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Not long after Uncle Wei, who lived in Guibei, retired, his wife died of illness, and soon he found a new companion, Aunt Zhao, who was ten years younger than him. Aunt Zhao also brought a son and a daughter, her son was in vocational school at that time, and her daughter was in junior high school, and they all came to live with Uncle Wei. Uncle Wei himself had a son, who had already graduated from graduate school and was a teacher in Nanning. At that time, Uncle Wei's son was against Uncle Wei finding a new partner so soon, after all, his mother had only passed away recently, and he couldn't accept it emotionally. But one is in Nanning and the other is in Guibei County, which are far apart, and Uncle Wei is also an adult, so his needs and decisions are reasonable, so he slowly accepted it in the end.
Now that ten years have passed, Uncle Wei suddenly said that he wanted to get a marriage certificate with Aunt Zhao, and his life that had been balanced for ten years was broken. A lot of things have happened in the past ten years, Uncle Wei and his original wife's old house was renovated, in order to be able to accommodate the children brought by Aunt Zhao, the room with attic on the seventh floor of the top floor was selected at that time, with a large house type, a construction area of more than 130 square meters, and a usable area of more than 160 square meters. Later, Aunt Zhao's eldest son got married and lived together, gave birth to two children, and Uncle Wei also helped to bring them together, and the family was happy for three generations. During the winter, summer vacations and holidays, Uncle Wei and Aunt Zhao will also take their two grandsons to Nanning to live with their son for a period of time, and they get along quite well. But when it comes to the problem of the house, there is a dispute between Uncle Wei and his son Xiao Wei, the old house belongs to Uncle Wei and his original wife, after the old reform, Uncle Wei said that Aunt Zhao also paid for it, so he planned to leave this house to Aunt Zhao's son, and after Uncle Wei a hundred years later, Aunt Zhao's son gave 150,000 yuan to Xiao Wei to settle. Xiao Wei did not agree to this treatment, because he felt that this house had half of his mother's, and his mother must leave this half to him, and his father's half should be left at least half to him, so he should have 3 4 inheritance rights in this house. Uncle Wei's relatives also felt that Uncle Wei was biased in doing so, and his elbow was completely turned outward.
Now, Uncle Wei has proposed to register his marriage with Aunt Zhao, and this time, there is no way to continue to avoid the contradictions surrounding the house. Xiao Wei also deliberately went back to the county town to discuss related matters with his relatives and his father, and persuaded his father not to marry Aunt Zhao, but Uncle Wei insisted on marrying Aunt Zhao and maintained his opinion on handling the house.
Xiao Wei did not agree to the marriage of Uncle Wei and Aunt Zhao, in addition to the matter of the house, he was also worried that if there was a legal relationship, Aunt Zhao's pension and various matters related to the children would find him to bear in the future. Because Aunt Zhao and her two children don't earn much money, every time they go to Nanning to live or Xiao Wei goes back to the county seat for the New Year, most of the expenses are paid by Xiao Wei. Xiao Wei felt that Aunt Zhao and her children belonged to the greedy and cheap ones, and being with his father was more for profit. His father not only contributed money, but also contributed to bring Aunt Zhao's two grandchildren, which his father was willing, but he himself was not willing to bear this burden. But Aunt Zhao felt that Xiao Wei had misunderstood her, and Aunt Zhao thought that Uncle Wei had lived with her for ten years, didn't she know who they were? Since Uncle Wei is willing to get a marriage certificate with her, doesn't this mean that they care for and support each other? And Aunt Zhao thinks that the past ten years have been good for Xiao Wei, Xiao Wei bought a house in Nanning, and Aunt Zhao and Uncle Wei also supported Xiao Wei for tens of thousands of yuan.
Although the relatives do not fully agree with some of Xiao Wei's statements, on the whole, they are still on Xiao Wei's side, and they feel that Uncle Wei really did not consider the problem from the position of his own son. But it is difficult for a Qing official to decide family affairs, and Uncle Wei pursues his own emotional happiness, and there is nothing wrong with life. But is his approach appropriate?