My husband, who has always been loving and considerate, mentioned divorce, but I don't know what I wanted
As I stepped into the dining room, I immediately caught a glimpse of several banners hanging on the wall, all related to class reunions.
This event was organized by the squad leader, and it took a lot of thought to use even the banners.
Below the banner hangs the ** from high school, although it is a little yellowed, but it can still recognize the young skin, smart eyes and youthful expressions on everyone's face......
It's a wonderful time to be young.
It's a pity that youth can't stay forever, the years are unforgiving, and you can't go back to the past!
Many students have not seen each other for many years, and everyone gets together in twos and threes, chatting and reminiscing about the past, sighing about the present, and looking forward to the future.
There used to be a few couples in the class, but as time passed, they also dispersed, but Tang Mingjie and I experienced six years of long-distance love, married for five years, and are still together.
As a result, we became the center of attention.
Many female classmates enthusiastically asked about our relationship, and I talked eloquently, full of praise for Tang Mingjie, mentioning that he would prepare surprise gifts for me every holiday, send warm good morning kisses every morning, hug each other to sleep at night, and pick up and drop off from work, and feel distressed until ......
After hearing this, everyone showed envious expressions, and some people praised me for having a good eye and finding such a considerate husband; Someone asked me for the secret of how to raise such a considerate other half ......
We talked enthusiastically, and Li Shishi, who had been sitting in the corner and had been silent, suddenly interjected: "Ah Mei, you praise Ajie like this, aren't you afraid that other women will be tempted by him?" ”
What is there to be afraid of. I shrugged my shoulders disappreciatively and said arrogantly, "My husband is so good, and I don't exaggerate the facts......."The most important thing is that our relationship is harmonious, and no one can destroy ......”
My domineering declaration drew laughter from everyone, but Li Shishi's expression looked a little unnatural.
After the meal, everyone moved to KTV to sing, Li Shishi took the initiative to pull the female classmates to sing two songs, and she still didn't seem to be happy, and asked Tang Mingjie to accompany her to sing love songs.
The two stood together, a handsome boy and a beautiful girl, and their voices were full of affection.
But I lowered my head and immersed myself in the world of my mobile phone, turning a blind eye and hearing nothing.
Yun Duo sat next to me, leaned close to my ear, and whispered, "Ah Mei, you have to be careful, Shishi's husband unfortunately passed away last year, and now he is ...... single."Looking at her now, it seems to be interesting to Applejack......”
I glanced up at the two of them very close, "Really! ”
Don't you notice? Yun Duo said with some concern, "When we were studying before, we heard that Li Shishi had a crush on Applejack......It's just that you did it before ...... her”
Don't think about it too much...... cloudsEven if she used to really like Applejack, it was all years ago......”
Ah. Yun Duo sighed softly, a little worried about my overly relaxed attitude at the class reunion, "Everyone says that class reunions are easy to breed extramarital affairs......Your wife is there, but they are eye-wry, so you have to be careful. ”
I scratched my head and said a little innocently, "I have faith in Applejack, he loves me so much that he will live up to my expectations." ”
May he not let your trust go to waste! ”
Not long ago, the class reunion ended, and not long after, Li Shishi called me and said that she wanted to come to the city to play, and came to my house as a guest by the way.
Although the customer offered to offer, I was too embarrassed to refuse, so I readily agreed.
Half an hour after the appointed time, Li Shishi arrived on time, carrying a basket of fruits and seafood.
I greeted her at the door, "Oh, it's good that you're here, why are you still buying so many things, it's too much trouble." ”
These lychees are picked from their own orchards, and the seafood is also caught by relatives, so it is not troublesome or expensive. ”
Come in and sit down. I took her arm warmly and guided her to sit on the couch, "Would you like a drink or tea?" ”
Just have a glass of boiling water. Li Shishi looked at the surrounding living room and asked, "What about Ajie and your children?" Not at home? ”
On weekends, the grandmother picks up the children's ......Applejack went fishing with a friend, and I was supposed to go with them, but I was afraid of the sun, so I would rather watch the show on my phone at home. ”
Oh, you guys have a really good family atmosphere. Li Shishi absentmindedly echoed.
I nodded and smiled, "I think I must have done something good in my last life to marry Applejack......."I often wake up laughing when I dream. ”
Li Shishi was a little dazed, "You're exaggerating." ”
Not an exaggeration at all......Alas, you are not me, and you cannot feel my happiness ......”
