The Spring Festival is the most important traditional festival of the Chinese nation, and it is also a day for family reunions. However, with the development of society and changes in life, more and more people choose not to go to their relatives and not to visit their relatives' homes to pay New Year's greetings, but to spend a quiet New Year at home. They think that it is too troublesome, too tiring, too boring to go to relatives, and they have to deal with all kinds of trivial things and contradictory relationships. They feel that as long as their families are happy and their children are healthy, it is enough. But have they ever wondered how this will affect their children? In the process of growing up, children need to be exposed to all kinds of people and things, learn the rules of society and moral principles, and cultivate their own emotions and personality.
Relatives are our closest blood relationship, they share our ancestors and roots, and they are the people we can trust and rely on the most. Visiting relatives is not only a kind of etiquette, but also an expression and communication of emotions. When we meet, hug, greet, chat, eat, and play with our relatives, we can feel the warmth and support of family affection, which is priceless and cannot be replaced by money and material things.
Children are the ones who need affection the most, and they need love, recognition, encouragement, help, and guidance from their relatives, which are all important nutrients and motivation for their growth. If children do not go to relatives and do not go to relatives' homes to pay New Year's greetings from an early age, they will lack the warmth and support of these family affections, and they will feel lonely, indifferent, uneasy, unconfident, and even have some psychological problems and obstacles.
Expanding: Visiting relatives is one of the things that children look forward to the most, they can see a lot of familiar faces, play with their cousins, and listen to interesting stories from their elders. The love and encouragement of relatives can make children feel valued and respected, and thus develop a positive attitude towards life. In addition, relatives will bring gifts and red envelopes to the children, increasing their material comforts and happiness. Therefore, visiting relatives for the New Year is a kind of welfare for children, which can make them feel the warmth and support of family affection.
Society is a complex system made up of a variety of people and things. Everyone has to live, work, study, play, and get along with other people in society, cooperate, compete, and solve problems. If we want to survive and develop in society, we must learn the rules and moral norms of society, and we must learn to integrate and adapt to society.
Visiting relatives is a kind of social activity, and it is also a kind of social learning. When we go to relatives, we have to deal with different people, understand their situation, respect their opinions, adapt to their habits, deal with their relationships, and solve their conflicts, which are the basic skills and abilities for social integration and adaptation.
If children do not go to their relatives and do not go to their relatives' homes to pay New Year's greetings, they will lack the basic skills and abilities to integrate and adapt to these societies, and they will feel strange, confused, helpless, and uncomfortable in society, and even encounter some difficulties and troubles.
Expanding the language: Visiting relatives is a way for children to learn about society, and they can learn how to get along with people of different ages, how to respect their elders, how to cooperate with their peers, etc. These are all essential skills and qualities in social interaction. In addition, relatives are also an important social resource for children, and through interaction with them, children can broaden their horizons, understand the work and characteristics of various industries, and make plans and choices for their future. Therefore, visiting relatives for the New Year is essential for children's social integration and adaptation.
Culture is the soul of a nation and the foundation of a country. Culture is composed of history, geography, customs, beliefs, art, science, etc., it is a spiritual wealth, but also a material achievement. Culture needs to be inherited and innovated, and each generation must learn and inherit the essence of culture from its predecessors, and also make its own contribution to the development and progress of culture according to its own reality and creativity.
Visiting relatives is a kind of cultural inheritance and innovation. When we visit relatives, we have to understand and respect the culture of our relatives, such as their dialect, food, clothing, etiquette, festivals, stories, songs, etc., which are all cultural inheritances. At the same time, we also need to share and exchange our own culture with our relatives, such as our study, work, life, hobbies, dreams, creativity, etc., which are all cultural innovations.
If children don't go to their relatives and don't go to their relatives' homes to pay New Year's greetings, they will lack the inheritance and innovation of these cultures, and they will feel strange, cold, and indifferent to the culture of their own nation and country, and even have some misunderstandings and prejudices.
Expanding: Visiting relatives for the New Year is an important opportunity for children to learn and inherit culture. At relatives' homes, children can hear traditional stories and histories from their ancestors, and learn about their hardships and wisdom. You can participate in various folk activities, such as dragon and lion dances, fireworks, etc., to feel the unique charm of traditional culture; You can also learn to make traditional food, learn to draw traditional paintings, and feel the artistic charm of traditional culture. Through these experiences, children can have a deeper understanding and identification with their own national culture, enhance their cultural self-confidence, and better inherit and carry forward traditional culture.
To sum up, if you don't go to your relatives or go to your relatives' house to pay New Year's greetings, you will lack the warmth and support of family affection, the basic ability to integrate and adapt to society, and the opportunity for cultural inheritance and innovation. As parents, we should pay attention to these influences and take our children to visit relatives and visit relatives' homes to pay New Year's greetings, so that they can gain more valuable experiences and opportunities, promote their all-round development, and cultivate their perception and identification with family, society and culture. In this way, our children can become emotional, capable, and literate people who contribute to their own well-being and the prosperity of their country.