In this troubled world, every life carries unknown pain and unsolvable sorrow. However, those who truly grasp the true meaning of life will deeply understand a simple truth: instead of consuming life in an inner struggle, it is better to learn to let go.
After all, happiness is not for everyone, and forgiveness is not easy. The real strength is not only persistence, but also knowing how to let go. Only when we really decide to let go and say to ourselves can we be gentle with ourselves, and we can no longer be enemies of ourselves and self-consumption on the road of life, but enjoy every moment of existence with peace of mind and tranquility.
Learn to let go of gains and losses, and choose to forget it.
In the face of the ups and downs of life, we need to learn a mindset of forgetting. The more we argue and entangle, the more we will fall into anxiety, the more difficult it is to let go, and the more we cannot let go of ourselves. There is nothing more difficult in life than reconciling with yourself. Tell yourself to forget it, this is not a sign of weakness, nor is it timidity, but a strong heart.
Just like those who can't get fame and fortune, choose to forget it with a peaceful heart, let go of gains and losses, and we can experience simple happiness in ordinary life.
Ernest Hemingway once said, "As long as you don't care about gains and losses, there is nothing in life that cannot be overcome." "In the ordinary journey of life, no matter who you are, you will encounter insurmountable ups and downs, and at different stages of life, everyone will have their own sorrows, pressures and pains. Only by truly choosing to let go and truly letting go can we find a place in life that is sufficient to place our souls, find peace of mind, and find light.
In this way, nothing in life can stop us from moving forward.
Forget it, it is also a kind of wisdom, a reflection of the inner world of the strong.
Let go of resentment and choose to forget it.
The world is impermanent, there are some frictions, conflicts, and even some grievances. However, if we are always calculating, always unable to let go, and always dwelling on past grievances, then our lives will become heavy and exhausting.
In fact, the grievances between us and others are always temporary and will always pass. If we are always dwelling on the past, always unable to let go, always allowing ourselves to be in pain, then we are only torturing ourselves, destroying ourselves.
Oscar Wilde once said, "If you can't let go of hatred, you will let thorns crawl all over your heart." "Only by letting go of hatred can we be gentle with ourselves, and in the process of letting go of ourselves, we can understand that we don't have to get along with ourselves, we don't have to be enemies with ourselves, and we don't have to hurt ourselves anymore.
Therefore, choosing to let go of grievances is the greatest sobriety in life and the most gentle choice for yourself.
Let go of the entanglement and choose to forget it.
The most fearful thing in life is not that you can't get along with others, but that you can't get along with yourself. A person's true transparency also lies in knowing how to be at peace with what happens, no longer lingering, and no longer lingering.
Many times, those who seem to be unwilling, the injustices will eventually pass, because time will dilute everything.
Mr. Ji Xianlin said in "Life at Ease" that if you are always entangled, then the pain will be fresh and vivid all the time, and it will torture you violently and cruelly all the time, it is better to be indifferent, indifferent, and indifferent. ”
Life should not be entangled in the past, nor should it be entangled in the future, because entanglement will only make us unable to let go, make us unable to think about it, and let us not forget.
In the end, it was like a dose of poison, slowly torturing itself.
If you have wisdom, the more mature you are, you will definitely make yourself understand that in this world, people have different joys and sorrows, and not everyone lives under the same sky.
Therefore, try to make yourself as transparent as possible, calm down, decisively let go, forget what you should forget, and be brave enough to forget.
In this way, let yourself become more and more transparent, and let yourself live more and more simply, in the days of no entanglement, no entanglement, and pain, live a simple but also calm, happy.