Song Jialun once played the Arhat who can bend and stretch in "Red Sorghum". Not only does he brew good wine in the play, but he is also a fanatical drunkard in real life.
Because of excessive drinking, he almost lost the opportunity to be a father. Now, at the age of 52, has he fulfilled his wish?
Song Guofeng, an award-winning artist of the older generation, his son should inherit the glory of his father's business, however, his father almost chopped off his fingers, why is the relationship between the two so strained?
Once, when someone complained to him, his father said, "If someone comes to me next time to complain, the knife in my hand will never deviate to the edge of the board." ”
Hearing this, Song Jialun immediately withdrew his hand, but his body still couldn't help but tremble.
Father Song Guofeng's strictness is not unreasonable, he was indeed too naughty when he was a child. As a child of a literary family, he did not inherit his father's stability, but had no interest in reading, preferring the "martial arts training" of jumping up and down.
When he was a child, he relied on his great strength to often play with his neighbors' friends, and even beat them to the point that his nose was blue and his face was swollen. Although it is just a play between children, parents don't want their children to get hurt.
As a result, his friends volunteered to be his sparring partners, helping him master the right martial arts skills to protect himself and his friends to play safely.
The child who was beaten was brought to Song Jialun's house to complain, Song's father and mother felt deeply guilty and could only apologize repeatedly. As soon as the parents left, Song Jialun's father pulled his son out of the room.
Song Jialun's hand was tightly grasped and pressed on the cutting board, and the kitchen knife fell down without hesitation.
The kitchen knife stabbed into the cutting board fiercely, only a few centimeters away from his thumb, so that Song Mu was so frightened that she almost collapsed.
Song Jialun knew deeply that his father was really angry this time. He kept promising that he would never have a similar problem again, and finally saved one of his hands.
Although his father's warning made him much more peaceful, the father-son relationship, which was already not deep, gradually drifted apart after this incident.
Song Jialun kept a low profile throughout his academic career until he graduated from high school and encountered the troubles of adolescence.
He had mediocre grades and became a homeless man after high school, and his parents tried to find a way out for him, but he was determined to find his own direction for the future.
I thought it would be a good choice to work as an apprentice in a bakery, and I could spend a pleasant time smelling the sweet smell of bread. However, after only two days, I felt unbearable.
Learning to make bread doesn't seem like a way out, not to mention that I'm still an eclectic man.
's father, Song Guofeng, couldn't stand it, and put forward a pertinent suggestion: "When you were a child, you watched me acting and clamored to be an actor, why did you give up when you grew up?" Try it out in the art troupe, maybe you'll succeed. ”
At first, Song Jialun didn't take his father's advice to heart, but watching his friends find their way out one by one, he began to feel anxious.
So he decided to learn acting knowledge at home and prepare for the selection of literary and artistic soldiers.
When I was a child, I often secretly followed my father to watch performances, and the talent that I heard and saw quickly blossomed under my father's guidance. Standing out from hundreds of competitors, I was fortunate enough to become a literary soldier of the Shenyang Military Region.
The strict discipline of the army not only made Song Jialun's character more tenacious from hanging erang, but also made him deeply understand his father's silent care.
Although he mercilessly belittles himself in front of himself, on the outside, he is a man who is willing to protect his son, winning him many opportunities to perform.
With the help of the resources of the director's friends, Song Jialun, who was originally not interested in acting, was introduced to the crew to learn. Here, he not only got the opportunity to practice, but also gradually found the joy of acting.
At the same time, he also improved his acting skills in a down-to-earth manner, and approached his dream of being an actor step by step.
With his talent and hard work, coupled with the help of the outside world, he quickly got the opportunity to make a difference. The drama "Cannon Shock" became his first step into the entertainment industry, and since then, his acting career has been smooth sailing and on the right track.
Whether it is Guo Zhigang in "Full Autumn" or Wu Gang in "Fire Blue Blade", they have left a deep impression on the audience.
