There is a proverb that says, "The tree is old and semi-hollow, and the person is old and know-it-all." ”
When people reach a certain age, they will find that many things are different from what they imagined.
I once wanted to change my life against the sky, but then I could only do my best and wait for the destiny of heaven.
Everyone wants to live a life of great wealth and wealth, but wealth is like a loach on the ground, the more you have to grasp it, the more you can't catch it.
What we can grasp should be the following three things, but many people understand too late and miss the opportunity.
Books are the foundation of wealth.
When I was a child, my teacher told us, "If you read more than 10,000 books, you will write like a god." ”When I grew up, I found that reading more books not only strengthened my writing ability, but also strengthened my hands-on ability. Social skills, too, are in the book.
The weaknesses and strengths of human nature can be answered in the book, so at any time, you can make use of your strengths and avoid your weaknesses, and when life is difficult, you can also make up for your shortcomings.
At the end of the Yuan Dynasty, the young Song Lian studied hard, although his family was poor and could not afford to buy books, he tried his best to borrow books.
Once, he had a problem and couldn't figure it out. So, he risked the university to visit Mr. Yumeyoshi, who had not accepted students for many years.
The teacher was moved by him, so he carefully answered his questions.
When he was thirty or forty years old, he went to Huashan to become a Taoist priest, just to read a few more books so that he could calm down and read.
When Zhu Yuanzhang led people to overthrow the Yuan Dynasty, Song Lian came out of the mountain and became a famous politician. After the establishment of the Ming Dynasty, he became the prince's teacher.
Song Lian asked Zhu Yuanzhang: "If your son is disobedient, can I teach him a lesson?" ”
Zhu Yuanzhang smiled and said, "Despite the punishment." ”
When we envy Song Lian's rich life, we also have to see a fact-From childhood to old age, I have never tasted a day to go to books, and I know everything in learning.
The more a person reads, the more confident he is about all kinds of things. Getting rich is easy.
Mismatched abilities and ambitions can become an obstacle in life. Too much ambition, insufficient ability, doomed to fall.
When you complain about fate, ask yourself, are you reading too much, is it enough? If you don't read much, pick up the book and don't complain.
Reading a hundred books may not all be useful, but a few pages, or a few sentences, will make you pause, and it will be enough.
Marriage is the fate of wealth.
We have a mantra: "Marriage matters." ”The ancients regarded marriage as a good opportunity for the union of "two big families". even leave the pattern of the world to marriage to deal with.
For example, Songtsen Gampo and Princess Wencheng got married, so they are more closely connected with the Central Plains; Wang Zhaojun is out of the plug, so there is the breath of the Central Plains outside the plug.
Nowadays, we still attach great importance to marriage, and many poor boys have become the sons-in-law of the rich, so that they have the opportunity to show their ambitions; The poor woman met Childe, and since then she has turned around like Cinderella.
The marriage of the right family reflects the strong alliance and the two big families for the better.
From a personal point of view, when you meet the right person, your life will be smooth sailing, and you will embark on the road of wealth and prosperity from then on, or because marriage will change the pattern of your life, you will start to make a career yourself.
My classmate Lao Ma, before he got married, still had the image of a second-rate son.
After getting married, he suddenly found that his family needed milk powder money, and his living expenses had increased, and he hoped that he would have a house in the city. Therefore, I resolutely went to Dongguan to work.
After five years of hard work, Lao Ma has more than 100,000 savings, bought a house in the county, and his children's education, his own pension, and his wife's settlement have all been settled.
In the old home, the old man marries the man, called"Install the Tightening Spell".- That is to say, when a man gets married, his wife recites a mantra in his ear, which sounds like a headache, but it will also become steady, just like Monkey King has become Sun Wukong, all the way west, and he will achieve positive results.
Love mentor Tu Lei said: "Similar people are only suitable for playing together, and only complementary people are suitable for growing old together." ”Husband and wife are concentric, and their profits are broken; Couples get older, life gets better. If you grasp marriage, you will grasp the source of wealth, don't be careless.
Good deeds are the continuation of wealth.
A lot of people, after being rich, then becoming poor.
There are also some people who, after having a good position, lose it.
But all kinds of things are the result of virtue not being worthy of position and virtue being unworthy of wealth.
If you want to be rich all the time, you must always do good deeds and accumulate virtues, without exception.
We all know that good deeds are rewarded. If you understand from it, you will understand that if you share your wealth with others today, you will get the reward of wealth tomorrow. As soon as you come and go, the wealth will be retained.
Holding a thing in your hand and not moving is a sign of "if you don't advance, you will retreat", and it is not advisable.
Benjamin Franklin said, "Poverty itself is not terrible, but what is terrible is the idea that you are destined to be poor or must die of poverty." ”People who are unwilling to do good deeds are essentially poor-hearted people, who see everything in an eyesway, and have no good intentions.
During the period of Taizong of the Tang Dynasty, there was a widow named Wang in Chang'an, who made a living by selling powder.
The poor scholar Ma Zhou came to spend the night, and she took Ma Zhou in regardless of the gossip of outsiders.
Later, Ma Zhou became the prime minister and insisted on marrying Wang, and since then Wang has become the prime minister's wife, and his life has risen many steps.
No one knows which day you will have good luck if you do a good deed today, but if you do it, at least you have a clear conscience and a beautiful heart, and the good retribution begins.
Someone said, "There are big carp swimming in the lake, but it is not as good as the small crucian carp on the table." ”The reason why many people live a miserable life and feel that wealth has nothing to do with them is because in their eyes, they have been staring at the big fish, but they have underestimated the small fish on the table.
Rich people start from little by little, from cherishing the present. What you can enjoy is the process of getting better, rather than demanding "huge results".
Tao Yuanming said: "Wealth is not my wish, and the emperor's hometown is unexpected." Talking about multiplication to the end, Lefu's destiny is doubtful. ”Wealth does not come from demand, it is in the carefree days, in the optimistic nature.
Read more books, cherish your marriage, do good deeds all your life, and wealth will come naturally.
If the riches do not come, do not complain, do today and wait for tomorrow.