There is a peculiarity in the biological worldAnimals, i.e. stingerfish, they are affectionately known as "the little seabed."Hedgehog”。With thick lips, big eyes, and shades of **, the pufferfish looks very cute. However, when the pufferfish gets angry or is attacked, it will burst out with long, dense spines all over its body, and it will instantly become vicious and hideous, which is in stark contrast to its usual cute image. This phenomenon inspires us to reflect on the emotional control of the human heart. As Liang Shiqiu said: "When a person is angry, he is the most ugly." "Anger not only affects the impression that others have of us, but it also puts us in endless trouble. Therefore, staying away from anger is the embodiment of human wisdom and the key to a happy life.
In life, people often use "blowing the beard and staring at the eyes" and "showing teeth and claws" to describe a person's appearance when he is angry. People in this state often fall into the emotional vortex of anger, lose their minds, and make decisions that are often regrettable. A classic case is the World held on September 7, 1965BilliardsChampionship match, the player at the timeLewis?Fawkes provokes anger when a fly disrupts his rhythm, resulting in a series of defeats that ultimately lead to an unfortunate ending. This shows that anger is a mind-destroying emotion that can easily lead to things that one regrets and ultimately pay a heavy price.
Expand: It's important to note that getting angry doesn't mean solving the problem, it can make things more difficult. Just as a person tends to become hideous when he is angry, his eyes are full of anger and breathtaking. However, people in this state are often mentally confused, lose the ability to think rationally, and may engage in drastic behavior, which ultimately leads to irreparable losses. Therefore, controlling anger and maintaining inner peace are indispensable qualities for success.
It is often said, "The irritable have no plan." "Anger tends to cause people to lose their minds and make decisions that are not good for them. is like the husband and wife Momoko and Ikeyong in "Nameless Town", because of anger and quarrels, which eventually leads to the breakdown of their relationship. At a moment when Ji Yong lost control of his emotions, he even hit Peaches, which not only hurt the other party, but also put himself in an embarrassing situation of morality and law. Anger can easily lead to emotional drain and damage, which in turn destroys interpersonal relationships and brings endless pain to oneself and others.
Expansion: Anger is like a double-edged sword, hurting others not only hurts the other party, but also hurts oneself, making what could have been a good life full of gloom. Just like the example of Momoko and Chi Yong, the two slowly broke down their relationship because of repeated quarrels and anger, and finally faced the end of divorce. In a state of anger, people often act out of the control of their minds and may do things that hurt others, which not only destroys trust and respect for each other, but also makes the knot of emotional entanglement more persistent, and ultimately difficult to untie. Therefore, dealing with anger calmly and sensibly becomes a necessary condition for maintaining relationships and a happy life.
In life, the colorful world is always full of challenges and tribulations. When we encounter something unsatisfactory, controlling our anger at the right time and giving ourselves a calm time to deal with it will avoid many unnecessary conflicts and quarrels. Like the countryman in "Nameless Town", through calm and rational actions, he not only resolved his inner anger, but also found an unexpected solution to the problem of dealing with grudges. We must know how to give in, tolerate others, and do not destroy the relationship that could have been harmoniously coexisted because of the impulsiveness of the moment.
Expand: When you're about to get out of control, taking a step back at the right time may allow you to see a door to wisdom that you haven't discovered before. Just like the experience of the countryman, through the simple but wise act of planting lilies, hatred is dissolved, relationships are repaired, and the beauty of concession is revealed. In life, we often need to learn to let go of our stubbornness and self-esteem, and make concessions at the right time, in order to establish a stronger bond in social relationships and promote mutual understanding and harmony. Therefore, giving in does not mean weakness, but a kind of wisdom and open-mindedness, a process of cultivating one's heart, and a good way to deal with interpersonal relationships.
The journey of life is short and precious, let's cherish every beautiful moment and don't let anger occupy our precious time. Only by controlling your anger, defeating your inner demons, and making your mind calm and calm, can you truly feel the beauty of life. Let us learn to be tolerant of others, take a step back, maintain our feelings, and appreciate the beauty of life. Decorate life with peace and tolerance, fill life with gentleness and rationality, let yourself become the master of emotions, and welcome a happier and better tomorrow.