Relatives and friends envy me for marrying a foreigner, and they sent blessings when I got married, but I came abroad with my husband, and when I first met, my mother-in-law gave me a dismissal: "If you dare not listen to me, go to jail!" ”
After you go back, live a good life and stop breaking the law. ”
The officer tapped me on the shoulder, turned and closed the door.
This is the 25th time I have been in prison and have been released.
From China to the United States for the past few years.
I regret it all the time.
If I had to do it all over again, I wouldn't have followed my husband Jacks out of my country again.
My white mother-in-law was very racist.
When Jax and I first got married, I noticed that she was very cold to me.
I can be immersed in the joy of being married.
Completely unaware of the magnitude of the problem.
I thought it was because Americans were not so affectionate by nature.
After all, I am just a daughter-in-law, and for her, she is from a different country, with different eating habits, customs and cultures, and it is normal for her to be reluctant to get along with me and communicate.
I simply thought that she just couldn't talk to me.
After following Jakes back home.
I deliberately want to improve my relationship with my mother-in-law.
All kinds of flattery, unleash your enthusiasm.
She wasn't as cold to me as she had been at first.
But the course of events is completely out of control.
She looked down on me at all, and in her life, she always scolded me at every turn, using all kinds of discriminatory language, and mocking my skin color and calling me a yellow pig.
Mom, I'm Jakes, your son's lover, and you can't say that about me. ”
I reminded her of this in all seriousness.
But she was dismissive: "You are also worthy?" ”
I asked Jakes for help in the hope that he could reconcile my relationship with my mother-in-law.
Husband, I crossed the ocean with you to live with you, family and everything is prosperous, your mother doesn't like me very much, can you help me? ”
Jakes was perfunctory at first, and I said I got it.
But after a long time, he was also full of banter.
Joan, I can't help it, who called you a yellow race, my mother doesn't like you for this reason, but you can't change this, I'm sorry, I can't force my mother. ”
At this point, I learned that Jakes was also racist.
He also looked down on me.
When I got home, my mother-in-law immediately threw over a bunch of dirty clothes.
You don't have to work these days, you've had enough of it, right? Hurry up and wash your clothes, if you don't come back, there will be no place for the dirty clothes at home. ”
She called the police and arrested me.
Why do you say that I am blessed?
What are you staring at, just come out and forget the pain of the scar? Be careful, I'll give you some more color! ”
My mother-in-law crossed her waist and shouted at me in a raised voice.
Her threats worked.
I'm scared. Since I came here, I have been cooperating with my mother-in-law all the time, but she is not satisfied at all.
As long as I resist a little.
She didn't even think about it.
Immediately called the police and arrested me.
Let me break the sky, and ** don't believe my words.
They only believed in my mother-in-law, and every time they would give me a sarcastic look.
I don't want to go to jail anymore.
I didn't do anything wrong.
But there are many suspects in the detention center.
Because of the color of my skin, I was discriminated against and not treated fairly.
Some of my fellow inmates in the detention center even used violence against me.
At least it is a bad word.
In the worst cases, they were beaten by their hair and punched and kicked.
I really don't want to try it again.
I lowered my eyebrows and said, "Mom, I know, I'll wash it right away, is there anything else I need to do?" ”
The mother-in-law immediately pointed to the corners of the house and listed them all.
After washing clothes and cleaning the house, you must kneel on the ground and wipe it off with a wet towel, the windows of the house must also be wiped down, the flowers and plants in the yard must also be trimmed, the weeding machine is broken, you can figure it out yourself. ”
I'm going to go sleep first, by the way, I'm going to eat bread and steak for dinner, and I'm going to eat it when I wake up, and you're ready, or you know the consequences. ”
I was a little embarrassed: "Mom, there is so much work that I may not be able to finish ...... in an afternoon."”
My mother-in-law scolded me with a slap in her face: "You yellow pigs are lazy, you can't finish such a little work all afternoon, so what else can you do?" I see you just haven't worked for a few days, you're lazy and used to it, you're a cheap bone, and if I get up and find you playing, you'll be finished! ”
I had no choice but to hold my clothes and stuff them into the washing machine first.
When I came to the U.S. for my first year.
My mother-in-law deliberately tortured me, saying that she learned that the hand washing clothes were much cleaner, and she would scrub the sheets at home every few days.
But I haven't done this kind of work at home, so I can't wash it at all.
After a few times, she gave up.
Instead, let me mop the floor on my knees.
If I can't wipe it clean, I will be slapped in the face, and he will supervise me on the side, so that if I can't wipe it clean, I will do it twice or three times.
They didn't allow me to go out to work.
I can only do housework non-stop every day, and I am pua by her.
Occasionally go to the police station for a few more days.
There is no income, and there is no money to save at all.
I couldn't stop crying when I was mopping the floor.
Tears fell to the ground with a "snap", smashing with a crisp sound.
The year I met Jakes.
I'm still in college.
He is an exchange student from the United States.
We met because of a foreign language corner activity, he is very confident and cheerful, completely different from me, I am too introverted, so I was deeply attracted to him when we first met.
But because of my personality, I didn't dare to say more to him.
He was the first to send me a friend request.
And he cares about me everywhere in life.
I'm already happy to be friends with him.
I have had a smooth ride since I was a child, I was taken care of by my parents before I went to college, I put my studies first, and I have never been in love, not even ambiguous.
Before I left home, my parents said that I should also work hard to complete my studies in college, so that I should not fall in love.
But the moment Jakes confessed to me.
My heart was shaken immediately.
Later, Jakes graduated and returned to China, and I followed him without hesitation.
What I didn't expect was this.
After returning to China, Jakes didn't even work, he thought very highly of himself, he couldn't do the work of a large company, and he couldn't look down on a small company, so he did nothing every day.
That's when I realized.
He may just be flirting with me.
The original longed-for married life has become such a mess.
I felt an indescribable bitterness in my heart.
But I'm married now.
I can only consider myself unlucky and try to integrate into this family.
After checking countless information, I finally got the weeding machine fixed.
But the lawn hasn't had time to be cut yet.
The mother-in-law was already up.
She glared at me angrily, "It's dark and you haven't done your work yet, where's my dinner?" You haven't done it yet, have you? ”
As soon as I saw her expression, my heart straightened.
Hurriedly apologized: "I'll go right away, it's not delicious when it's cold, but I'm ready, and I'll be ready to eat soon." ”
Mother-in-law while eating.
I can finally rest for a while.
Jakes came home from outside and saw a visibly surprised look on my face.
Joan, when did you come back? ”
I haven't opened my mouth yet.
The mother-in-law preemptively said: "A few minutes ahead of you, this lazy thing, deliberately playing outside, just hiding and not wanting to work, I have been busy all day today, I am tired to death, you see, I also repaired the weeding machine." ”
Mother-in-law's reversal of right and wrong.
I was taken aback and froze there.
Mom, you don't have to slander me if you want to take credit, I ......”
The words of rebuttal just came out.
The mother-in-law began to behave again.
What is the credit, you Chinese girls are the most pampered, and you don't really live with my son at all, otherwise how would you be arrested at every turn? Will you still arrest people indiscriminately? ”
My mother-in-law is very smart, she never tells me to do this and that in front of Jakes, and Jakes is never at home when I work.
He always thought I was the kind of person.
Lazy, selfish.
But I think he did it all on purpose.
He's in the middle of me and.
He will always choose only his mother.
I would like to defend myself a few more words.
Jakes, however, looked unaware, rushed over and grabbed me by the hair, forcing me to tilt my head up.
He was born again.