It has been said that love and cough are things that cannot be hidden. The same goes for crushes, no matter how much you try to hide them, the flaws will still be revealed. Not only the crush of a married woman, but also the crush of an ordinary woman?
In the emotional world, a married woman's crush is like a silent drama, full of tension and elusive. They oscillate between excitement and responsibility, using all sorts of subtle ways to hide their emotions.
Of course, the I Ching does not encourage or support married women having crushes. She just analyzes the phenomenon objectively.
1.The eyes are flowing, but always outside of you.
When a married woman has a crush on you, her eyes will be subconsciously attracted to you, but she will soon look away, as if she is afraid that you will see through her. Heart. Her eyes wander but are always outside, like a choreographed dance, she is both a dancer and an audience, indulging in the dance but always staying awake.
As the book says, "The eye is a traitor to the soul." Her eyes had revealed the secrets of her heart, but she was not willing to admit it yet.
2.The text flickered, and there was something in it.
Married women are especially cautious when talking to you, always speaking in a quieter and quieter voice, as if every word has a hidden meaning.
She may express her love for you in subtle ways, such as complimenting your taste or caring about your life, but she quickly drops off the topic and doesn't give you the opportunity to dig deeper and change.
The flickering of this text is like a game of hide and seek. She wants you to find her, but she's afraid you'll actually find her.
3.Contradictory behavior at near and far.
Although a married woman has unrequited love for you, she will also show contradictory behavior because of her inner conflict and sense of responsibility. She may take the initiative to approach you and share every detail of her life with you, but if you want to go further, she will distance herself from you and keep a certain distance.
This pattern of behavior, near and far, is similar to a cat playing with a mouse. Cats want to catch you, but are afraid to hurt you.
4. Emotional instability and uncertainty.
In the process of secretly falling in love with you, the feelings of a married woman are also changeable and elusive. She may be excited by your words or irritated by the look in your eyes.
These mood swings are not because there is something really wrong with her, but because she does not have full control over her mind and tries to hide her feelings for you.
As the book explains, "Love is as unpredictable as the weather." "The reason why she keeps changing her degree in front of you is because she doesn't want you to see through her heart.
5. Deliberately hiding but always showing off.
When a married woman has a crush on you, she will deliberately hide her feelings, but always show them unconsciously. When he is dating you, he may act very natural and generous, as if he has no feelings for you, but he may reveal his true feelings in some small details.
For example, they may suddenly be silent when they hear your name, or be the first to reach out when you need help. These seemingly insignificant details faithfully depict her inner feelings.
Conclusion: A married woman's crush is like a war without gunpowder. They are torn between heartbeat and responsibility and hide their emotions in all sorts of subtle ways.
But love is always hard to hide. No matter how hard you try to suppress your emotions, there will always be details that will reveal your inner secrets.
Perhaps in the face of such feelings, we should give each other more understanding and tolerance. After all, in the world of love, everyone has the right to pursue happiness. I hope that all married women can find their own happy home and find a balance of love between responsibility and excitement.