Recently, there has been more and more data showing that children from ordinary families seem to be rare among students in 985 colleges. Generally speaking, students who can enter these prestigious schools have better family conditions and relatively high education levels of their parents, and it is common for them to belong to high-income families. Although this is true in most cases, there are some exceptions, and some children from ordinary families can still be successfully admitted to 985 universities.
A high school teacher from Sichuan shared a compelling story. He knew a rural couple whose education level was limited to primary school and sold vegetables at the farmers' market. This is a typical ordinary family, however, their two children were both admitted to 985 colleges and universities, and one of them even scored close to the Qingbei line. When the couple was asked how they raised their children, they were speechless, saying that they had not hired a tutor and that they did not know anything about their children's learning. They stressed that everything is thanks to the children themselves.
This story surprised a lot of people, but it was just the way it was. Later, after an in-depth conversation, the high school teacher found out that the couple had never blamed their children, but had always treated them with encouragement and affection. This may be the secret of their success in educating their children. It also makes people realize that different family backgrounds may simply be differences in parental attitudes.
Learning is really quite a laborious task that can take up to years, if not more. In the process, we often face setbacks. Some people do well in primary school, but in junior high school they encounter a lot of difficulties; Some people did well in both elementary and middle school, but their high school grades began to slip. It's all a process of overcoming setbacks. In the process of learning, the most important thing is how to adjust your state and summon up the courage to face every setback. Often at this time, the trust of parents becomes the greatest support for children. Therefore, for the couple, giving their children unconditional trust not only makes the child work out, but also creates a sense of satisfaction for themselves to succeed.
For children from ordinary families, in order to achieve good grades, they must have super self-discipline. Entering high school, many people think that talent is more important. However, big data has long told us that less than three out of 1,000 children have exceptional talent. Comparatively speaking, most people are gifted at an average level. Self-discipline often plays a decisive role in achieving personal goals.
It is not an exaggeration to say that self-discipline is more important than talent. Self-discipline is reflected in the ability to remind yourself to concentrate quickly when you feel distracted; You can also persevere when everyone else gives up, reminding yourself to hold on a little longer. In fact, what makes you stand above others is the little advantage you have accumulated through self-discipline.
Therefore, what kind of parents do you need to be admitted to 985 University? Again, the answer is love, trust and love for children. Most importantly, parents need to take the time to develop their children's self-discipline.