Next, I kept praising Tang Mingjie, both to show affection and deliberately attract attention.
Li Shishi's expression gradually darkened, and there was a hint of disdain in her eyes.
I pretended not to see it, and continued to praise Tang Mingjie proudly.
Li Shishi's eyes widened, showing a look of surprise, and then she began to take the initiative to ask Tang Mingjie about his work and hobbies, ......
I answered her questions without any precaution.
The two kept answering questions and answers, focusing on Tang Mingjie and talking and laughing.
After almost an hour, I had an epiphany and turned to Li Shishi, "Shishi, the one in your family is gone, you are so young, haven't you considered finding another one?" ”
Li Shishi smiled bitterly and said: "It's not so easy to find, after all, I still have a son to take care of." ”
Indeed, some men nowadays lack a sense of responsibility and responsibility, if they can meet someone like my husband who is handsome and takes care of the family, they can live a happy life. ”
Li Shishi sneered, "Who said I couldn't meet it?" ”
I called Tang Mingjie **, informed him that Li Shishi had arrived, and told him to go home early to prepare dinner.
Tang Mingjie readily agreed, saying that he would come back immediately.
When it was close to four o'clock, Tang Mingjie entered the door with a big bag of fruits, smiled at Li Shishi and said, "I heard that you like to eat durian, and I brought you some at the class reunion that day." ”
It's really generous, this is a durian for two or three hundred yuan, and I bought it casually.
Li Shishi was very happy and showed her brightest smile since she entered the door: "Thank you, Brother Jie, I didn't expect you to remember that I like to eat durian." ”
As soon as Tang Mingjie appeared, Li Shishi kept chatting with him, completely ignoring my existence.
After a while, I rubbed my temples and said, "My head hurts a little and I'm going to go back to my room to rest ......."Lost with Shishi, you talk slowly in the living room. ”
Then, I said to Tang Mingjie, "Husband, dinner depends on you." ”
Okay, the meal is almost ready, I'll wake you up later. ”
As soon as he finished speaking, Li Shishi immediately said: "It's okay, Meimei, if you're not feeling well, go in and rest......I'll be here to help Applejack with a little bit. ”
Okay, you'll feel like you're home. ”
I lay in bed, listened to the noisy chatter and laughter in the living room, and soon fell asleep.
I don't know how long it took for me to hear a knock on the door and slowly wake up.
I pushed open the door and saw that the table was full of delicious dishes and the aroma was fragrant.
Li Shishi was holding the dishes and chopsticks, and when she saw me, she said with a smile: "Wake up, sit down and have dinner." ”
You're a guest, and I was supposed to entertain you, but now you're working hard to help with ...... cookingI'm so sorry. ”
*What's so embarrassing, everyone is an old classmate. ”
I smiled, "yes, come to my house more often in the future." ”
The dishes were all ready, we chatted while eating, and the atmosphere was very harmonious. Li Shishi said that this class reunion was too rare, and she was in a good mood and wanted to drink some wine.
So, I took out the red wine from the wine cabinet and let her enjoy it.
Glass to cup, and soon, a bottle of red wine bottomed out.
Because she drank a little too much, Li Shishi's face became red and fluttering, and her eyes became blurred, making her even more charming.
I noticed several times that Tang Mingjie's gaze stayed on Li Shishi, and the smile on his face became a little cute.
After the meal, Li Shishi said that she was already a little drunk.
That being the case, it's not suitable for driving.
I offered to let her spend the night at my house, after all, there were still empty rooms.
I found a set of my pajamas for Lai Shishi.
She took a shower, but didn't want to sleep at all. The two of us sat in the living room, chatting very speculatively, as if going back to the days when we were studying.
It was past eleven o'clock, and I felt sleepy and desperate to rest.
However, Li Shishi still chatted with great interest, as if she was completely unaware of my hints, and sat on the sofa and refused to leave.
And Tang Mingjie was obviously not sleepy, and continued to tell his story with great interest.
Since neither of them was going to sleep, I simply went to rest and let them continue talking.
As soon as I lay down, I fell into a sweet sleep, ignoring everything in the outside world.
The next morning, I woke up and was ready to make breakfast. When I opened the door, I was greeted by a scent.
