Recently, a classic sentence in the ancient marriage market has reappeared.
How classic is it?
In the world of marriage and love, all the men and women you meet who worship money can be summed up with it.
That's right, it's what Ma Mou, the female guest of a popular variety show "If You Don't Disturb", said more than ten years ago:
"I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bike."
Let's talk about this matter to friends who haven't watched the show first:
In one episode of the show, a male guest who loves cycling and is unemployed asked her if she would like to ride a bicycle with her often.
Image source network. Ma replied with a smile: "Then I'll sit on the BMW and cry." ”
Image source network. Subsequently, this dialogue was rumored to be "I'd rather cry as a BMW than laugh on a bicycle", which became a famous phrase for worshipping money, and became popular all over the country.
For this reason, a male guest scolded her on stage in public:
You should go to a beauty pageant and give up your place to a girl who is sincerely courting. ”
There are more billionaires driving treasure x in the audience at the beauty pageant scene. ”
Image source network. There was also a female guest on the show who sarcastically mocked her: "I will buy my own BMW and sit by myself." ”
A materialistic girl like her is not worthy to talk about love. ”
Image source network. But these criticisms also made her a famous "China's No. 1 Gold Worshipper" and "Queen of Topics" more than ten years ago.
She was also asked to give a commentary on the 2010 World Cup in South Africa.
This sister doesn't understand football at all, so she supports the Chinese team when she opens her mouth, and she also makes a lot of jokes.
What happened to her after that, I don't know.
It wasn't until two days ago, after watching the blogger's interview, that I knew that she really cried after releasing the bold statement.
The reason for crying is not because of material things and money worship, but because of domestic violence by her husband.
Douyin @红星新闻.
Ma said that he was subjected to domestic violence 7 times in half a year after marriage.
wanted to divorce, but her husband refused, and after she finally escaped, she was stalked and threatened by her husband.
Douyin @ Mulan is here.
The good news is that she has now filed for a writ of habeas corpus.
The next step is to get a divorce as soon as possible and get rid of the nightmare of domestic violence.
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Some people in the comment area are lamenting the past.
Someone said sarcastically: "Her wish has finally come true."
How is it not crying when a bicycle is crying? ”
Some people also took the opportunity to recall the various guests of "Do Not Disturb" back then.
I oppose all forms of domestic violence and respect an adult's own choice.
But this group of memories also reminds me of the grand occasion when the whole people watched this show.
Everyone wants to see how many lights will be extinguished by this guest today, and who will hold hands with whom to succeed.
Zhihu @ Zheng catching head.
I don't know about the others, but anyway, I'm definitely not there just to see beautiful guests.
Believe me, absolutely not, I'm not that superficial.
A female guest in a certain issue.
There are many beautiful women, and there are many strange things.
For example, in one episode, a male guest entered the venue with a dessert made by himself and confidently introduced himself.
Image source network. Then, because of his "too handsome" appearance, he was turned off by all 24 female guests in the audience.
Image source network. There is also this man, who was also widely turned off after taking the stage.
Because his self-introduction is like this:
Image source network. I don't agree with this criterion for mate selection, because I can't touch it.
There are strange men, and there are many strange women.
For example, this male guest has made it clear that he is interested in the girl, and this female guest also chose to leave a light for him.
In the show, leaving a light means that I have a good impression of you and hope to go further with you.
But at the final moment of decision, the female guest rejected the man in public, reasoning: "I don't want to fall in love for a year after the breakup."
So why do you want to participate in the blind date show? Isn't this a joke?
There is also this one, who asked the guests for a car in the show, and when the lights were turned off by the other party, he remedied, saying, "Isn't it okay if the car is gone?" ”
Some female guests have also become "nail households" of the show, such as the tour guide of a travel company.
Image source network. It is rumored that she has been standing for 5 years and claims that she does not like "active pursuers".
She always likes to say to male guests, "Choose me, I'll take you on a trip", and she always leaves lights for male guests.
But in the final choice, she would always reject the other party for various reasons, until she was invited by the host after 5 years because she had been "nailed" for too long.
Back then, I was very simple.
Seeing that it was so difficult for so many handsome men and beautiful women to find a partner, I suddenly felt that I could do it again.
I even came up with the idea of "if you can't find an object in the future, go to non-x do not disturb".
But I didn't know back then that there were many couples who successfully held hands in front of the stage, but in fact, some did not make it to the end.
Some even let go of their hands as soon as they got off the show.
I used to think that these men and women were all amateurs who wanted to find a partner.
Now I found out that there are amateurs who are brave enough to court, but there are more people who chase fame and fortune.
was on the show, added a topic to the show, and got ** myself, which can be called a win-win situation.
Some have even become Internet celebrities, actors, and some have even entered wealthy families.
For example, Fang X, who would have thought that this person who confessed on the show would become a "sister-in-law of the king" in the future?
And the person she confessed to was Jonny (coser Karina's husband, who died in an accident).
Image source network. Someone broke the news that there is actually truth and falsehood behind these "loves", and there is actually a script.
For example, you think that the girl who turned off the lights on the stage rejected the boy, but in reality they are a couple.
There are also people who have posted the ** in the backstage of the show, and the director said to the guests: "You have the button to destroy others, and I also have the button to destroy you." ”
Image source network. Even Ma once broke the news that the famous sentence of worshipping money back then was just a script given to him by the director team.
Sina News. Of course, these are true or false, and the program team has indeed not admitted it.
But if you want to ask me now, how real and how fake are these love shows.
My answer is that it's better for you to experience it for yourself.
After all, what is broadcast on TV will be more or less influenced by the editing and script.
But in reality, being rejected is really being rejected.