.
Ten years ago, when Xiaofang and I first got married, we lived in the suburbs of the city. We rented a small house and lived on a tight budget.
Fortunately, we love each other and think about each other, so we are also happy.
Later, I was promoted and raised, and we finally saved up enough for a down payment and bought a second-hand house in the city. After a few more years, our son Yang Li was born, and our life became more and more satisfying.
However, the good times were short-lived. In the past year, Xiaofang's sister Li Xiuying has been in trouble, and we found out that Xiaofang has been privately funding her sister for the past ten years, and secretly borrowed hundreds of thousands behind my back.
Dad, I don't know how to do this math problem. Lili walked over and handed me the homework book.
I put the newspaper down and explained it to him as I read the question. Lili quickly came to his senses, nodded and went back to do the question.
At this moment, Xiaofang walked over from the kitchen, her face looking not quite right.
Xiaofang, what's wrong with you? I don't look good. I asked with concern.
Xiaofang sighed, sat down and whispered, "I received a call from Xiuying today, she said that she has been in some trouble recently, and she hopes I can lend her some money."
We don't have a lot of deposits again. It's hard for me.
I looked at her in amazement, and a little unhappiness rose in my heart. For so many years, I didn't know that she had secretly lent money to her sister, and now that my sister has come to ask for help, it is really hard for me to accept.
Xiaofang, you can't borrow money for your sister anymore. I said solemnly, "We also need money for our families, and you can't just help people all the time and ignore ourselves."
I know, but I can't bear to see my sister in trouble. Xiaofang's eyes turned red, "She is my sister after all."
Dad, if your aunt is in trouble, you can help her. Lili interjected.
I was about to explain it to my son when the doorbell rang suddenly. I walked over and opened the door, and there was a middle-aged man in ragged clothes, his face tired.
Hello, may I ask who you are? I asked politely.
My name is Ma Jin, and I am Xiaofang's brother-in-law. The man said.
Ma Jin begins to tell about the trouble he and so-young are in. It turned out that Xiuying owed a loan shark and was arrested by someone from the loan company.
He really had no choice but to come and ask Xiaofang for help.
Hearing this, Xiaofang covered her mouth, tears rolling in her eyes. I also had mixed feelings in my heart, and sighed secretly.
At this time, the doorbell rang again...
I opened the door, and my uncle Li Jianjun stood outside the door. He is Xiaofang's younger brother, and we usually have a good relationship.
Brother, I heard that your family is in some trouble, so I will bring 50,000 yuan to you. Jianjun said with a smile.
I looked at him in surprise, I didn't expect him to be so generous. Xiaofang excitedly ran over and hugged Jianjun, crying silently.
Brother, you can take it, I think you need money. That's really nothing, you're welcome. "Jianjun handed me the money.
I took the money with mixed feelings. Xiaofang immediately said: "Brother Kai, give me the money, I'll go and rescue Xiuying now!" ”。
I hesitated, but I still didn't give it to her directly: "I want to think about it again." This money cannot be spent arbitrarily, and we have more important uses for it.
What use could be more important than saving lives? Xiaofang said puzzled.
If you think about it, our savings are running out, and Lili is going to college, and this money is just enough to pay for his tuition.
Xiaofang was silent, tears streaming down her face: "I know you still mind that I borrowed money behind your back." But Xiuying really can't ignore it.
At this time, the son spoke up: "Mom, I agree with Dad's opinion. This money should be set aside for my tuition.
Xiaofang looked at our father and son, tears raining down. She suddenly hugged me, like she had done on our wedding night all those years ago.
I'm sorry, I was wrong. From now on, I will tell you everything about my family, and we will decide together. She whispered in my ear.
I also got excited and hugged her tightly. Lili ran over, and our family finally re-established a deep trust and love.
Early the next morning, I called Jianjun and told him that we had decided to keep the money for Lili's tuition.
Since then, Xiaofang and I have been actively raising funds for the university. We are frugal and try to save money.
As the days passed, Lili grew up, and we were looking forward to his future.
After many months, one day Jianjun suddenly called ** and told us a good news. It turned out that Xiuying finally left the loan company and returned home safely.
Our family was overjoyed to hear the good news. Xiaofang said, fortunately, I insisted on keeping the money, otherwise it would have been wasted.
This incident became the most valuable experience for our family. It cemented my relationship with Xiaofang and made us partners who trust and understand each other more.
In this way, time passed day by day, and in a blink of an eye, Lili was already in high school. As the only child in the family, he has always been the pearl of our palms.
Perhaps because we are overly spoiled, Lili has become a little willful and indulgent. He often stayed up late and his exam scores deteriorated.
