In this world, there is a relationship that is both sacred and ordinary, and that is marriage. The perfect marriage that many people dream of is often not forged by a vigorous love story, but by two souls who know each other and support each other in life. James Freeman Clark said, "Marriage is not about finding a perfect person to spend the rest of your life with, but about finding someone who understands that even if you are not perfect, you will always be there for you." ”
Marriage, it does not need too many flowery words to embellish, its essence is the purest cooperation between people. We often mistakenly think that the union of two people requires one party to give unconditionally, noble sentiments and unrequited love. But in fact, real marriage is equal, and it is a conditional and bottom-line love for each other. We give each other warmth and understanding, and we also expect each other's feedback and care. If you think of marriage as a noble task, you will soon feel exhausted.
Marriage is a small universe that two people build together. In this small universe, there are laughter, tears, quarrels, and reconciliation. The beauty of marriage is that despite the uncertainties and challenges of life, as long as both parties can move forward together, there is nothing to fear. Tolstoy said in Anna Karenina: "Happy families are all alike, and unhappy families have their own misfortunes." The key to the "similar" happy family in the marriage we want to be lies in whether both parties can maintain this balance and harmony together. Emotional, inspirational, positive energy quotes
Marriage is an art and a practice. It requires us to keep learning and constantly adapting to each other's habits and needs. It's not a one-man battle, it's a two-person collaboration. In this cooperation, there is no permanent leader, only partners who take turns to take responsibility and obligation. Sometimes we play the role of listeners, sometimes we become confidants; Sometimes they are supporters, sometimes they are supporters. Every small interaction is a reflection of the cooperation between the two parties.
Precisely because marriage is a partnership, we don't need to label it too noble. Don't strive for perfection, but accept each other's imperfections. There will inevitably be bumps in life, but as long as we can face them together, we can find solutions to problems. When we learn to cooperate in marriage, then not only will the world of the two of us move forward, but the inner world of each person will also grow.
In this cooperation, there is no lack of warmth and touching. The seemingly trivial things - a greeting in the morning, a cup of hot tea for each other, and a tacit ...... to walk together at nightThese are the most valuable treasures of marriage. They don't need much words and exaggeration, but they can take root in the heart and become a strong bond that holds the relationship together.
Cooperation, not always quiet. There will be misunderstandings and disputes in marriage, but the key is whether we are willing to extend an olive branch and whether we are willing to grasp the hand of reconciliation handed by the other party. No matter what difficulties are encountered, as long as the two people can face them together, then the cooperation is successful.
Marriage does not need to be overly noble and perfect. It only needs to be sincere and warm, as long as we continue to learn and grow in this cooperation. When we manage with our hearts and face the ups and downs of life together with love, then this ordinary marriage is the most beautiful scenery. Let us cherish this cooperation and work together to create a happy and happy future.
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