We all look forward to the simple warmth of our social circles, but the reality is often not as good as it should be.
Some people are smiling on the surface, but their hearts are cold and unpredictable. They seem to hide unfathomable minds that make people scratch their heads.
As we spent more time together, we gradually discovered that these four sentences they said so accurately portrayed their behavior patterns.
What are the unspoken rules that make them so unfathomable? If you want to uncover the mystery of the social circle, follow us to explore!
1. "I'm all for your good!" ”
Some people always hang the guise of "for your own good", and they look kind on the surface, but in fact they hide evil intentions.
They know how to hide their cruelty and always pretend to be harmless on the outside, just to deceive your trust.
Whenever they say, "I'm all for your good," you have to be wary. Maybe they don't mean it at all, but they want to use you for their own purposes.
Don't be fooled by their appearances, but know how to discern the difference between good intentions and hypocrisy. Sometimes, what seems good for you doesn't necessarily really work for you.
So, don't be easily deceived by other people's words, and learn to be vigilant and protect your own interests.
2. "It's all your fault".
Have you ever met someone who always says, "It's all your fault"? They look like they are easy to talk to, but in fact they are ruthless and refuse to take any responsibility.
These people are most afraid of making mistakes, so once they make mistakes, they will not hesitate to shift the blame to others. In their view, to do so is to shirk responsibility.
Whenever you get into an argument with them, they always say "it's all your fault" and don't think about their own responsibilities at all. In their hearts, other people's faults are forced out by themselves, and they just need to push the blame on others.
So, don't be fooled by their hypocrisy, and know how to protect yourself from such people. If they do something wrong because of their own negligence, they should also apologize to them in time and uphold their principles.
3. "Why are you so calculating".
There is a good saying: "Repay grievances with virtue, how can you repay virtue?" But some people never know how to be grateful, and they don't care about your goodness. No matter how good you are to them, they don't appreciate it, but take it for granted.
This kind of person is far less good to you than one-tenth of what you do to them, but once there is a dispute, they defend their interests seamlessly, and they still think you are calculating.
Actually, stop pestering such people. You can't satisfy their greed, you just exhaust yourself. Protect yourself, stay away from this hypocrisy, and make your life happier and more fulfilling!
Fourth, "I am inferior to others".
Hiding this trick is originally the wisdom of the world, but some people take it seriously.
There are always some people in life, who are obviously powerful characters, but they like to pretend to be innocent, like a little sheep. may be able to gain sympathy and favor for a while, but after a long time, it is recognized and the evidence is ironclad.
The most important thing in being a man is sincerity, and the more you pretend, the more you harm yourself. In the end, it will only fall deeper and deeper, and the gains outweigh the losses.
Don't let yourself fall prey to pretending to be a pig and eating a tiger, stay true to win your sincere trust and respect!
Finally
Stay away from kindness and cruelty, cherish and treat each other sincerely.
The lonely journey of life, don't make friends with people who are kind and ruthless. True friends are as light as water, not for mutual benefit, mutual respect and mutual respect. Cherish those who understand you, stay away from unworthy people, and keep life pure and beautiful.