I found that Lai was cooking smoke in the kitchen, busy preparing the ingredients.
She felt my gaze and looked back to see that it was me, and her bright smile froze slightly.
Shishi, why did you get up so early? ”
Li Shishi replied while getting out of the oil pot: "I usually wake up naturally at six o'clock ......."Last night, Applejack said she wanted to eat salted bone porridge, so I took out the ribs from the fridge and marinated them for ......In addition, we fried a few eggs and a box of dumplings, which should be enough for the three of us, right? ”
Enough is enough. I picked up a dumpling, chewed it and said, "It tastes so good......Shishi, you are beautiful and virtuous, and it would be a great blessing if a man married you. ”
As soon as I finished speaking, Tang Mingjie echoed and said, "Shishi will indeed be a good wife." ”
When Li Shishi heard this, her face suddenly flushed with crimson, "How can there be......."Don't tease me. ”
After breakfast, Li Shishi finally agreed to retreat and offered to send me to work.
On the way, she said that longan will be on the market for a while and will give us some.
I readily agreed, after all, free fruit is not something anyone would say no. I also invited her to come and play with me when she had time.
Li Shishi nodded frequently, indicating that she would definitely come over often, and also asked me not to annoy her.
How is that possible? Old classmates should have moved around a lot and kept in touch.
Ever since we met, Li Shishi has often come to my house. Every time I don't come empty-handed, I always carry large and small packages, warm and generous.
I was very embarrassed by the gift she gave me.
Shishi, there must be a lot of pressure to raise a child alone......Don't spend any more next time you come. ”
It's okay. Li Shishi shook her head and said with a proud face: "My one is gone, but he left me a lot of property, including an orchard, a fish pond, a pig farm, and ......."There was also a hill that was expropriated, and more than three million ...... were takenI'm planning to buy a house in the city, but I don't know which neighborhood is better. ”
I immediately exclaimed, "Wow, Shishi, I really didn't expect you to be a **rich woman......."If someone marries you, you can really fight for twenty years less. ”
Tang Mingjie's eyes also lit up, "I have a friend who is a real estate agent, and I will take you to meet ...... another day."Let him help you keep an eye on what's good in the city.
Well, I'm worried about not being able to find a reliable property to sell. ”
Tang Mingjie was very concerned about helping Li Shishi buy a good house, and accompanied her and her friends around the real estate in the city.
The two of them are in contact more and more frequently, Tang Mingjie often talks with Li Shishi for more than half an hour, although they mainly talk about the house, but the frequency is too high.
If it were other wives, they might be jealous, but I was different, and instead encouraged Tang Mingjie to help his old classmates more and show his classmates.
Li Shishi eventually bought a house near our neighborhood, only two traffic lights away.
From seeing the house to buying it to inspecting it to receiving it to designing it to decorating it, Li Shishi discussed with Tang Mingjie everywhere and asked for his opinion.
Even the decoration company was introduced by Tang Mingjie, and he himself stared at the progress every day, no longer fishing, playing mahjong, and more attentive than his own house.
When the clouds called me **, I was dancing with a certain anchor in the living room.
Sister Duo, why do you have time to call me ** today? ”
I just saw Applejack and Shishi shopping at IKEA ......”
I stopped the live broadcast and gasped hard as I said, "Shishi bought a house near our community, she doesn't have a man in her family, and she doesn't know how to decorate, so she can only ask Applejack to help ......."It's normal for the two of them to go shopping for furniture and appliances together. ”
Alas, my silly big sister. Yun Duo's voice revealed her impatience, "Li Shishi took your man's arm and ......When the two of them saw me, they looked extremely nervous......To say that this is okay is really a lie. ”
Did you see them arm in arm? ”
That's right. Yun Duo thought I was questioning her words, and his voice suddenly raised a few degrees, "I can still lie to you, if I don't meet you head-on, they will quickly separate ......."I'll take pictures or record ** and send them to you to see. ”
Of course I believe what you say. When Applejack returns, I'll ask him. ”
Yun Duo was still not at ease, and told me to interrogate Tang Mingjie well, and to prevent them from meeting and contacting in the future, lest my husband be taken away by the fox spirit.
After Tang Mingjie came back, the first thing he did was to examine my expression.
He was wondering if the clouds had told me the ins and outs of ......
