Love is an eternal topic for human beings, and everyone longs to have a good love, but in real life, many people have experienced the pain of being betrayed.
Many times, we are full of expectations and fantasies about our relationships, thinking that what we have encountered is true love, but when we experience betrayal and hurt, we realize that all good things are only temporary, and there are many practical problems that we need to face.
Especially for women, their greatest fear is being betrayed by the man they love. I think I've given everything for the other person, I can exchange the affection of the other person, but I don't want to wait for the hurt of betrayal.
Sometimes, after a man's betrayal, it is easy to find out, such as a man suddenly becoming cold to a woman, which is mostly a betrayal.
However, some men hide so deeply that women can barely detect it.
In fact, when a man "cheats" outside of marriage, in addition to showing indifference in certain things, he will also become very "passionate" in some worlds.
For example, the following four things, if a man is too "passionate", then it is very likely that he is "cheating" outside of marriage.
01. When washing your own clothes, you will become very "enthusiastic".
Doing laundry may seem like a very common thing, but it contains a lot of "knowledge".
Under normal circumstances, married men basically do not do laundry, and even if some men can do this housework, they are sloppy and not serious.
Of course, for many women, this is not unusual, after all, it is enough for men to earn money to support their families, and it doesn't matter if they do laundry.
However, if a man who usually doesn't like to do laundry suddenly becomes "enthusiastic" about washing clothes, especially when it comes to washing his own clothes, and becomes too "enthusiastic", it often means that he has secrets to hide and is afraid of being discovered by women.
Among them, the most likely should be that he has betrayed this woman, because his clothes may have "lover" hair, or perfume, or lipstick, etc. outside of marriage.
In order not to be found out by the woman, he will wash his clothes and become very "enthusiastic".
Therefore, as a woman, you must be vigilant about the man's very zealous laundry and be sure to observe his abnormal behavior.
02. When you go out, you will become very "enthusiastic".
Once a man has an affair, his mind changes a lot and he becomes very keen to go out.
Whenever you need to get out, he can't wait to rush out of the house right away to have more time to chat with his extramarital "lover" for a while, or to see him again.
For example, if you have a courier that needs to be picked up, he will not go no matter how you order, but suddenly one day he goes out to pick up the courier and becomes very "enthusiastic", which means that he already has a "ghost" in his heart.
Moreover, once a man betrays his feelings, he will often find excuses to go out on a business trip or do something else, in short, he will find various reasons not to go home.
This is most likely a sign that someone is outside the marriage.
At this time, all you need to do is to observe well and see if he has done something sorry for you.
If you do, and the situation has reached the point of no return, then you must be brave enough to make the choice of stop loss, not groveling to curry favor, or begging him to return to the family.
Because a man who doesn't love is not loved, even if you are humbled to the dust, he will not look at you.
03. When spending money, you will become very "enthusiastic".
If a man betrays his feelings, he is likely to spend money and become very "passionate".
One might say that after a man betrays his feelings, most of them will no longer spend money for his partner, how can he be "passionate"?
It is true that most cheating men are stingy with women when it comes to spending money, but there are men who hide well and they often give money to women so that they neglect to monitor their betrayal of their feelings.
Another situation is that by giving money to a woman, a man can also buy some gifts for a "lover" outside of marriage.
Why do you say that?
If you think about it, if a man usually spends too much money, the woman will inevitably be suspicious, and then all kinds of doubts, and if she borrows the money given to her to buy things for people outside of marriage, and when it is time to settle the bill, she is in a hurry, and then spends money for her "lover" outside of marriage, wouldn't it become "reasonable"?
Therefore, women should also pay more attention to men at this point.
04. In the matter of women returning to China, they will become very "enthusiastic".
If a man is loyal enough to you and loves you enough, then when you offer to go back to your parents' house, he will either follow you or hope that you will go back sooner and be reluctant to give up.
Because I love you deeply, I want to keep you all the time.
However, if a man suddenly becomes very "enthusiastic" about you going back to his mother's house, it means that there must be something on his mind.
Or maybe he's a little tired of you, tired of you pestering him every day at home, but not to the point of betraying his feelings.
Or, he betrays his feelings and has a "lover" outside of marriage, then he will become very "warm-hearted" and hope that you can return to your mother's house, and he will prepare a lot of things for you to bring back to your mother's house, and also hope that you can stay at your mother's house for a while longer.
Preparing things passionately, on the one hand, is to do bad things and feel guilty, so comfort yourself in this way.
I wish you could spend more time at her house, just want you to give him more time to be alone with his lover.
Therefore, women should also pay attention to this matter.