On February 14, a ** attracted a lot of attention on the Internet. **, when a parent takes their 3-year-old child to watch a movie in the cinema, the child keeps making noises, affecting the viewing experience of the surrounding audience. A college student whispered a reminder to parents that they wanted to keep their children quiet, but the parents ignored them. After the movie, there was an argument between the two parties outside the theater, and the child's mother actually asked the college student to apologize to the child, which made the college student collapse directly.
After the ** was posted online, it quickly sparked heated discussions. Some people believe that it is necessary to keep quiet in public places, and parents have the responsibility to manage their children and should not affect others; There are also people who believe that children are young and may not be able to control their behavior, and college students should understand. So, who should apologize in this dispute?
The first thing we need to be clear about is that being quiet in public places is an essential courtesy and quality. Both adults and children should respect the rights and feelings of others. Especially in venues like movie theaters, where audiences need to be engrossed in the movie, any noise can affect their movie-going experience. Therefore, it is the responsibility of parents to keep their children quiet and keep them quiet.
Of course, we also have to take into account the age and peculiarities of the child. 3-year-olds may not yet fully understand the rules and etiquette of public places, and they behave more out of instinct and curiosity. In this case, college students should be understanding and tolerant, rather than being too harsh.
In this dispute, both sides have their own positions and reasons. However, both parents and college students should solve problems in a rational and polite manner, rather than emotionally blaming and attacking each other. If parents had apologized and disciplined their children in a timely manner, and if college students had been more understanding and tolerant, then perhaps this dispute would not have happened.
In short, in public places, we should respect the rights and feelings of others, be quiet and polite. At the same time, we must also understand and tolerate children's behavior, and give them enough patience and education. Only in this way can we jointly create a civilized and harmonious social environment.