As long as I don't marry you, I can do anything", a 17-year-old joke, a promise that you will always regret, this is the truth and cruelty that "Love for a Long Time" brings us. Huang Yingzi's 17th birthday did not receive a gift from her friends as expected. On the contrary, Huang Yingzi received birthday cards that seemed almost perfunctory and worthless to her, even though the cards wrote down the solemn promises made to her by her friends. 
As a heroine whose whole body is full of positive energy, Huang Yingzi seems to be particularly fascinated by Ding Ye's "youth pain literature", and even took the initiative to apply to the editor-in-chief for an interview with the author she has loved for many years. The so-called youth pain literature can be understood as a kind of short-term youth portrayal of abuse for the sake of abuse, which generally tells the story of an age when he is most looking forward to and longing for beauty and attaches importance to feelings, and finally gets a regretful and tragic ending. 
Such a literary genre is usually only circulated at the age of 17, and can resonate with many boys and girls. But when these flower-like children walk out of school, out of the ivory tower, and into the oven of society, they will face up to and deny the unreality of youth under the ruthless destruction of reality, and will gradually distance themselves from the literature of youth pain. However, Huang Yingzi, who still believes that he is the backbone of the 17-year-old group of friends, is still obsessed with Ding Ye's youth pain literature from the beginning. 
Just like the lives of this group of children presented to us in "Love for a Long Time", almost none of them will be attracted to youth pain literature again, they are all facing their own bad and helpless lives. But even this kind of life is like a life that has been deliberately and carefully beautified, because all this seems so unreal and wishful thinking. Do you still remember when rehearsing the play, this group of boys and girls talked about their life ideals? Nowadays, almost every one of them has achieved their dreams, for better or for worse. 
Can life really come true like "Love for a Long Time"? If you encounter such a life, will you still be sad all day long like them? Even Huang Yingzi, who is unhappy and unhappy in life and work, can afford to live in a spacious and decent bachelor apartment, and drag a National Geographic suitcase worth more than 800 yuan. For most young people who work hard in big cities or in foreign lands, what is not satisfied? What is not satisfied? 
Although such a plot and such a life cannot be said to be non-existent, they are not necessarily common everywhere. Although the story is beautiful and handsome guys and beauties appear in turn, in my opinion, the life after being so glorified is not only unconvincing to me, but also not worth mentioning. He is too illusory and ethereal, just like the coincidence in Xianxia**, just like the scenes of abuse for the sake of abuse in the literature of youth pain, the degree of cool writing has lost the evocative homely taste. So much so that when Huang Yingzi took out the birthday card promised to her by her childhood friends, she not only couldn't empathize and be moved, but also realized the falsehood and unreality. 
Not to mention how many people will remember or care about the commitments between childhood friends, just like you still remember when you grow up, how much courage and stance do you have to force the drifting friends to realize these commitments? It may be too much to judge these promises by being worthless, but can you really give up the opportunity to stay in school, give up the competition for intellectual property rights, and give up the common progress in your career with your beloved for the sake of friends who have not been in touch or see each other for many years, and just go back to a wedding? You must know that before this, this group of 17-year-old friends who were like glue have essentially fallen apart. 
Perhaps we can look at the promise of childhood in this way, he can be a person who misses the old and collects the good memories of the past, or he can be like Huang Yingzi, who faces loneliness to comfort the spiritual food of the emptiness in the heart. But when you kidnap your friends with these cards, this kind of almost coercive invitation and emotional offensive is difficult for anyone to choose and choose. If you are rejected, the promise will be worthless to you; If you get what you want, why don't that promise become worthless to the other person? 
The pen has no intention of criticizing or complaining about the story itself and the characters in the play. On the contrary, this thousand-word article that seems to be complaining and criticizing "Love for a Long Time" is more because of the thoughts or reflections that these plots want to trigger. Who hasn't had a few best friends or friends in their childhood? Who hasn't made a few wishes to friends and friends when they were young and frivolous that they can't fulfill and fulfill in their lifetimes. Life has been rushing for decades, and when you are completely knocked to the ground by reality, how many people can raise their heads and look back at their 17-year-old self? 
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