I like a quote from Shakespeare:
"A man's promise, like a feather in the wind, flutters lightly and cannot be landed. ”Many men always make unrealistic promises to her in order to please her, and each time the promises cannot be fulfilled, like feathers, fluttering on the ground.
Promise is just a moment of sweet talk, just to draw a big pie for a woman, the man who really loves you will be afraid to give you a promise, not that he doesn't love you, but that he loves you to the bone.
1. Fear that you won't be able to give you the future you want
I've seen such a short play:
The boy and the girl are very much in love with each other, but because the boy's business fails, he owes a lot of debt.
The boy was afraid that the girl would break up with the girl, and the girl always asked him why? The boy didn't answer, because he knew that once he told the girl, he would suffer with him, which was not what he wanted, what he wanted was for you to live an easy, happy life every day.
After a few years, the boy finally paid off the debt.
One day the boy and the girl met, and in the process of chatting, the boy learned that the girl had always loved him, and the boy was no longer in debt, and the boy mustered up the courage to chase the girl again.
John Lennon said:
"Commitment is a kind of responsibility, a kind of expectation for the future. But the future is always full of uncertainty, so some men are afraid of commitment, afraid that they will not be able to give women the future they want. "Men who don't love you will draw you all kinds of pies, unrealistic promises, pull you to endure hardships, and dislike you all kinds of complaints in the process of suffering.
And the man who really loves you, he knows that there are many uncertainties in the future, so he is afraid that once he commits to it, he will not be able to give you the future you want.
He doesn't want you to suffer with him, and he is afraid that if you work hard, you still won't be able to give you happiness.
2. Fear of disappointing you
American home Jimi Hendricks has always had various commitments in his career.
But he treats his love for the opposite side, and according to **, Jimmy easily gives his wife any promises because he doesn't want to disappoint her by not meeting them.
He said that love is not spoken by mouth, but expressed by actions, and Jimmy always expresses his love for his wife through various actions.
Balzac, the father of modern France, said:
"When men make promises, they often envision a bright future; In practice, we often encounter the thorns of reality. ”Men always promise women a good future, but in real life it is the opposite, most men will fail to fulfill their promises, resulting in disappointment of women.
In fact, the best promise is that there is no commitment.
In the days when each other's hearts are connected and we share weal and beyond, love will be with us.
William Shakespeare said:
"A man's commitment is responsibility and responsibility, not something that can be said easily. ”Men who love you deeply will not take the initiative to promise you, because they know that promises cannot be easily said, and promises are the bond of love for each other, and they are the responsibilities and responsibilities of men.
A man's promise, though beautiful, is like a flower made of paper, beautiful but quickly withering.
Men are afraid to promise you, not that they don't love, but that they love you to the bone, and they often use their whole lives as silent promises, just like aged liquor, you need to taste it slowly. February** Dynamic Incentive Program