Although it is said that women crave love, in fact, men also crave love. But often men's fate is also very tragic, because in the two ** loves, many men will also be ruthlessly abandoned by women, unable to understand, and unable to get women's love.
In fact, men really don't need to be very rich, and they don't need to be very handsome. Women are sensual, and if you can conquer her with your charm, I believe that this woman will adore you and will always love you.
Here, I would like to remind the majority of male compatriots that as long as a man does the following three things, he can be regarded as the king of feelings. Women will also look up to you for a lifetime, and they will love you for a lifetime.
We men are really fragile sometimes, so I long for a caring girl to be by my side and care about my joys and sorrows.
01. Only love people who have results and do things that have results
When you lose someone who doesn't care about you, please don't think crankily for this woman, don't eat or sleep well, and stay up decadent. Do you think she'll feel sorry for you like that? Don't be stupid, how can you possibly wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep?
She will only feel that you are selling misery and sympathy, and will want to get rid of you even more. Be ruthless with someone who doesn't love you, and you will definitely lose. If you are let down, you can be sad, but you can't be down.
You have to accept that you look at the wrong person, accept your own efforts, and have no return. You have to be the one who can turn around and leave when love is gone, most men think that the worst thing in life is to lose a woman they love the most.
That's right, in fact, the most tragic thing in life is you, because you love someone and lose yourself.
To love, to love is to love a person who has results, and to do what has results, to do things. You are decadent all day long, and you can't get back the slightest sympathy for this woman. You know that there is no result, but you still have a trace of extravagant hope in your heart.
When you meet the right person, there will be a good result, if you don't meet the right person, no matter how much you try to keep it, there will be no result. Not only will it make you physically and mentally exhausted, but it will also change your life and make you lose your happiness forever.
Men must be able to take it and put it down. Those who love you, cherish it. Those who dislike you, abandon it. Only such a man is the most backbone man.
02. Don't easily trust a woman's promises
Not everyone is able to exchange sincerity for sincerity and sincerity for sincerity. There are people who say sweet things to you, but behind the scenes, they do things that hurt you. You can be heartfelt and heartfelt to others, but others may not be able to understand your affection.
When the other party gives you any promises, saying that they will always only love you, that they will never be ambiguous with others, that they will not change their minds when they are killed, etc., you can listen to these, but don't believe them 100%.
The only constant in this world is that everything is changing, and promising this kind of thing is just a ** coaxing a fool. Never listen to what a person says to you? It's about what she does for you?
Don't think that men will cheat women, in fact, women will cheat men too. Among the two sexes, there are too many kind men who have been deceived and don't know it. I made a woman's licking dog, and I also made a woman's spare tire.
A man can spoil a woman, but don't trust a woman easily, because it is the most poisonous woman's heart. So this kind of man he will not love this person full marks, he will leave three points for himself, even if he is hurt, it will not hurt his life.
03. Understand that feelings are important, but your own value is even more important
When you see through the fickleness of human nature, you will understand that money is a mirror of feelings. What kind of affection, friendship, love, no money is all ruthless.
All the confidence of men is based on economic strength, and some people may refute that money means everything? This is not absolute, but in the same situation, a worthy man will have more choices.
In this era of love, where the price is clearly marked, it is often the one with the highest price who wins, so you must manage yourself well at all times.
Therefore, a wise man will not take his feelings too seriously, he will work hard for his career. When he has a successful career and fame, he can easily control the so-called love and the so-called woman.
Often those sensual men cry to death when women leave them, and men who lick dogs and spare tires make women look down on them.
There are also some men who think that they are wholeheartedly for the sake of their families, their wives and children, and give up their careers to be a full-time man. This kind of man often does not end well, because he does not have the financial strength and he cannot control this woman.
As the so-called poor couples mourn everything, men who often have no economic foundation will eventually make women look down on them from the bottom of their hearts, and finally be ruthlessly disgusted and abandoned.
Write to the end: Men must not be too emotional in their feelings. You can love, but you must think clearly and not be too in love, because the charm of a man does not come from sensuality. Men are not bad and women are not loved, and it is not necessarily a good thing for men to be too honest.
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Emotional Mentor Yi Chunhan: Focus on emotional interpretation and be your most loyal listener of emotions.