The ancients said: "The static aurora is the only way to the source." ”
Sitting alone in the dead of night and contemplating the mind, Fang Jue's vanity dissipates and his true nature is revealed, and there is a great opportunity here. The water is quiet and deep, and the people are alone and the heart is stable.
Only when you are alone can your mood be the most tranquil and your thoughts be the clearest. The more tranquil and solitary you are, the more you can contemplate your own mind, let go of your vanity, and return to your true nature.
After all, if a tree wants to be tall, it must take root, and if a person wants to be stable, it must be quiet. If we fail to grasp the wisdom of solitude, we can easily lose ourselves in the bustling world or even go with the flow.
Therefore, the most important thing to learn in life is not to consume oneself in the hustle and bustle, but to save energy in solitude and gradually repair one's mental strength.
Solitude is a realm, a realm that transcends the hustle and bustle. In our time alone, we can get rid of the distractions of the outside world and have a deep dialogue with ourselves.
Tao Yuanming returned to the countryside and kept the tranquility alone, so that he could write the famous sentence of "picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and leisurely seeing Nanshan";
Su Shi was demoted to Huangzhou and traveled alone to Chibi, so that he could understand the heroism of "going to the east of the great river, the waves are exhausted, and the romantic characters of the ages".
Being alone allows us to get away from the hustle and bustle of the world, listen to our inner voice, and find our true selves.
Solitude is a kind of strength, a kind of power to accumulate energy. In moments of solitude, we can focus on our interests and dreams and constantly improve ourselves.
Just as Newton thought alone and discovered the law of gravitation; Edison experimented alone and invented the electric light.
Being alone gives us the power of concentration and precipitation, so that we can cultivate in the inner world and reap the fruits of wisdom.
Solitude is a kind of wisdom, a kind of wisdom that insight into life. In the process of being alone, we can reflect on our past, learn from the lessons, and plan our future path.
It's like Zengzi is self-conscious three times a day, constantly improving himself;
Wang Yangming realized the Tao in the dragon field and comprehended the true meaning of the unity of knowledge and action.
Being alone gives us the wisdom of introspection and insight.
In today's society, people tend to indulge in the hustle and bustle and ignore the importance of being alone. We pursue a virtual presence on social ** and lose ourselves in busyness.
We need to stop our hurried pace, leave ourselves some alone time, savor the beauty of life, and think about the meaning of life.
1. Taste solitude and learn to be alone.
A truly wise person knows that being able to talk to anyone is not a true source of happiness.
On the contrary, it can make us feel lonely and helpless when we are alone.
Understand that people are born lonely, and only by getting used to loneliness can we learn to be alone in solitude. In this way, we can regain our strength in solitude and have more energy to face the unknowns of tomorrow.
Eventually, in the world of solitude, we can see our true selves, find our original intentions, and gradually become our ideal selves.
As one writer put it, "It is only when we are alone that we can truly know ourselves and be fully ourselves." ”
The loneliness of life is like the waves of the sea, wave after wave, and it cannot be avoided. If you try to use the noise of the outside world to dispel loneliness, happiness will gradually drift away.
Even if the loneliness is temporarily dispelled, an even stronger sense of loneliness will follow.
The only way to be truly happy is to learn to get used to loneliness, and even to face it bravely.
Only then will we understand that simplicity is happiness, contentment and happiness, and then we will understand that solitude is the most true world and the most conducive to personal growth.
Jiang Xun once said: "Loneliness is full, and loneliness is the beginning of a full life." ”
People who can enjoy solitude must be willing to cultivate a full heart in solitude.
It can be said that loneliness is the soil for growth, and solitude is to return to the depths of life.
People who are not willing to be lonely tend to panic in their hearts;
And those who are willing to be alone will have a full life.
The first thing a person needs to learn is not to become the focus in the bustle, but to get used to it in loneliness and precipitate in solitude.
Only in this way can we have richer life experiences, continue to expand our knowledge, gain more spiritual insights, and make life simple and real.
2. Walking independently, the road ahead is broad.
You have to walk your own way, and you have to walk independently.
Only in this way will the road be wider and broader, and the future will be brighter and brighter.
A life full of hope must be inseparable from the ability to walk independently.
Do not rely on others in order to exist independently; Maintain an independent attitude so that you will not be swayed by the outside world.
Only then can we calm down in the predicament, survive in the adversity, and finally bear the hardships by ourselves with an unswerving and independent attitude, and win more possibilities.
The Tao Te Ching says: "Be independent and not change, and do not die." ”
The Tao stands on its own because it does not depend on anything. Therefore, the Tao is eternal and unchanging, and the cycle repeats itself and never stops.
People should learn to be independent, because the backers will fall, and everyone will run, and only by themselves is the most reliable.
As the saying goes: "The Tao is simple and long-lasting, and people are brilliant when they walk alone." ”
When a person is willing to walk independently, or even to correct himself, he will naturally approach the goal step by step.
When you no longer rely on anyone and don't expect anything from anyone, you can reconcile with yourself and gradually accept your shortcomings.
only to dare to face the reality, and even learn to be independent in solitude.
Walking independently is a kind of courage and an ability.
It makes us more confident and courageous on the road of life.
It allows us not to flinch or be afraid in the face of difficulties, and to use our own feet to walk out of our own world.
3. Precipitate alone and be ready to go.
The most precious quality of a person is to be able to learn to act independently in solitude whenever and wherever he is.
The wisest behavior in life is to precipitate and accumulate willingly in solitude.
After all, only by learning to be alone in loneliness and truly acting independently can you better precipitate yourself.
Then, in the time of obscurity, in the trough of no help, he firmly showed determination and patience, contributed to life with his own hands, and stepped on all the thorns with his own feet.
In the end, relying on the precipitation of time, we ushered in the light in the momentum and truly walked out of a broad road of our own.
In the Zhuangzi, it is said: "To be alone is to be unique, and to be alone is to be noble." ”
You know, no matter how good the cards are, you have to play them yourself, and no matter how flat the road is, you have to go by yourself. A happy ending will belong to you, and life can be controlled by you.
Being alone is not about being unsociable, but about understanding who is worthy of you to be close to. Precipitation alone is not to be complacent, but to know that growth can only rely on yourself, and you must know how to take advantage of the situation when the wind is down.
When you really know how to precipitate yourself and how to prepare for the future, you can walk more steadily and the direction will be clearer. Because time will tell you, no one can help you no matter how crowded the road is, and no matter how short the distance is, you must rely on yourself.
As one writer put it, "When we don't want to explore value on our own, we rely too much on the involvement of others." As a result, loneliness becomes a flood beast, and losing the attention of others can make us panic. ”
May we return to our original hearts as soon as possible and not think too much of others. In this way, we can face loneliness calmly.
Then learn to be alone in solitude and make yourself more independent. Even if we lose the affirmation of others, we can live with confidence;
Even if you are in a difficult situation, you can slowly settle down on your own and move forward bravely.
Eventually, we will walk out of the dark tunnel, see the greenery of the grass and trees, and usher in the blessing of happiness.
You must understand that over-reliance on the outside world is actually escaping reality, which seems to be lively but is actually lonely, and seems to be happy but actually painful.
Remember to find yourself, even if it's a bit lonely to live alone. But when you gradually walk independently, you will always accumulate enough courage to live calmly, no longer afraid of loneliness, no longer panicked.
It is in the wisdom of solitude that you can live more authentically and make your life happier.