Why do people who have come out of the bottom no longer maintain relationships and only enjoy alone

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-02-01

Have you ever gone from peak to low? Then you might know what it feels like.

When you are in the middle of the day, everyone will look up at you and want to shine with your light.

But when you are bleak, or even become sensitive, suspicious, and difficult to get along with, the attitude of the people around you towards you is different.

After seeing the warmth and cold, people who have been reborn from the trough no longer maintain relationships, and begin to focus on themselves and enjoy their alone time.

This is not only valid at the peak of your career, but also when a woman is in the prime of her beauty, and when you are in your 20s and 30s, you are at the peak of your appearance.

Many beauties were very tight at that time, and they had not yet suffered from love, but they still had the light in their eyes, and they still had the energy to dress themselves well, and they also had a graceful figure.

Whoever sees her will like her, there are countless suitors around her, praised by passers-by, and held by everyone.

But how many people really love her? The person who seems to be sincere and marries her back home may also change his mind when she loses her beauty.

For example, in the plot of the TV series "If Running Is My Life", the heroine is safe with good height and appearance, and has a good personality, and has many suitors.

She chose the rich second generation who loved her and was gentle, but she didn't expect that after her legs were gone, the other party still put on a posture of willingness to share the joys and hardships at first.

But when she was inferior and sensitive, she began to change, not wanting to endure her temper and hating to see her legs.

In the end, it ended in divorceWhen she was at a low point, she saw the true heart of a man, and the previous flattery was only because she was perfect at that time.

When you're doing well, you're surrounded by good people because a lot of people want a little bit of the benefit, and just looking at your beauty, they're happy.

At this time, the friendliness and flattery you get are not necessarily sincere, of course, there are sincere people, but they must be very few, so I have been sharing with you how to distinguish.

There are even some friends with good character who will keep their distance from you during your peak hours, because they don't want to be misunderstood and want to take advantage of you.

It's a pity that many people lose their minds at the peak of their time, thinking that what they see is real, and they think that they are powerful and can do anything.

Numbed by vanity, he often makes wrong decisions because of a few words of popularity.

When you have nothing, you see the real thing, because there is no need to pretend.

If he can't get any benefit from pretending, why is he so tired?

Just like many men with poor conditions, in order to win the hearts of beautiful women, they will do a lot of flattering things to make women believe that they love each other deeply.

This affection will add points to him! The other person may never have been treated like this, and they will believe that he really loves him.

But when you get married, it's different.

Now that he is married and his interests are together, it is difficult for you not to spend money for him, so he is too lazy to pretend.

There is a man who has read all the women's social platforms before marriage, understands her preferences, and has always been very enthusiastic and positive.

The man is good-looking, but he is poor, the woman has a successful career, and she is old, she doesn't care if he has no money, as long as she loves her, she gets married in 3 months.

He changed immediately after marriage! Lying on the sofa every day as a potato, her attitude has become very bad, and she has been borrowing money from her, and if she doesn't borrow it, she will turn her face.

He doesn't have to go to the trough, as long as he pretends to be there, he won't get more, so he doesn't bother to pretend.

If the trough of your career will be more obvious, when you are prosperous, everyone will be kind to you.

But when you fail, it's good to maintain a general attitude, because you are no longer valuable to others, and then you will see who you are usually.

If you have expected people to be kind and helpful at the peak, and the other party also has a conscience, then they will definitely pull you to be good to you.

People who have no conscience, even if they take more from you at that time, will avoid you at this time.

If your relatives have no love, even your parents won't want to see you during the trough period, for fear that you will borrow money from them.

These true faces are ugly, but thatIt's all real, and it's very clear how deep your relationship with the other person is.

It's good when it's good, and when you hurt him, or can't give him good, you will see the real thing.

After experiencing this kind of thing, this person will see the truth of interpersonal relationships.

People who are truly capable and believe that they will succeed are likely to make a comeback.

After reading all these human truths, he will no longer believe in those clusters when he succeeds, and he will no longer believe that the other party likes him very much because of a few good words from others.

I don't want to spend time on these shallow relationships anymore, I just want to love myself and the people who matter to me more.

Many people only give money to those who really love him after they succeed, which is a sign of sobriety.

People who don't love him get the benefits, they will only take it for granted, and they will think about more.

People who have been reborn from the trough no longer bother to maintain shallow relationships with their false selves, they prefer the real thing.

The new thinking you learn and the time you spend with people who truly love you are more important.

The person who truly loves you only wants you to be good, not that you are good to him, and he will give his time and benefits to such people.

Live the real life, instead of listening to hypocritical words and wasting time with insincere people.

When you are good, it is normal for others to treat you well, and it is true that you can respect you when you are bad.

People with good character associate with you, never in exchange for any benefits, just because they appreciate you and like you.

They may want the emotional value you give, but that's normal and reasonable.

Originally, if a person has no money, no appearance, and no ability to give people emotional value, and always gives people negative energy, no one will like him.

So in the trough, be kind!

Don't talk about how pitiful and unfair you are by grabbing people, but know how to pay for the people around you and give them love.

You must think positively about everything in order to make a comeback again, and after success, you must know how to repay those who accompany you through the valley, they are the treasures of your life.

After many people get through the difficulties, they are the first to give up the person who has accompanied themBecause he felt he could find something better.

The objects that can be met during the trough period are naturally not as good as those that can be found during the peak period, so they are replaced.

People like this will fall again sooner or later, because there is no gratitude.

If you are in the prime of your life, you should know this beforehandDon't waste time on useless socializing, and cherish the people who truly love you.

Learn to see the truth and falsehood, stop being moved by cheap paying, and live a real life.

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