First of all, I don't think my in-laws are bad people.
On the contrary, in the eyes of their friends and relatives, they are all very simple and responsible rural people.
But the differences in cognition, thoughts, thinking, and living habits really can't be crossed, and the years we lived together were really very depressing, and finally I was severely depressed.
Real feelings:1There is no private space;
2.The relationship between husband and wife is affected;
3.Short-guarding; 4.picking up garbage;
5.dietary differences;
6.peeking at privacy;
7.thinks that the son makes money alone;
8.Shopping;
9.strangers under the same roof;
10.negative energy;
11.low self-esteem and conceit;
12.About bringing a baby;
13.Lying at home playing with your phone;
14.Old-fashioned and stubborn.
Fortunately, my husband is quite powerful, the two of us still have a relationship foundation, and we also like to communicate, and we hardly quarrel; Therefore, he can think about his parents, but he will be helpless, and because of his parents, he will feel indebted to me, take more care of me, and often channel my emotions.
Try not to live with the elderly, because in essence, the old Chinese saying, raising children to prevent old age is deep-rooted, they will generally believe that the daughter-in-law should run the whole family when she marries, and at the same time the daughter-in-law is an outsider, and coming to the family is to pass on the ancestry and be the mother-in-law, because they are like this, and they have been like this for so many years.
Therefore, the problems between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have specific things, and there is also the collision of ideas from the two eras.