A few days ago, I watched the Spring Festival movie "Hot and Hot" directed by Jia Ling. I also heard a lot of bad voices on the Internet, some people said that "Jia Ling is over-marketing", and some people said that "compared with the original "100 Yuan Love", there is a difference of 108,000 miles".
Personally, whether it is adaptation or marketing, "Hot and Hot" at least conveys a very positive value: people must learn to love themselves.
In the movie, Du Leying in the early stage blindly flattered others and blindly endured others' bullying of herself. However, in exchange for the dislike of his family and the betrayal of his girlfriends, he ......Until she chose to be reborn with the help of boxing. Here, boxing is no longer a simple sport, but a "life-saving straw" that saves Du Leying, and a powerful response to her shattering the "pleaser" personality.
As Jia Ling said, "This movie is about how kind people find themselves and how they love themselves." Not only did she do it in the movie, but she refused her ex-boyfriend Haokun's date invitation after being reborn, but she also did it in reality, successfully lost 100 pounds, put on a beautiful evening dress, and became a better version of herself.
After the movie ended, I couldn't calm down for a long time. I asked myself the question, "Have you ever won in your life?" Even once! ”
Looking back on my more than 30 years of experience, it seems that I have never won or become a better version of myself, even once. Over the years, I really seemed to have nothing but an increase in age, weight, and disease. does not have a high salary, but is often coerced by other people's fingers; There is no stable residence, but they are often mixed in first-tier cities; There is no partner to accompany you, but you often face the pressure ...... urging marriageSometimes, I really don't know if I should be happy or sad.
Watching other people's marriage and children, watching other people's step by step, watching other people's lives be complete, the envy will really flash sometimes, but in an instant, it will disappear without a trace. Because, I know that if I am really put in the middle of it, it will be difficult for me to deal with those complicated things.
But I really want to win, even once. Maybe it's a salary increase in the workplace, maybe it's a successful **, maybe it's an idol concert, or maybe it's a fan ...... of a certain account exceeds 10,000Not for the so-called fame and fortune, but to prove one's worth, to prove that one loves and is loved.
In the past few years, the increase in age and weight has also allowed diseases such as "three highs" to find me. When I weighed myself this morning, I noticed that I was quite a bit rounder again. Looking at the fat body in the mirror, I was a little disgusted with myself.
Before, I saw a sentence in the sentence reading: "A person who truly has a self will instinctively focus on himself, will cherish his time and energy, will maintain his own rhythm, and will refuse to let his life be occupied by other people's emotions and any other mess." "In 2024, then start with **, start from not caring about other people's evaluations, love yourself well, and win for yourself once.