Wang Guowei said that there are three realms in life.
Alone on the high-rise building to look at the end of the world", this is the first confusion in life.
I will never regret the gradual widening of the belt, and I will make people haggard for Yi", this is the hardship of the road to light.
The crowd looked for him thousands, and suddenly looked back, but that person was in the lamplight", this is a matter of course after paying.
In the past few days, if you think about it, there should also be a threefold realm of suffering.
The first realm: "If you want to cross the Yellow River and the ice and the river, you will climb the snow-covered mountains in Taihang." ”
The second realm: "Looking back at the bleak place, returning, there is no wind and rain and no sunshine." ”
The third realm: "Go to the poor place of water, and sit and watch the clouds rise." ”
The First Realm:If you want to cross the Yellow River and ice congestion river, you will climb the snow-filled mountains of Taihang
Many years ago, I read a book in Fan Deng and saw such a conversation.
Fan Deng asked Liu Chuanzhi, what is the biggest pain in life?
Liu Chuanzhi said that it should be a person who can never find what he wants.
Fan Deng said that this is not the greatest pain in life.
The greatest pain in life is the pain that you don't think you should have.
Failing the exam, we suffer. When the investment fails, we also suffer. The loss of a loved one makes us suffer even more.
Life is supposed to be good and happy, why is there so much pain?
We can't help but dream back in the middle of the night, when our hearts ache, and ask God, why did you do this to me?
In fact, the sun is always there, and dark clouds will drift over everyone's head, and everything is natural, without partiality.
More than 2,000 years ago, Lao Tzu told us: there is no mutual birth, difficulty and ease are compatible, length and shortness are dwarfed, and high and low are inclined ......to each other
If there is a desire to succeed, there must be a possibility of failure.
If there is a vision of happiness, there must be suffering.
It's just that we only want to see the sun, but we don't want to see the shadows.
However, life always allows us to grow in various ways.
If we are lucky, we will come to the second realm.
The second realm: "Looking back at the bleak place, returning, there is no wind and rain and no sunshine."
After experiencing the glory of the court's hand-picked and the life and death of the Wutai poetry case, Su Shi plowed the eastern slope and lived in seclusion in the snow house to welcome the rebirth of his life.
On that rainy afternoon, everyone who traveled with him was embarrassed, but he was the only one, with bamboo canes and mango shoes beating horses, and a cloud of smoke and rain in his life.
Dongpo, who is not afraid of the wind and rain in front of him, accepts the wind and rain of life calmly.
The song "Fixing the Storm" set his heart and his transcendent attitude towards life.
The mountain breeze is slightly cold, but it ushers in the oblique light of the mountain. All things complement each other and restrain each other.
Through the rain and wind, look back at the bleak place, and return. Even there is no wind or rain or sunshine.
The second realm of suffering: recognizing suffering and accepting suffering.
When we come to this realm, we can not only see the coldness of the wind and rain, but also feel the grace of moisturizing things silently.
We accept the unsatisfactory ** of life, and we also cherish the happiness of the elder.
There is no wind and rain and no sunshine", which is an indifference to joy and sorrow, and an acceptance of the impermanence of life.
For a long time, I felt that this was the ultimate attitude we had in the face of suffering.
However, I always feel that behind this indifference, there is a kind of desolation and helplessness.
The heart is like a gray wood, and the body is like an untied boat.
The Buddha said that life is to suffer.
If this road is destined to be full of thorns, what is the meaning of our coming to earth?
It wasn't until later that I found the answer in a book ("Too Stupid Heavenly Book").
The third realm: "Go to the poor place of water, and sit and watch the clouds rise."
If God wants to give you a large pie, it usually doesn't hit you on the head, but in the pit in front of you.
The third realm of suffering, there is no suffering in the world, only gifts.
All the gifts start in a special way.
Fate wants us to stop our busy footsteps, to see the ups and downs of the distant mountains, and to see the clouds flying.
He will bring us to the end of the landscape.
Only in the state of poverty can there be a sense of relief.
Zhuangzi said, knowing that it is helpless, and being at peace with it.
We used to do our best for the obsession in our hearts.
But when we have exhausted all means and still can't do anything, we have to say, forget it.
So we lifted up our robes and sat down on the floor. It is at this time that we will raise our heads, see the distant mountains green and blue, and see the clouds curling and rising.
One lost, one returned. One grows, one dies. One touches the earth, the other rises into the air.
The third realm of suffering is no longer the act of "always wiping diligently, so that there is no dust", but the inaction of "there is nothing in the first place, where to stir up dust".
It is like drawing a circle, bypassing the path of "asceticism and hatred", allowing us to see the hope and endless light of life.
Light and love have always been there, and those mottled shadows are just to remind us of the existence of light.
Light and darkness are never relative.
Light is eternal, and darkness is nothing more than where light has not yet gone.