George Clooney said:
"If you find a man hurting you, then remember and never give him a second chance. Because there are only zero and countless damages. ”When a man hurts you, he doesn't hurt just once, but countless times, so when he hurts you the first time, don't give him a second chance.
Stop silly self-comforting, he'll change.
When a man does the following things to you, it proves that he doesn't love you anymore, don't associate with him anymore at this time, it's unreliable.
First, there are difficulties and differences
Recently read about a divorce case of a couple:
The two were originally a loving couple, supporting each other and understanding each other to run a small business together.
And when a woman is found to have a serious illness and is hospitalized, the man who has always been sweet and sweet-talking suddenly has a very cold attitude, and even the woman rarely comes to visit during the hospitalization, always saying that she is very busy and has no time to visit the woman.
When the woman's condition deteriorated further and she needed more funds for surgery, it was found that the man had transferred all his possessions during his illness, and the woman questioned the man in disappointment and sadness, but the man coldly said the divorce.
The ancients said:
"Life is like a bird in the same forest, and they fly separately when the limit comes. ”The man who originally said that he would stay together for a lifetime, understand each other, support each other, and only take care of his own safety when he encounters difficulties, and abandon you without taking into account your feelings is not really in love with you.
A man who truly loves you will take the initiative to help you when you are in trouble, instead of ignoring you and taking advantage of yourself.
2. When you need him, he will never be there
I have a baby mom by my side:
When she was pregnant, the man threw her at home and asked her mother-in-law to take care of her life and daily life, in the process of pregnancy, the man always said that he was very busy with work and had no time to come back, until he was in labor, he also came back in a hurry, looked at it a few times and left.
In this way, the woman has been taking care of the baby until she grows up, the man is always absent, the child is sick, she takes it to the doctor, she gets along with the mother-in-law and is wronged, and she swallows it herself.
Every time a woman needs a man, the man always says that he is very busy, telling her not to be hypocritical, and to do this little thing by herself.
The American writer John Green once said:
"The biggest regret in love is that when you need him, he is not there. "The biggest regret in a relationship is that when you need him, he will never be there.
If a man is not there when you need it, then he will not be there in the future, such a man is not worth your reliance.
True love is that there is you and me, not just me, and this kind of love has no meaning.
3. There is no sense of responsibility for the family and for oneself
In the TV series "It's All Good":
Su Daqiang was originally an ordinary employee, but lost his job due to a layoff in the company. Su Daqiang, who lost his job, began to slump and nested at home every day.
His wife persuaded him to find a job, but he always shirked it with various excuses, but there was no way, his wife could only go out by herself and wear many hats, Su Daqiang, who stayed at home, did not take the initiative to take on housework and take care of the children, but only cared about having fun by himself.
Even when his wife fell ill due to overwork, he ignored it, which eventually led to his wife's death.
Marriage is not a one-man affair, but a two-person responsibility.There is not only one role for women in marriage and family, but also for men to play roles, and men should take the initiative to shoulder the responsibilities and obligations of the court.
An irresponsible man will not only make a woman disappointed, helpless and lonely, but importantly, a man's irresponsibility may lead to a lack of fatherly love and lack of correct education and guidance, which will affect the growth and development of the child.
These three kinds of people and men, no matter which one it is, don't come and go, unreliable, no matter how reluctant you are, stay away!
A man who doesn't love you won't stop hurting because he hurt you once, so don't forgive him because of his soft-heartedness, and in the end it will bring you endless pain, I hope you understand. February** Dynamic Incentive Program