Cheap, MC Painter.
Don't be a cheap self, don't pay at will, don't cater to others with wishful thinking, because there is only cheapness in wishful thinking, the circle is different, and there is no need to be strong.
Manage yourself, cherish the good time in front of you, everything that should come will always come.
Not all efforts can be exchanged for a smile.
After watching "The Life of the Disgusted Matsuko", my heart is a little dull.
When he was a child, Matsuko was sensitive and lacked love, and his father focused more on his frail sister, and Matsuko unconsciously developed a pleasing personality in order to win his father's love.
Matsuko wanted to win a smile from his father, so he had to develop the existence of a grimace under the stress reaction, as if only in this way would his father not always treat him coldly.
Matsuko didn't want to be hurt by stealing students, so she took all the blame herself, as if only in this way could everyone be well.
Because he longs for his boyfriend's love, even if he is hurt by the other party, he has no regrets, as if this is the only way to stay by his side.
But in exchange for what?
Her father did not treat Matsuko differently because of his grimace, but accused her of farce again and again;
The theft was not all right, but caused Songzi to lose his job and run away from home;
Her boyfriend was not deeply moved by the pine nuts who compromised again and again, but left her with a greater blow and injury.
Whether facing a loved one, a friend, or a lover, she always habitually puts herself below, prioritizing the needs of others and paying attention to the emotions of others.
Life is short, there is no need to live to meet everyone's expectations, your own feelings are the most important.
If you tolerate too much, you will only be pinched as a soft persimmon.
I remember when I first started working, I met an old employee who was not very good-tempered and qualified.
But she doesn't seem to like me very much, and finds fault with me everywhere.
Our desks are next to each other, I click the mouse and she says I'm too noisy, I type on the keyboard and she says I'm too noisy.
Everyone's keyboard and mouse are uniformly equipped by the company, isn't this something out of nowhere?
When there were cockroaches, she said that it was the cockroaches on my side that crawled to her, and every time, she took the opportunity to suppress me.
I thought to myself, she is an old employee, so I smiled and apologized.
Later I found out that it was useless at all, and she rose directly to the attack of human dignity.
I couldn't bear it anymore, and I thought about a strategy for several days, hit it with one hit, and counterattacked strongly"The rabbit bites when it's in a hurry", after she saw that I was not easy to mess with, she never dared to bully me again.
Yu Hua said in "Shouting in the Drizzle".
In short, when we treat the world in a very good way, the world suddenly becomes gentle. ”
The world is like a villain who bullies the soft and is afraid of the hard, picking soft persimmons and pinching them. In the same way, people themselves like to bully honest people, because they know that you are a bully, and they don't even have to worry about retaliation.
So you must have a hard shell to better protect yourself.
To be a man, you must have the courage to be hated.
I've seen a story:
An old man with gray hair, dressed in rags, picks up trash on the side of the road while reminding young people not to litter.
The young man passing by was unimpressed, and casually threw away the empty bottle.
Old man: "Young man, you've thrown something in the wrong place." ”
The young man looked at the old man with disgust, turned his head and left.
The old man's hands never stopped, trying to add a clean place to the corner.
Others were a little puzzled: "Grandpa, you seem to be tired, why are you doing this?" In addition, there will be sanitation workers to clean it every day. ”
The old man smiled and replied, "Because I know that no matter what I do, there will always be people who don't like me." However, I am not discouraged by this, because I know that I just need to be myself. ”
Life is constantly comparing ourselves with our ideal selves, not living under the evaluation of others, we do not live to meet the expectations of others, but to live our own lives.
Even if you are said badly and hated, there is nothing to care about, because how the other person views you is the other person's problem.
The relationship between adults is not a matter of hard work, but it can be exchanged for a smile. It's not that you can be grateful for it by pouring out your heart and lungs.
If your posture is too low and your temper is too good, you will only be hurt by yourself.
Always remember not to be a cheap person in any relationship.
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Typography |Qing Yueyue.
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