** type of parents, people with various positions and various academic qualifications, but the means and methods are different, and their essence is the same. There is a middle school math teacher, by natureHarsh, believedA strict teacher produces a high apprentice, and a filial son comes out under the stickSuch an outdated old precept. He has only one baby daughter, and he hopes that her daughter will be admitted to a prestigious universitySoto be strict with her daughter everywhere. The couple treated their daughter to death and forbade her to associate with male classmates. After the age of age, they often eavesdropped on their daughter's **, peeked at their daughter's diary and schoolbag, and occasionally had a slightly worse academic performance, so they punished their daughter for standing and thinking about it. The daughter was slightly dissatisfied, so she knelt on the floor and reflected. My daughter has been suffering from headaches for a long time, and the closer she gets to the exam, the more headaches, nausea, and stomach pains she gets. In the case of poor physical and mental state, test scores are getting worse and worse. Parents not only do not sympathize with understanding and positive**, but instead reprimand their children more severely:It's really a, not angry at all, youLetWhere is my father's face as a teacher, knowing that you are like a bear, I might as well not want you in the first place! If you continue like this, don't read it if you can't read it, it's not that piece ......of material at all”
They don't talk to their children at all. In order to avoid scolding, the child lied repeatedly, and finally failed two subjects in the final exam, the school notified the parents, and the father fought that night, when the daughter was menstruating, the child was extremely frightened and ashamed, bleeding nonstop, and went to the hospital to rescue out of danger, but unfortunately did not wait for discharge, the child committed suicide by taking poison.
VisibleParents should re-learn the necessity of learning some medical science knowledge, and understand the psychological impact of emotions on children and adolescents, and thus the principles of why they cause physical diseases.
Today's children are overburdened with learning, and their nights of sleep are becoming less and less as they move up the gradesThis kindSources of tension have overwhelmed primary school students, especially secondary school students. If parents no longer understand their children, but instead adopt high-pressure policies and brutal methods to interfere and force their children, how can their children not get sick?
According to a study in the United StatesAs long as there is tension in the family, there is a high possibility that a family member will become ill. Anxiety can also lead to tooth decay, which can affect the calcium balance of the person and make the teeth susceptible to decay due to anxiety, fear, etc. Worry can cause freckles, ulcers and acne on your face.
WilliamJames said:God may forgive us for our sins, but our own nervous system does not. It is reported that more doctors than farmers die of heart disease every yeartimes, because doctors live a stressful life.
Children of modern families, even in democratic and relaxed families, children are under pressure, not to mention living in ** families for a long time, they are worried about exams, worried about the blame and reprimand of their parents, worried about being beaten, and worried about their uncertain future.
It is reported that in the United States there isBecause children, teenagers, etc. are physically and psychologically immature, their ability to resist frustration is very limited, and many pressures from school and family make it difficult for them to bear. Stress-induced anxiety, fear, guilt, anger, dissatisfaction, and doubt can stimulate the sympathetic nervous system, causing physical discomfort and illness, and finally causing sad ......consequences that make parents regret, the world shock, and children resentful
Children from ** families are highly susceptible to psychological disorders and psychosomatic diseases. Practice has proved that students with the same physical and mental illness have only temporarily alleviated their physical illness, but the psychological disorder has not been eliminatedRaise the soup to stop boiling
Gu Yun:Heart disease also requires cardiac medicine. This kind of heart medicine, the psychological counselor can only provide the formula, whileMedicationsBut it's in the hands of parents. A year agoAuthorA high school girl was received and asked for help by her motherMeThe mother stated, "In middle school, the child studied well and had a relatively peaceful personality, but after entering high school, his academic performance gradually declined inexplicably, and although he came home from school, he did not concentrate on his homework on time. I often secretly observe her, and once her homeroom teacher called ** and told me that your child laughed and stunned by herself in class, and her classmates also looked at her and asked her what she was laughing at, and she didn't answer. When she got home, I asked her why she was laughing in class, and she didn't answer, just in time for her dad to come back from work, and after asking, he became angry and scoldedher, picked up the gym hammer and went to beat her, she ran into her room, locked the door and cried in the house, telling her to eat and not coming out ......
Since then, she has shown suspicion, delusion, auditory hallucinations, and said that many classmates are talking about her behind her back, and they speak sarcastically about her without naming herherReluctance to go to school. LaterI was diagnosed with mental illness in a psychiatric hospital, and I took medication for more than a month, and I was not suspicious, but I still didn't want to go to itLearnBecauseThe drug reaction was severe, and after the drug was automatically stopped, the symptoms worsened two or three weeks laternow。often crying, talking to himself, saying that his classmates wanted to hack her to death, wanted to ** her, and said that he had done something bad and wanted to surrender himself......
AuthorWhen talking to her alone, I found that her consciousness was acceptable, but occasionally I laughed involuntarily, and asked her why she laughed, she said that someone next to her teased her, and said that her classmates did not name her, saying that she **, seducing men in order to make money, she did not admit that she was mentally ill, hated her mother for bringing her to consult and see a doctor, and was anxious to find her mother to go home.
Similar psychological symptoms like this, such as fantasies, auditory hallucinations, touch hallucinations, olfactory hallucinations, taste hallucinations, sluggish thinking, obsessive-compulsive thoughts, obsessive-compulsive disorder, delusions, forced delusions, delusions, delusions, fears, anxiety, etc., are often encountered in psychological counseling and medical practice**type family
Sadly, when a child has a psychological disorder, at the same time, they will definitely have memory impairment, memory loss, at this time, parents force them to study, andYesGood grades, that's like letting a car with a mechanical failure on the road, how can it be safe?
Long-term psychosomatic illness inevitably leads to personality **. It is common for children to have low self-esteem, extremism, autism, jealousy, introversion, etc. Once the personality and illness are re-formedA vicious circle, they will run away from their families, self-determination in society, go astray in sorrow, or even not returnofroad
The reason for **type family**, in addition to the parents' character, knowledge, and cultivation, is mainly because parents are eager to let their children study well, have high grades, and be admitted to prestigious universities in the future, but what will happen to the grades of students in such families?