One day, Lili said that he didn't want to study anymore and wanted to go abroad to see. Xiaofang and I were taken aback and persuaded him to study hard and take the university entrance examination in the future.
Son, you can't mess around like this! I said solemnly, "Your most important task now is to study, and you can talk about it later when you go abroad."
Yes, Lili, listen to your dad. Xiaofang also persuaded.
You only suppress me, you never care what I think! Lili shouted, and then rushed out the door.
Xiaofang sat on the sofa and couldn't cry. I was also anxious, but I advised her not to be too sad.
This child is now strong, and we need to guide him patiently. I said.
At this moment, Lili's uncle Jianjun came to **, saying that Lili found him and told him everything about it, and he wanted to find Jianjun to borrow money to go abroad.
Xiaofang and I hurriedly drove to Jianjun's house, where Lili was also there.
Son, what do you say to your uncle? I asked with concern.
Lili was sullen: "I want to go abroad to see, but you don't support me at all." ”
It's not that we don't support it, it's that it's not a good time. Only by dedicating yourself to your studies will you have more choices in the future.
Xiaofang also had red circles in her eyes and persuaded to stand up. Jianjun also said that he understood our position, but also suggested that we should not go too extreme.
After graduating from high school, you can go to university abroad, or study in China for a few years before going abroad to change schools.
All three of us thought it was a good suggestion. Lili finally nodded.
Well, I know you're doing it for my good. I'm going to try to finish high school. Lili finally relented.
Watching Lili grow day by day, we will continue to patiently guide him and help him become an independent and responsible person.
In the blink of an eye, Lili graduated from high school. He was admitted to a good university and majored in computer science, which is also his specialty and interest.
So, we cleared out the storage room at home and asked someone to help decorate it into a small room with desks, computers, stereos and other things that belong to standing.
University life went smoothly for Lili. He gradually adapted to the new environment, made a group of like-minded friends, and was also interested in professional courses, and his grades improved steadily.
During the winter and summer vacations, he would go home and tell us interesting things that happened on campus. Xiaofang often joked that he was becoming more and more eloquent.
Once, Lili invited a few roommates to his home. We specially prepared a sumptuous dinner for them.
Uncle and aunt, Lili has told us about you many times! One roommate said, "You guys have a good family!" ”
When Xiaofang and I heard this, we couldn't help but smile at each other, happy and moved.
Lili was also a little embarrassed and said, "Okay, okay, I'm not as filial as you say." I've caused them a lot of trouble before.
But you're grown up now and really give us a lot of comfort. Xiaofang said with slightly red eyes.
That night, watching Lili and his friends have a good time, we felt that he was fully mature and capable of facing all the challenges of life.
Now that he is about to graduate from university, he plans to continue his graduate studies. We will continue to support his decision and help him achieve his dreams.
Watching our son grow up day by day, we sincerely feel a new life experience and joy. This may be the most rewarding thing about being a parent.
Lili was successfully admitted to graduate school, studying in the direction of artificial intelligence that he was most interested in.
On the first day of graduate school, we drove Lili to his new dormitory. Carrying the luggage and settling everything, the three of us stood in front of the window, each sighing.
Mom, Dad, thank you for nurturing and supporting me over the years. Lili suddenly said, "I will work hard to complete my studies, and I will also take care of myself to reassure you."
Son, we are glad that you have grown up**. No matter what comes your way in the future, remember that you can always count on us.
Yes, mom will always have your back. You have to take care of yourself, and you have to come home to see us often. Xiaofang couldn't hold back her tears.
Got it, Mom, don't be too reluctant to me. Lili smiled and gave Xiaofang a big hug.
The parting moment is always touching. Before leaving, Xiaofang told Lili to establish various details of life. I'm also worried that he won't get used to living alone.
Back at home, looking at the empty house, Xiaofang suddenly felt a little unaccustomed. In the past, there was always standing laughter and talking in the house.
He's grown up, and it's time to fly away from us to pursue his life. We should also learn to adapt to this emptiness.
Xiaofang nodded, and a smile appeared in her eyes again: "Yes, we should be happy for him." It also means that we have fulfilled our mission as parents, doesn't it? ”。
I looked at her with relief. As a couple, we are sublimated in this moment.
Nowadays, whenever we think of Lili, we feel relieved and proud. Watching children grow up is the happiest thing for parents.
Lili's time in graduate school was full and happy. His mentors are top experts in this area and have given him a lot of opportunities to research and learn.
Under the guidance of his supervisor, Lili chose a challenging topic for research. This project combines cutting-edge technologies such as artificial intelligence and machine learning, and Lili has invested a lot of time and energy.