It wasn't until the broadcast of "Red Sorghum" that he really made his mark in this showbiz, and he was deeply loved by the audience with his righteous and awe-inspiring performance.
Song Jialun successfully created the image of a tough guy and won the love of a group of female audiences and enthusiastic fans. However, he always kept a clear head, and only the waiting of a good wife was in his heart.
I'm a person with a lot of shortcomings, not only don't I look good, but I also have a bad habit of drinking. You say how to live this day, but it's okay, with my wife by my side all the time, maybe she's the one who pulled me back from the ghost gate. ”
He was honest when he said this, but how did he quit the habit of drinking?
Song Jialun's drinking problem has seriously affected his health and marital relationship, and his wife even issued an ultimatum warning him that if he continues to drink, he will not have children.
However, Song Jialun still can't let go of the wine glass he has been obsessed with for 30 years.
Although his mother has also tried to change his alcoholic personality, Song Jialun still goes his own way.
He is a bold and enthusiastic person, often inviting friends to drink together, and often drinking until late at night, which makes people helpless.
His addiction to alcohol grew worse and worse, even to the point where he had to drink every day. He couldn't imagine life without wine, and breakfast had to be paired with a glass of wine to fill his stomach.
This habit continued until he got married.
After Song Jialun got married, he found that his wife did not always urge him to quit drinking like his mother, and the only condition was "not to have children".
Although he was very resistant to this at first, he couldn't stick to it after offering to quit drinking, and was invited by a friend to ** again.
Again and again, drunk again and again, drunk again and again. And no matter when and where, there is always a virtuous wife who silently cleans up the mess, and such a married life has lasted for four years. ”
The friends around him envied Song Jialun for marrying a good sister-in-law, but he encountered a big test of life.
In his early thirties, he developed symptoms of poor memory, trembling hands and crooked mouth, and sometimes he couldn't even speak clearly.
After a thorough physical examination, Song Jialun found that he did not show any abnormalities and was diagnosed by the doctor as possibly due to excessive fatigue.
On the advice of his doctor, he rested at home for a while, but his hand tremors did not lessen, but seemed to worsen.
Song Jialun, accompanied by his wife, met the famous old Chinese medicine doctor, and the old Chinese medicine doctor saw through his living habits at a glance. "You drink a lot of bars, how often do you drink them, and how much can you drink at one time? ”
Song Jialun revealed his health condition without reservation, but when the doctor heard it, he immediately exclaimed: "It's a miracle that your current body can still support this lifestyle." ”
Whether it's physical discomfort or survival, quitting alcohol is the only way out. Even Song Jialun, who has always been open-minded, couldn't help but be frightened in the face of the diagnosis results of the hospital, and finally made up his mind to put down the wine glass and fight to the end in order to save his life.
Under the careful care of his wife, the flask he originally carried with him was replaced with a carefully prepared tonic, and the actors in the same crew were envious of his good luck.
His body gradually recovered under the care of his wife, and the topic of having children was put back on the agenda.
Due to the long age of drinking, the matter was temporarily put on hold, until Song Jialun was thirty-nine years old, and he finally became a father.
He looked at the lovely child in his arms, full of joy, and in order to provide a better life for the mother and child, he focused more on his work.
With the broadcast of "Fire Blue Blade" and "Red Sorghum", the number of his works has gradually increased, and his fame has gradually increased.
He plays the role of a tough guy in military dramas and is good at this field, but he always remembers his wife and children at home, and at the same time he finds time to accompany them while filming.
Song Jialun adheres to his principles, and at the age of 52, he still does not lose his courage. In "Scout Hero", which was launched at the beginning of the year, he played the division commander Zhiyong Shuangquan, and the years left him with calmness and accumulation, not traces.
His dedication and outstanding performance are admirable.
Whether in family life or in the workplace, we should show tenderness and warmth, and caring for our wives and children is an important sign of being a good husband and father.
As he emphasized, "Happiness is hard to come by, and we should cherish it." This is a thought-provoking statement that deserves to be remembered by all of us.
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