There's a saying that goes like this:
There is no one in the world who is not injured, no matter when, you have to believe that the only one who can really ** your own is yourself. ”
Indeed, there is no one who has not been hurt, and there is no one whose life is always hopeless.
You have to believe that whether you are injured or not, it is only temporary, and it is just a life experience.
Only if we can afford to put it down, think about it, forget it, and endure it, then your life will become more and more sober and bright.
After all, in this world, only those who can really cross and heal themselves can finally wake up and walk this life calmly.
Therefore, in the face of life, you should not be afraid to stay up, because once you get through it, you will fly over that mountain and see greater hope in life.
Be mindset
People who are not strong in mentality, or who have a fragile mentality, will not be able to walk well in this life.
Because people who are fragile in their hearts and have an unstable mentality, they are easy to become emotional, and once they are emotional, they will have all kinds of bad thoughts and bad thoughts.
As a result, it is easy to fall into a state of passive, even complaining, that has nothing to do.
When the mentality is weak, people tend to feel that all the unfortunate things in the world have happened to them.
As a result, the more cranky I thought, the more I complained to others, but the problems could not be solved, and the troubles became more and more one after another.
Osamu Dazai said in "Human Disqualification":
"I think it's futile to complain to others, and it's better to suffer in silence than to do so. ”
When you encounter a problem, don't try to complain, and don't try to escape, because even if you can escape for a while, you can't escape for a lifetime.
People, when encountering difficulties, only let themselves face difficulties, solve difficulties, and let difficulties become a ladder for their own success, which is the quality and level that a strong person should have.
Psychologist Anthony Robin once proposed that it is not the environment or the encounter that affects our lives, but what kind of mentality we have.
When we have the mentality of a strong man and the fighting spirit full of hope, then even if we encounter things in real life that no one helps, no one supports, or even is ridiculed and trampled on, we can still turn over on our own.
Writer Martin once said that every powerful person has gritted his teeth and spent a period of time when no one helped, no one supported, and no one asked for warmth.
Only by letting yourself get through it and soberly allowing yourself to survive can you really get through a new world of life.
Hope is big
Life is hard, life is hard, but your hope is great.
The most regrettable thing in life is that you can give yourself hope, but you only leave yourself disappointed.
In fact, no one has not experienced the stages of injury, disappointment, and pain from birth to death, and everyone has times when they are hurt.
Different things, in the face of the same injury, some people choose to feel sorry for themselves, complain about others, and even hate everything.
But some people choose to endure and persevere, let themselves survive, and continue to survive.
As a result, these two different people are destined to go in different directions of life, and they are also destined to have completely different life landscapes and experiences.
As Rabindranath Tagore said:
"The suffering, the losses you have suffered, the responsibilities you have suffered, and the pain you have endured today will eventually turn into light and illuminate your path. ”
In fact, a truly smart person, a person who is truly strong in his heart, will definitely let himself see greater hope in times of difficulty.
Even for these people, even if the road ahead is long and the front is dark, the more times like this, the more hope they have to give themselves.
Because when you really survive this difficult and painful years one day, and usher in a bright scene, you will find that everything that has ever been is just a test.
If you get through it, you will be reborn, you will be reborn, and you will be radiant.
Don't be afraid to stay alive
In life, everyone will crawl in the mire, but not everyone can climb out, and some people are even buried in it.
In fact, a person's real strength lies in being able to survive on his own no matter what kind of life difficulties he encounters.
Because only by boiling it out on your own can you grow real skills and open up a new world.
As Xin Yiwu said in "Shanyue Doesn't Know the Bottom of My Heart":
"Our hearts, our flesh, grow in each of us, the ups and downs, the taste of our own taste, only we know. ”
In fact, everyone should let themselves go through it, rely on themselves to get through the years when no one cared, no one greeted, and no one asked for warmth.
In this way, in a lonely state of mind, I concentrate on cultivation, grow secretly, and slowly boil up.
So, in the same lonely years, I boiled out my true skills, real talents, real insights, real vision, and real patterns.
As the writer Maugham said:
"Each and every one of us is a product of the loneliness of this planet, because we are all going through, unique experiences. ”
In the end, relying on his own boiling, he slowly moved towards independence, became strong, and truly had his own confidence, and he could live more and more successfully, more and more satisfied, and contented by himself.
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