Don't look any further, the clouds have already told me. ”
My dear. Tang Mingjie's face instantly became nervous, "Shishi is inconvenient to walk in high heels, just holding my hand......."We've explained it to Cloud, but she just doesn't believe ......She even came running to talk nonsense to you......It's incomprehensible. ”
I stared into his eyes and said word by word: "Tang Mingjie, how would you feel if you saw me shopping with a man arm-in-arm on the street?" ”
I ......When you say this, do you just don't believe me, and think that I have something to do with Shishi? ”
Yes or no, you know for yourself. I tied the hair on my forehead behind my ears and said coldly, "You have taken the initiative to explain ...... Li Shishi is interesting to you before."No, it's quietly pursuing your ......You didn't feel it at the time, but you explicitly rejected her. ”
Tang Mingjie's mouth was tightly closed and he never mentioned this matter.
It was about two or three years ago, when we saw the relevant plot when we watched the movie, he inadvertently mentioned that Li Shishi had pursued him for half a year.
It's no wonder that after I was with him, I always felt that Li Shishi was a little hostile to me.
At that time, I didn't pay much attention to it, because she didn't deliberately disadvantage me, and I was busy with my studies and love every day, so I didn't think much about it.
Later, when I learned that Li Shishi once liked Tang Mingjie and regarded me as a rival in love, many years had passed, and we were both married, so I let go of that past with a smile.
Now it seems that things may not be simple.
Tang Mingjie nodded quickly, "Yes, I rejected her, and I don't have feelings for her......."Then I fell in love with you and we were together for ......Is there anything wrong with this? ”
If you think it's okay, it doesn't mean that Li Shishi is okay. Maybe she still likes you and wants to marry you? ”
How could it be ......After so many years, we have all started our own families, who will remember the original feelings? Tang Mingjie's eyes were firm for a while, but then flickered a little, "In short, don't think so much." ”
I don't want to think about it, just wait and see how you behave.
The company opened a new branch in Jiangmen, and I needed to stay with the team for three months.
Due to the nature of my work, I often need to travel to study, and Tang Mingjie always has a lot of complaints every time I leave home for more than two days in the past.
He didn't like my current job and thought that women should be at 9 nights.
5. Work in a weekend environment, and spend most of your time and energy on your family, not your career.
But I love my job and think that this job can fully show my value, so I have not transferred or quit according to his expectations.
Recently, every time I mentioned that I was going on a business trip, Tang Mingjie no longer had any complaints, but took the initiative to help me pack my luggage.
Now I told him that I was going to be on assignment for three months, and despite his best efforts to hide it, the upturned corners of his mouth revealed his true feelings.
Since he doesn't want me to stay at home, well, I'll give him more freedom ......
When I returned from my assignment, it was late autumn, and the leaves in the community were yellow, and the ground was covered with thick fallen leaves.
Aunt Li, the cleaner, was diligently cleaning up these fallen leaves, and when she saw me coming over with a suitcase, she greeted me with a smile: "Xiaomei, I haven't seen you for a long time, have you been going to ** for a long time?" ”
I spent three months in the newly opened branch and only now I am back. ”
Oh, I see, I haven't seen you lately, ......I ran into your husband and his cousin going grocery shopping twice. Aunt Li held a broom in one hand and wiped her sweat with the other, "Your husband is really a diligent person." ”
I frowned slightly, "Cousin? ”
yes, didn't she come and go in your house a lot? I heard that her man was gone, and she was alone with the child ......You can help me ask her if she has any plans to remarry, I just want to introduce my eldest nephew to ......”
Aunt Li said a lot one after another, and kept selling her divorced and single nephew.
I dealt with a few casual words and hurried upstairs with my suitcase.
There was no one at home. I looked around, and the layout of the room was both familiar and somewhat unfamiliar, with a lot of greenery and ornaments on the sideboard that I hadn't seen before, and the sofa cover was brand new.
Tang Mingjie is not only keen on cooking at home, but also ignores other housework and never takes the initiative to buy any household items.
It seems that during the time I was away from home, someone was extremely active in leaving traces in my house, for fear that I would not notice ......
I called Tang Mingjie **, but I couldn't hear him speak, only a soft ** sound.
