Recently, the news that a divorced woman in Guangdong was kicked out of her parents' house by her brother has attracted widespread attention on the Internet. After a failed marriage, the woman returned to her parents' home with her young children, hoping to find a touch of warmth and comfort here. However, what she never expected was that on the day of the Lantern Festival, she was ordered to be evicted by her own brother.
Such a story may sound incredible, but if we taste it carefully, it is not difficult to find some of the social issues reflected in it. In the minds of many people, especially in places where some traditional concepts are deeply rooted, divorce seems to have become an unspeakable "stain". It seems that as long as the word "divorce" is touched, the person will automatically be put into a "separate book" and lose the qualification as a family member.
But I would say that divorce is not the original sin. Everyone has the right to pursue a happy life, and when marriage comes to an end, choosing divorce is for a better life for themselves and their children in the future. This does not mean that the person becomes a "loser" or an "outcast". On the contrary, it is a brave and wise choice.
As family members, we should give support and understanding to the divorcee, rather than indifference and discrimination. Home should be the warmest harbor, no matter how stormy it is outside, there is always a light left for you at home. But what happened to this woman shows us the other side of home - indifference and ruthlessness. Her brother and mother, as her closest people, chose to stand opposite her at this critical moment, which was undoubtedly the greatest damage to her soul.
I can't help but ask, can such a family relationship still be called "home"? Shouldn't home be a place of unconditional acceptance and tolerance? Why is it that even the most basic sympathy and understanding cannot be achieved here?
We are living in an era of rapid development, and our ideas should also keep pace with the times. Divorce is not something to be seen and should not be a reason to be ostracized by your family. On the contrary, we should give more care and support to divorced people to help them regain their confidence and courage in life.
At the same time, we also need to reflect on ourselves, do we also hold similar feudal remnants? Did you inadvertently cast a strange look at the divorcee? If there is, then it's time for a change. We should be more open and inclusive in the face of life's choices and challenges.