Shi Shengjie is a leader in the cross talk industry.
He has a fatal hobby and is a notoriously fond of drinking.
After the marriage, although the wife tried to persuade her husband to quit drinking, he turned a deaf ear.
In the end, he died because of this, but the rest of his wife's life was shrouded in shadows, and it was too late to regret it!
Shi Shengjie is fond of alcohol, and this habit of drinking is closely related to his life experience when he was young, and it is also the pain in his life.
He was born into a family of cross talk, and his parents were both highly respected cross talk performance artists.
Growing up, he was nurtured by his family's environment, and he showed extraordinary artistic talent at an early age.
However, in that era, cross talk actors were just ordinary people who performed their arts, far less high than their status today.
Therefore, the father did not intend for his son to "inherit the father's business".
At the age of 7, he began to show extraordinary talent, performing cross talk on stage, such a talent is really amazing.
From that moment on, his parents no longer limited his talents.
He was assigned a professional teacher so that he could follow along.
Although he was born into a family of artists, he was unlucky.
However, instead of receiving special preferential treatment, he endured a lot of unfair treatment.
Therefore, the father sacrificed his life, and the mother fell ill because of it.
He also naturally became the object of implication.
He was supposed to shine in the cross talk world, but he was transferred to a remote place.
He worked as a sommelier at a winery and spent up to nine hours a day dealing with a variety of liquors.
Due to the demands of his work, he gradually developed the habit of drinking, and now he feels uncomfortable if he does not drink a little every day.
This also laid a hidden danger for him to suffer from a terminal illness in the future.
He was later transferred to work in a theater in Heilongjiang, where he met Jiang Kun and met his own fate - Song Yan.
When he first met Song Yan, he had a special emotion.
The other party's family is wealthy, although he was born in a working family, but his family style is decent, and he is the dream marriage partner of many men.
The talent and connotation of the other party deeply attracted Song Yan, so she boldly confessed her love to the other party.
However, the other party chose to remain silent and did not say anything.
He was in a very difficult situation at the time, because he was penniless and he was carrying the weight of the times.
He was full of inferiority complex in his heart, so he had to hide his love deep in his heart.
After his family's grievances were revealed, he confessed his love to the other party, and the two began to fall in love.
Song Yan's parents naturally opposed the relationship between the two, but the daughter was determined to spend her life with him.
Cut a strand of hair in front of your parents and make up your mind: I will not marry him in this life!
The parents could only agree to the relationship between the two and looked at their stubborn daughter.
The two tied the knot in Harbin, but did not have a decent wedding.
I spend the day in the office, and at night I assemble the table and use it as a bed.
Song Yan never expressed any complaints during the difficult period.
He began to work hard to improve his living situation.
He eventually won first place in a quyi competition, for which he was rewarded with a small house.
His career has slowly improved, and many of his cross talk works have been widely praised throughout the country.
His daughter, Shi Hao, was born when his career was thriving.
She was busy with acting and was unable to be around when her daughter was born.
When he came home with his daughter in his arms, he completely forgot that he was already a father.
He has achieved good results in several competitions and has shown a greater enthusiasm for his work, perhaps because of having children.
At the same time, he was also favored by the cross talk master Hou Baolin and became his student.
In the field of quyi, his reputation has grown day by day, thanks to his talent and the guidance he has benefited from renowned teachers.
He began to appear on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala in 1989, and his career reached a new high.
In order to fully support her husband's career, Song Yan chose to retire to work behind the scenes.
Shi Shengjie is always busy with work, and he always thinks about Song Yan in his heart.
Whenever she was going out to perform, since she was not good at cooking, someone would stew the meat in advance and prepare all the side dishes.
The family later moved into a spacious house, and the daughter had a lively and cheerful personality.
The two spouses have a deep affection and have never had an argument.
However, Song Yan was very troubled by her husband's obsession with alcohol.
When I was young, I was doing well, but when I reached a certain age, I watched many of my friends be admitted to the hospital due to high blood pressure caused by alcoholism.
She was also very anxious.
Despite Song Yan's constant admonitions, whenever he went out to socialize, he always indulged in drinking.
Song Yan watched her husband not listen to the advice, so she decided to let her daughter go with her to persuade her.
It's a pity that the friends around her are persuading Song Yan to drink less, which doesn't cause much of a problem for her.
Song Hao's daughter settled abroad after she got married.
Song Yan felt powerless to control her husband's behavior.
He soon waited for his retirement, and originally planned to go to Sanya for a vacation with his wife.
Just as they were about to take a trip to Sanya, he began to feel unwell.
He often has a recurrent low-grade fever accompanied by nausea and a dull pain in his lower back.
They went to the hospital together for a check-up, and at first thought it was just a minor problem.
The blow to Song Yan was very big, like a thunderbolt from the blue.
Shi Shengjie was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, which doctors pointed out was closely related to long-term smoking and alcohol consumption.
Song Yan burst into tears at the time, regretting that she had not made up her mind to let him quit drinking, and felt deeply remorseful in her heart.
The doctor was helpless and could not find effective words of comfort, so he could only introduce several ** plans to her in a rational manner.
The couple didn't intend to worry their daughter who was far away at the time, so they kept the truth from her.
His ** hurried over and took the master to Shanghai to receive **.
Unfortunately, surgery is no longer meaningful at this point, and chemotherapy can only be relied on to prolong life.
However, chemotherapy is a very painful process, and you need to grit your teeth to endure the pain every time.
His hair and eyebrows had all fallen out, and his body had become scrawny.
In order to give him something to eat, Song Yan, who is not very good at cooking, began to try various methods to prepare delicious dishes for him.
A couple spent a deserted Spring Festival in the hospital, without the slightest sense of New Year's joy.
When the daughter went home to visit relatives during the Spring Festival, she learned about her father's illness.
He is also very energetic when he sees his daughter and granddaughter, and sometimes he can take her granddaughter out for a walk.
He celebrated his 66th birthday, and then the cancer began to spread, and he often fell into a coma.
His organs began to fail, and when he was dying, he was most concerned about his wife.
When he left this world, he left only one sentence: "After I leave, you must be strong".
After Song Yan died of her husband, she became much haggard overnight.
Her daughter took her to live abroad, but in an unfamiliar environment, she missed her late husband more and more.
No matter where she is, her heart is full of her husband's figure.
She asked to return to live in China because she feared that her husband would not find her when he came home a month later.
The daughter had to send her back to China.
I live alone in the country, and all of my husband's belongings are kept completely intact.
There is a necklace on his chest with a photo with her husband.
Whenever an important holiday comes, she writes a letter to her husband.
In the six years since his death, dozens of letters have been written.
Whenever her husband's death day came, she would always prepare a table of his favorite food and go to the grave to confide in him.
His daughter, Shi Hao, often dreams of her father and often takes her home to worship her father.
Song Yan's life still seems to be peaceful, but the pain in her heart can only be understood by herself.
Her actions show everyone what it means to have true love as eternal!