During the winter vacation, children are busy watching TV and playing with mobile phones, but they don't want to study. In fact, parents' emotions are very important for children and can affect their psychological development. To educate children, parents should also be "smart" to learn to manage their emotions.
The parents have a gentle personality, and the children's temperament tends to be peaceful, and the inner world is stable. If parents are irritable and moody, children may also be impetuous, emotional, and more likely to fail. Therefore, controlling emotions is an important lesson for parents to learn.
1 The first word to learn is:"Slow"
Many parents can see their child's problems at a glance and can't help but point them out quickly, which is not true. Why not point it out quickly? Because children need space to grow on their own.
Parents' casual and excessive evaluation often makes children lose their inner motivation and care more about our reactions. No, you can't"Slow"Parents who come down are unable to provide a space for their children's emotions.
Children's emotions are not tolerated by their parents' emotions, and they either become cautious or confrontational, and the parent-child relationship is difficult to smooth.
2.The second word to learn is:"Weak"
Parents should learn to show in front of their children"Weak"。It is difficult for the children of strong parents to be confident, and the children's self-confidence will be weakened little by little when we have been in a strong state. Parents who can show weakness in front of their children are actually lifting up their children by showing weakness, and their children's hearts will gradually become confident and strong. Therefore, if you want your child to be confident, you must learn to show weakness in front of your child. Parents who have always been strong with their children are actually suppressing their children's growth and development.
3 The third word to learn is:"Soft"
In the process of children's growth, the real educational power of parents lies in:"Gentle"。
You will find that the softer the parent, the stronger the ability to lead the child. The more parents shout at their children all day long,
It is often difficult to pick up the burden of truly guiding and driving children.