Reward is a kind of feedback, and reward is a kind of reward. The ancients said: "Vote for me with papaya, repay it with Qiong Yao, repay the bandits, and always think it is good," voting for Li and peach is the habitual thinking of ordinary people, and it is also the inevitable manifestation of human relationsChinese often say: Receiving the grace of dripping water should be the reward of thinking about the springBut how many people can do this in practice?
It turns out that many people at the time of being helped, were beenSaveHardtime, often moved to tears, but with the passage of time, it often fades away. As a result, all kinds of suspicions, estrangements, and resentments in the world arose. To give a common example, the ancients said: There are many people in the world and few gentlemen, and when they are happy, they will be troubled. When a person borrows money from relatives, friends and colleagues, he often bends down and smiles, and swears that it will only take a few days, or a month or two, but in fact, it is not the case at all, the reason why he uses a trick in time is just to fear that the other party will not lend him money, but once the money arrives, when it will be repaid, it will not be able to borrow it.
In the years of my life, I found that many relatives and friends were troubled by the issue of borrowing money to repay money. In particular, when the creditor's funds are invested, it is not a monetary value that can be calculated with interest. But the debtor doesn't think so, he thinks that we are relatives and friends, so what's the point of spending some money? So now there are a lot of businessmen who don't lend money to their friends or borrow money from their friendsIts essence is to be afraid of losing friends because of money.
From another point of view, in addition to the living Buddha and high monks, there are several people in the world who can reach the realmGivingAnd not to report. It turns out that when you give reluctantly, there is no energy in the act itself, sometimes even negative. Because of this, whenever and wherever you are, you will be receivingMegumishould always think about reciprocating and reciprocatingOnly in this way can we ensure the harmony of interpersonal relationships and the continuation of family and friendship. In other words, when we owe money to others, when we owe others favors, when others have the intention to ask for it, we should not be surprised, nor should we be angry, but we should think about how difficult I was at the beginning, he can believe me, he can help me, what reason do I have to hate him?
A more worthy topic is the repayment of heroes for saving beautyThe author has experienced a true story, a man saved a woman who was in danger of **, due to the large number of gangsters, the man was seriously injured, when he was hospitalized, the rescued woman carefully cared for him, I don't know if it was because of the long-term love, or the woman's true heart to report, and when the man was cured and discharged, the two of them set a life. Unfortunately, the woman only admired the man's heroic spirit, but ignored his other qualities and abilities. After getting married, the man gambled and prostituted, did not do his job, and ate and drank with his fox friends all day long. What's even more sad is that this woman gave birth to a son for him that year, and because the family has no fixed economy, life is very embarrassing. When she couldn't bear it anymore and complained, the man who saved her in the past revealed his fierce appearance and scolded him. As a result, this woman was in pain and regretted the choices and decisions she should not have made in the first place. When she filed for divorce, the man locked her in the house and didn't let her go out for more than two monthsThis cruel abuse caused the woman to go insane, and she had no money**. When the woman's parents knew the truth, they told the court and sentenced her to divorce.
It is a virtue to repay kindness, especially how can you not repay the grace of saving your life? However, the ways and means of repaying are worth pondering. Isn't it true that a woman has to make a promise to live up to her life? Please leave a message to share, thank you.