I am 32 years old, and I am in the first period of my life, with a stable job and a happy life. My daughter-in-law is 38 years old and a gentle and virtuous woman, and I love her very much. However, my mother-in-law always told me that after the storm is a rainbow.
After we got married, my wife and I have been living happily ever after. My wife is a gentle and considerate woman, she always cares about me and takes care of me. We have our own little world, and although we are not rich and rich, we feel that it is enough. However, my mother-in-law's words made me think deeply.
One day, my wife suddenly asked me, "Do you think my mom is weird?" I was a little surprised, and I asked her, "Is there anything wrong with her?" The wife shook her head and said, "She always said something incomprehensible, like she said that after the storm there is a rainbow." I smiled wryly and said, "Maybe she's just trying to express an optimistic attitude." ”
However, the wife frowned, saying, "I think something is wrong with her, she always says strange things to you, and lately she seems to be a little upset with me." "I comforted my wife and told her that it might just be a misunderstanding.
A few days later, my wife told me that she had received a ** from her mother-in-law, saying that she wanted her to come over at night. I was a little worried, after all, we have been married for many years, but we rarely have the opportunity to be alone with my mother-in-law. My wife saw my concern, and she gently comforted me and said, "It's okay, maybe there is something to discuss at home." I could only nod my head, still feeling a little uneasy.
My heart tightened, and I hurriedly ran out of the house. When I arrived, I saw a shocking scene of my wife sitting on the couch with tears streaming down her face, while my mother-in-law was on the sidelines, her face was pale. I immediately ran to my wife and asked what had happened. The mother-in-law suddenly said sharply: "You useless thing, why can't you even take care of your wife!" ”
I looked at my mother-in-law in amazement, and wanted to explain but was interrupted by her: "Don't talk nonsense, I beat her because you don't take care of her at all!" Why are you so unproductive! "I tried to explain, but to no avail. My wife also said to me with tears in her eyes: "I don't know why she said that, she doesn't seem to be satisfied with our married life." ”
I felt very aggrieved and helpless, I thought that I had been working hard to run the family, but my mother-in-law was always dissatisfied with me. I tried to communicate with her, but she categorically refused to listen to me. In the midst of this turmoil, I was depressed and doubted myself, and I began to reflect on the problems in my marriage and even wonder if I was really not good enough.
As the days passed, my relationship with my wife became strained. We often quarrel over small things, and as time goes by, our feelings become estranged. I was in great pain and helplessness, and I didn't know how to deal with it.
However, when I was most confused, I seemed to hear my mother-in-law's voice: "After the wind and rain, there is a rainbow." "It dawned on me that maybe it was all just a storm, and that as long as we could hold on to each other and hold on to the end, we would see a beautiful rainbow.
So, I took the initiative to communicate with my wife and expressed my thoughts and inner pain. She also told me about her feelings and confusion without reservation. Together, we were honest with each other, untied the knots, found each other's problems, and even found better solutions.
In the aftermath of that storm, our married lives were turned upside down. We understand and respect each other more, we learn how to communicate and tolerate, and we cherish each other's feelings more. We face the difficulties and challenges of life together, and we also welcome the future together.
Now that I think about it, I am deeply grateful to my mother-in-law, it was her words that made me realize the problems in my marriage, and also made me understand that rainbows are always after the storm. Storms in married life are inevitable, but as long as we can face them together, I believe that everything will be beautiful. Now, I understand the true meaning of my mother-in-law's words to me at that time, and my mother-in-law has become amiable and has a more harmonious relationship with us. Our family finally ushered in true happiness.
Life is always full of ups and downs, and we always grow up in the wind and rain. Rainbows appear in our lives, as long as we are willing to face them bravely, we believe that happiness will come. I am convinced that after the storm is a rainbow.
After that turmoil, my relationship with my wife became more harmonious, and we learned to communicate and be more tolerant. Whenever I think of the phrase "After the storm is a rainbow", I always feel a wave of gratitude in my heart. However, my doubts about my mother-in-law have also become stronger, why does she always say something incomprehensible to me?
A few months later, I went home again with my wife to see my family. This time, I made up my mind to have a good talk with my mother-in-law. After dinner, I sat in the living room with her, and I plucked up the courage to say, "Mother-in-law, I've always wanted to talk to you about ......."”
The mother-in-law smiled slightly and interrupted me: "You want to ask why I always say some strange things?" I was stunned, I didn't expect her to be so perceptive. She continued: "Actually, that's not a strange thing, it's just my philosophy, and I always believe that every setback and turmoil will add a resilience and beauty to your marriage." ”
My eyes lit up, as if it suddenly dawned on me, and she continued: "Besides, I am dissatisfied with your marriage, and I just hope that you can take it more seriously, and I hope that you will support each other and face any difficulties and challenges together. Her words made me feel guilty and moved.
I bowed my head, thinking to myself that I had suspected her intentions and misunderstood her good intentions. I couldn't help but say, "I'm sorry, I misunderstood you." The mother-in-law smiled faintly, stroked my shoulder and said, "Child, your marriage is your own, I just hope you can be happier." ”
Since then, my opinion of my mother-in-law has completely changed, and my mother-in-law has become amiable. I understand that everyone has their own philosophy of life, and her phrase "after the storm is a rainbow" has become a creed in my heart.
My married life with my wife is also more complete and beautiful. We have walked through the ups and downs together, learned to respect and tolerance, and also learned to face the challenges of life together. Our relationship is stronger, and our marriage is happier and more satisfying.
Now I am glad that I have survived that turmoil, and I am even more fortunate to have the company of that sentence, which made me understand the truth of life, and also made me more grateful and cherish everything I have. After the storm, after the storm, there will really be a beautiful rainbow.