Late at night, the hustle and bustle of the city gradually fell silent, but Li Yang's heart was like a ripple that was stirred up, and it couldn't be calmed down for a long time. He sat in the dark, only the light of his phone's screen reflected his furrowed brow. In the draft text message, an unsent message reads: "Good night, I miss you." It started a month ago, when Li Yang and his girlfriend Xiaowen met her ex-boyfriend at a friend's party. That night, Xiaowen's conversation with her ex-boyfriend was full of laughter and memories, and Li Yang could only stand awkwardly awkwardly. He had never felt so uneasy. "You're laughing a lot. On the way home, Li Yang's words carried a hint of resentment. Xiaowen gently pulled his hand, "That's all in the past, aren't we very good now?" Li Yang nodded, but the uneasiness in his heart did not dissipate. Since then, he has begun to pay more attention to Xiaowen's every move, for fear that she will leave him. On a sunny weekend, the two went out together. At the edge of a golden rice field, Xiaowen ran happily and beckoned Li Yang to join in. He quickened his pace, but suddenly saw Xiaowen accidentally stepping on the air and leaning forward. Li Yang rushed over quickly and hugged her tightly. "Are you alright? He asked with concern. Xiaowen smiled slightly, "With you, I don't have anything." But on the way back, a runaway truck suddenly rushed from the side. Li Yang instinctively protected Xiaowen, made an emergency turn, and passed by the truck. The atmosphere in the car froze for a while, but Xiaowen's hand held his tightly, and the warmth calmed Li Yang's heart slightly. After this incident, Li Yang became more nervous, and he began to check his phone frequently, asking Xiaowen's whereabouts, and even occasionally appeared downstairs in her company after work without telling him. "Yang, why are you here? Xiaowen was a little surprised. "Oh, me. I happened to be passing by. Li Yang stammered, and it was difficult to hide his emptiness. Xiaowen smiled and shook her head, "You're such a fool. However, at a dinner party, Xiaowen's phone accidentally fell and the screen shattered with a hole. She looked at Li Yang distressedly: "What should I do now?" Li Yang didn't think much about it, and bought her a new mobile phone that night. Xiaowen was not only moved, but also troubled by his excessive concern. "Yang, I know you care about me, but you don't need to be so nervous, I'm not made of glass. Xiaowen said softly. Li Yang's heart tightened, and he began to reflect on his behavior. Yes, he was afraid of losing Xiaowen, but his actions were slowly pushing her away. One night, Xiaowen said with some mystery: "Yang, I have a surprise for you on the weekend." Li Yang was looking forward to it with uneasiness, not knowing what this surprise would be. When the weekend came, Xiaowen took him to a primary school, and it turned out that she had signed up for the two of them to participate in the public welfare teaching activity. "You're always worried about losing me, but I'm also afraid of losing you. Xiaowen's words made Li Yang instantly understand that the two of them had the same idea. 
[Every manifestation].1.Over-focused:He will constantly message you or ask you about your whereabouts from time to time, showing extreme concern for your daily life. It's like Li Yang always checking his mobile phone, worrying about Xiaowen's every movement. 2.Appears many times for no reason:He can always be there for you at the most unexpected moment, if only because he "happened to be passing by". This kind of inadvertent appearance is actually the insecurity in the heart. 3.Overprotective:Like Li Yang saving Xiaowen on the side of the rice field, he always shows up at the first time when you are in danger or unwell, gives you protection, and is afraid that anything will hurt you. 4.Material Healing:He will try to make up for his inner uneasiness with material things, just like Li Yang bought Xiaowen a new mobile phone, trying to alleviate the fear of losing you through material giving. 
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