Sometimes we call him late at night, and he is still writing programs and debugging systems in the laboratory. To pass the time, he would tell us interesting things about the experiment.
Xiaofang listened fascinated, and exclaimed from time to time. I listened to Lili's energetic narration, and I was sincerely grateful.
Two years passed in a blink of an eye, and Lili successfully obtained a master's degree. After graduating, he accepted the advice of his supervisor and continued to study for a doctorate in school, because his supervisor was optimistic about his potential and research ability.
Dad, do you think I should go to a PhD? "One day he stood in the ** and asked for my opinion.
If you like academic research, your mom and I will support your decision. I said.
Lili finally decided to read on. He said that his mentor promised to stay on after graduation to teach. It's also his dream job.
Today, Lili is already a well-known young scholar in this field. Occasionally, he is invited to give academic presentations at industry conferences.
Last month, Lili suddenly said that he wanted to ask us to go to his city for a few days. We readily agreed.
At this meeting, we found out that our son has matured a lot. He confidently introduced us to various projects, and spoke with the spirit of a scholar.
Mom, you see, this is the research team I lead... Lili pointed to the ** on the screen and said proudly.
We talked to him a lot and couldn't be prouder of him. The son has already established himself on the academic path, and I think this is a great comfort to the parents.
Watching him drift away, we watched with relief. Because we know that children will eventually have their own world, and the best thing we can do is to understand, respect, and bless.
In the blink of an eye, Lili has graduated with a doctorate and stayed at his alma mater as a full-time professor. In order to facilitate classes and research, he also applied for a studio apartment on campus.
Once, Lili invited us to his apartment for a sitting. We drove over and brought him a lot of groceries and foodstuffs.
Mom, I'm not a kid anymore, so I don't need you to worry so much about my life. Lili said as he smiled and helped us put things away.
For parents, you will always be a child who needs to be cared for. Xiaofang said with a smile.
The apartment is not big, but it is simply and warmly furnished. His degree certificate hangs on the wall, and his desk is filled with books.
Are you busy every day right now? I asked him.
Also, the school gave me a lot of freedom to set up courses and apply for research projects. He said.
We exchanged pleasantries for a while, and Lili said that he was going back to the office to prepare for tomorrow's class, and then took his leave.
On the way home, Xiaofang and I chatted and stood up. Xiaofang sighed that her son was completely on his own, and she was proud and happy for him.
We worked hard to bring him up, and now we can finally let go. Xiaofang said. I nodded, and it was.
One day, Lili called**, and there was something wrong with his tone. When we asked with concern, he said that he had recently encountered some research bottlenecks and was under great pressure.
We patiently comforted him, showed that we understood his difficulties, and also reminded him to adjust his state and not to be too self-suppressed.
You've done a great job. Sometimes it's normal for things to go their way out. Remember to relax and everything will be fine.
hung up**, Xiaofang was still a little worried. I took her hand and said that Lili was mature enough to handle his own problems.
Nowadays, whenever we think of Lili, we are sincerely proud and grateful. Watching children grow up is the happiest thing to do as a parent.
With our encouragement, Lili gradually found a new direction in his research. He adjusted his mentality, communicated more with his team members, and finally regained his passion for work.
One day, he called, and his tone was much more relaxed: "Mom, I have made new progress in my research recently, and my mood is much better!" You're right, I can't put too much pressure on myself.
That's great! Mom knew you could get over it. Xiaofang said happily.
Yes, we must learn to adjust our mentality to face difficulties, which is also a process of growth. You did very well. I said too.
Thank you for your continued support and encouragement. I will continue to work hard! Lili said.
In this way, Lili's research work has entered a smooth stage again. His ** has also been published in top academic journals and is well-known in the industry.
One day, Lili suddenly called**, and his tone was mysterious: "Mom, Dad, I have something important to tell you, but keep it secret!" ”
What's the matter? Say it! Xiaofang was very curious.
I'm in love! The object is Huahua, a lecturer in the computer department of this university, and she is my junior sister, you should have seen it.
Really? Great! Xiaofang was as excited as a little girl. I am also very happy for my son.
Flowey is a very nice girl. You know when you see her, she's smart, capable, and gentle. We are very happy together.
And when are you going to ... Xiaofang hesitated to ask.
The matter of getting married has not been discussed yet, we have only been together for a few months! But I believe that Huahua is my soulmate in this life.
Xiaofang said excitedly that she must invite Huahua to come to her house for dinner. Lili smiled and said yes. We are all very happy that our son has found a happy other half.
The son gradually has his own home, which is a major life event. As parents, we wish him well and look forward to building a warm and happy new family.