Then, Li Shishi's voice sounded, "Brother Jie, let the child sleep with your mother tonight, can you spend more time with me?" ”
No, he slept there last night, and if I don't pick him up, my mom may be suspicious of ......What's more, Ah Mei will be back in the next two days. ”
I informed me about the approximate time to go home, but I didn't tell Tang Mingjie when I came back today.
I did this to see if there was anything wrong with him.
This pass ** seems to represent everything.
Have you never considered divorcing and marrying me? Li Shishi's words carried a kind of grievance and reproach.
Baby, don't cry ......Of course I have plans to marry you, but now is not the time, and I need to wait for the right time to talk about ......Bear with me. ”
Tang Mingjie's tone was as sweet as milk tea with too much sugar, which made me feel sick and nauseous.
I hung up ** and sent him a message: I already know about you and Li Shishi.
Tang Mingjie hurried home, his face worried.
He glanced at me, quickly withdrew his gaze, and coughed: "Ah Mei, can you listen to me explain?" What I said before was all to coax Li Shishi ......In fact, the person I love the most in my heart is you. ”
I stared at him quietly, then covered my eyes with my left hand, slapped my chest with my right hand, and began to cry loudly: "Honey, am I not good enough for you, not loving you enough? Why are you secretly with Li Shishi? ”
Tang Mingjie was stunned for a few seconds before he spoke with difficulty: "No, it's really not, I just can't control my ...... for a while."Don't cry, I don't plan to divorce you. ”
Hearing his words, I cried even more sadly.
He has been comforting me.
After a while, I gradually stopped crying and sobbed, "Li Shishi has been thinking about you for so many years, and now you are beautiful and rich ......Although I love you very much and can't bear you, I understand that if you really love someone, you should think about him. So I won't keep you, let you go free, as long as you're happy, it's ......”
Are you serious, my dear? How can you think that? Tang Mingjie asked nervously.
I nodded and said slowly, "Of course it's a sincere ......."I don't want to be a selfish person, and most of all I want you to be happy. With Li Shishi by your side to take care of you, I can also rest assured. In the future, I will educate my son well ...... on my ownRemember to come back more often to see our ......”
As I spoke, my voice became choked, and Tang Mingjie hurriedly hugged me, "My dear, I am really reluctant to leave your ......."”
Did he decide to stay with me?
I was a little confused and didn't know how to respond, Tang Mingjie continued: "You and Shishi are very good, I like them both, or let's maintain the status quo, so that the three of us can always be happy and happy together." ”
Scumbag, he's really greedy.
I don't care, it's just that Shishi is willing to be an invisible sister all the time? We have been in love and married for more than ten years, whether there is a marriage certificate or not, it is the same for me, except for you, I can no longer accept other people's ......Whenever you need me, I'll always be there ......Always be your person. ”
Ah, I find that you are completely different today than ...... pastTang Mingjie frowned, with some doubt and confusion in his eyes.
It used to be just the two of us, but now there are more poems ......Just now, I suddenly wanted to open ......Truly loving someone is based on his feelings. I've had you for so many years, it's enough ......It's time for you to experience a different life. ”
My words dispelled Tang Mingjie's last doubts.
He said he wanted to talk to Lai and then told me about his decision.
So, he left.
I picked up my mobile phone and sent a WeChat message to Li Shishi: Shishi, let's be sisters in the future, don't worry, I won't make it difficult for your ......
Li Shishi replied with a few question marks.
A minute later, seeing that I didn't reply, she sent several messages asking me what I meant.
She didn't feel guilty at all about interfering in my marriage, and she didn't cower because of ...... adulterySure enough, the psychological quality of people who can be a junior is strong.
I haven't replied to her.
That night, Tang Mingjie didn't come back to sleep.
On the second day, Tang Mingjie personally came to pick me up from work.
On the way, he seemed a little hesitant and stopped.
If there's anything you can just say......I feel sorry for you when you look like this. ”
Poetry ......She ......She didn't agree with ......”
Nonsense, women who can agree to this kind of thing are probably problematic.
That's right. I swallowed hard, blinked, and looked at him, "So what decision have you made?" No matter what you think, I will support you. ”
Ah Mei, you and Shishi are both people I love deeply, and neither of them is willing to let go ......It's just that Shishi is not as generous and sensible as you, and she forced me to divorce and marry her ......Or we get divorced and then keep in touch privately, you can rest assured that every month I will still be in charge of the household as before, taking care of you and the children. ”
I bowed my head and was silent for a while, and finally nodded and agreed, but on the condition that the children, house, and savings all belonged to me, and the family situation remained the same, and he couldn't take a penny with him. Of course, he can come back at any time, and he can come back whenever he wants.
