We are no strangers to deferred payments. There are two kinds of accounts that we don't know on credit, but we must pay them off.
One is the account of our parents raising us. It seems natural that our parents gave us life and raised us when we were young, and there is nothing to say. However, we need to understand that parental love is not selfless, although we often say that parental love is selfless. This is because parents have an expectation for their children, that is, when the parents are old, the children will provide for their parents. Therefore, the contribution of parents to their children is to be returned. But it is not to ask us to return it immediately, it is a kind of deferred payment, that is, we often call credit, and we are not asked to return it until our parents are old. Some people don't understand this, and their parents are deeply disappointed when they are old and don't care about their parents' lives. As children, we should understand this, and when our parents are old, we must do our best to honor our parents, pay off this debt, and not let our parents down.
The second is a gift from relatives and friends. Gift-giving is a strange thing, it is strange, the amount is not large, and it can shorten the distance between people. The key to the wonderful effect of gift-giving is that the giver does not ask for an immediate return, but only asks the recipient to delay the return. If the recipient of the gift does not understand this and does not come and go, he will disappoint the giver, and at this time, he will lose the trust and tacit understanding between them, and at the same time lose their good interpersonal relationship.
In short, both types of arrears are hidden, but we must not only recognize them, but also pay them off.