Someone said, "In fact, you can see at a glance which women will be blessed and who will be blessed." ”
Oh, yes! Whether a woman is excellent in the future can actually be seen at a glance!
After all, there is actually a difference between privileged women and vulnerable women.
There are a lot of differences between them, and there are a lot of differences between them.
Differences in personality, differences in the way of interacting with people, differences in ways of thinking, and so on.
The quieter you are about these four things, especially women over the age of 40, the happier you will be for the rest of your life.
The lack of money makes many people feel anxious and don't know what to do. That's when they express their feelings to others.
Sometimes we complain, sometimes we complain, sometimes we fall.
But the woman who will be blessed in the future will not be now, and will be very quiet.
Tan Juan is such a woman. She and her family live in poverty. Later, the mother-in-law became seriously ill, and the family was even more short of money.
At this time, Tan Juan did not speak, did not complain about her mother-in-law, and did not talk nonsense, she cherished her mother-in-law very much and worked hard to make money.
Tan Juan said that her mother-in-law didn't want her to get sick, and he understood it, so he had to take care of her.
Later, my mother-in-law recovered from her illness and was very good to Tan Juan.
The quieter a woman is at the moment, the better her life will be later on.
When my friend Xiao Ning and her husband quarreled, she didn't say anything.
Even if what her husband said was wrong, even if her husband was unwilling to let her go, Xiao Ning didn't want to speak.
Sometimes her husband treats Xiao Ning badly, and Xiao Ning gets angry, but Xiao Ning doesn't quarrel with her husband.
Xiao Ning said that there is no point in fighting, the problem cannot be solved, and the contradiction will be more serious.
So, most of the time, Xiao Ning just shut up and do his own thing. When my husband does the right thing, I support him; When he does something wrong, I don't say anything, I just do my best.
Xiao Ning also said that marriage is not only a matter of one person, but also a matter of two people.
Despite this, her husband still felt that Xiao Ning always gave way to him, and he also felt that Xiao Ning was very good to him.
Therefore, Xiao Ning's husband treated her very well, and her mood gradually improved.
What women are most afraid of is to say irresponsible things when talking about right and wrong.
Saying too much is actually often bad for yourself, so a wise woman would never do it.
Even if someone else makes irresponsible remarks, keep silent and don't say anything.
There is a saying, "Trouble comes from the mouth".
It means that no matter what you say, you may think that it is okay, but after a long time, disaster will come out of the mouth.
We hurt others unknowingly, and we hurt others unconsciously.
At this point, the rest of our lives won't be too good. Because we end up inadvertently offending a lot of people.
These wise women never speak when talking about good and evil and act very quietly.
What do you do when you're not satisfied?
Should you vent your emotions by complaining, or should you wait for them to subside?
The end result of each method is different.
When we vent our emotions, most people regret it afterwards and end up impulsively doing a lot of wrong things.
These wise women waited quietly for their feelings to subside.
Whether a woman will be blessed in the future depends on her attitude towards life.
If a woman lives quietly, she will be happy in the future, but if she does not live well, she will definitely be unhappy in the future.
In many cases, it is better for women over the age of 40 to become quieter.