Next, Tang Mingjie fell into silence and behaved thoughtfully.
I didn't rush, I didn't speak, I let him think slowly and make a decision.
After nearly five minutes of silence, Tang Mingjie broke the silence: "Okay, everything is according to what you said, I am married to Shishi." Whether I will have children in the future is uncertain, but Tong Tong will always be my treasure. The property belongs to you, that is, to the child, and I have no reason to object. ”
Okay, as long as he has no objections, that's it.
In just three days, the relationship between me and Tang Mingjie became the identity of my ex-husband and ex-wife.
Tang Mingjie carried a small suitcase to find Li Shishi, leaving a pile of daily necessities.
As soon as he left, I immediately threw all his belongings into the community trash can.
Then I bought two bottles of red wine and went home, opened the **, and drank it alone.
I don't know how long I waited for this day.
After many years of marriage, my husband, who has always been loving, filed for divorce, but I accepted it without hesitation.
In the eyes of many people, Tang Mingjie is a competent man and a loving father.
He works hard, earns money for his family, cares for his children, and even cooks ......
He has no gambling or machismo tendencies.
Overall, I chose to marry him and deserve to be able to live a happy life.
However, the reality made me miserable.
Since the birth of our child Tong Tong, Tang Mingjie's personality has begun to change dramatically and has become extremely irritable.
I tried to resist, scolded him, cried, and even begged him to stop doing this many times, but Tang Mingjie always promised that it would never happen again next time, but each time, he lost control of his behavior again.
His violence terrified me.
I have filed for divorce, but he has never agreed. He used all kinds of tactics, and even threatened to hide the child so that I would not see ...... again
I told my mother about his actions, but I was defended by him by saying that it was because he loved me so much that he was emotionally confused and unable to control himself.
To my frustration, my mother chose to side with him and advised me to be careful, believing that I was alarmist and not worth ......the divorce
Without the support of my family and my own concerns, I had to endure in silence again and again.
Recently, I deliberately looked for a job that travels a lot, hoping to reduce the chances of ** with him.
At the beginning of this year, our family of three went to my cousin's new home as a guest and unexpectedly met Li Shishi.
only to find out that the two of them are neighbors.
A few days later, my cousin told me that Li Shishi had twice asked her about our husband and wife, and she kept asking questions, which made her feel quite irritated.
I think Tang Mingjie mentioned before that Li Shishi once pursued him, and coupled with the fact that she is now widowed and cares so much about our marriage, I guess she may still have some nostalgia for Tang Mingjie.
Since she has a soft spot for Tang Mingjie, I decided to uphold the way of a gentleman and take the initiative to create opportunities for the two to have more opportunities to interact.
I reached out to the class president and pushed her to organize a class reunion.
At the party, I deliberately added fuel and vinegar by praising Tang Mingjie to create a positive atmosphere.
Li Shishi really didn't disappoint me, she began to slowly show her interest in Tang Mingjie, taking the initiative to approach and attract his attention.
However, I felt that progress between them was a bit slow, so I actively applied to the company for a three-month assignment to provide them with more opportunities to get along.
I originally thought that Tang Mingjie might pursue novelty or be attracted by the charm of Li Shishi, so he took the initiative to file for divorce. But unexpectedly, Li Shishi couldn't bear it and took the initiative to admit their improper relationship.
At this moment, my heart rejoiced because I finally had the result I had been waiting for.
Before Tang Mingjie returned home, I considered taking drastic measures and filing for divorce. But out of concern about property and child custody, I decided to take a more sensible strategy.
In the end, through clever stratagem, I succeeded in getting Tang Mingjie to move out of the house and achieve my desired goal.
Of course, I will not be stupid enough to become Tang Mingjie's junior, but I have submitted an application for transfer to the company and am about to go to Zhejiang to work.
The house was rented, the child went with me, and I completely got rid of Tang Mingjie.
As for Tang Mingjie and Li Shishi, although I don't want to bless them, I hope they can be together and no longer cause harm to others.