In 2010, a Hunan man was divorced by his girlfriend on the eve of his marriage, but he didn't expect the other party to return the 100,000 yuan bride price, either to find a reason, or to play around and disappear.
The 100,000 bride price made the man empty his family property, and he was forced to be cornered to see the other party cheating. In the end, he went off the rails, directly found his girlfriend's younger brother, and directly poured him sulfuric acid.
While pouring back, he said that the bride price money should be regarded as medical expenses, and the result was that the happy event turned into a white thing, so what happened to the matter? Has the bride price money been returned?
Lei Haiming, who was born in a small mountain village in Hunan, is a famous old bachelor in the village, a man in his thirties, let alone married, and has never even been in love.
This is not his personal reason, because his original family is too poor, and the original family's income only depends on a few acres of thin land at home.
Later, his mother's cancer made the family even worse, and she used up all her savings, not to mention, and owed a lot of money outside.
But despite this, his mother did not survive in the end. It is conceivable that if a woman marries into such a family, she is destined to suffer for a lifetime.
For this reason, the girls in the village avoided him. The father knew that it was the family that dragged down his son, so he thought that if he couldn't find someone from the same village, it would be better to ask the matchmaker to find someone from the next village.
Unexpectedly, the real matchmaker found one. The woman's name is Luo Xiu'e, she is a few years younger than him, and she has three siblings in the family.
Although there are many children, life is good from childhood to adulthood. In 2008, under the arrangement of the matchmaker, the two met for the first time.
For the first time, he understood what it meant to be love at first sight, the other party was handsome, and even his personality was very gentle, and he fell the first time they met.
After this is over, I insist on sending messages to the other party every day after ***, regardless of whether the other party is willing to reply or not. Later, after a period of time, the two directly confirmed their relationship.
When he was in love, Lei Haiming was very active, whether it was chatting or dating, he was always the one who paid the most, for fear that his girlfriend would be wronged if he followed him.
And whether it's a holiday or a birthday, even if he borrows money from everywhere, he has to buy a decent gift for his girlfriend. Luo Xiu'e saw her boyfriend's dedication.
But she has always had a dispensable attitude towards this relationship, like completing the tasks assigned by her family. When dating, I don't want to hold hands, let alone kiss.
But in terms of gifts, no matter what the other party gives her, she accepts them one by one. For this reason, Lei Haiming was paranoid and felt that his girlfriend still recognized him in his heart.
It's just that what he doesn't know is that he is going to get married, while Luo Xiu'e is holding the idea of giving it a try, the two of them have different starting points, and they are doomed to a tragic ending.
Whether it is the three views or the personality, in Luo Xiu'e's heart, the two of them are inappropriate.
But who would have thought that only half a year later, Lei Haiming wanted to live together, but this suggestion was directly rejected by his girlfriend. Originally, Luo Xiu'e was very cold to her boyfriend, and she still wanted to live together before marriage, dreaming.
For this reason, Lei Haiming was very dissatisfied, he felt that the two of them had reached the step of talking about marriage, and it was not ashamed to live together, and sooner or later they would become husband and wife.
For this reason, I persistently proposed many times, but every time it was the same result, and then it was directly dismissed. Later, Lei Haiming was not idle, thinking that the two would get married early.
After all, his age is really not young, and he can't afford to wait. Luo Xiu'e was still young, and she didn't want to get married so early at first, but her boyfriend and family urged her, and finally nodded.
After discussing with his family, he said that it was okay to get married, but the bride price must be 100,000, and not a penny less, but this made Lei Haiming uncomfortable.
The conditions in his own family are not good, and his girlfriend's family doesn't know it, and since the two of them have been together, he has spent almost 2,000 yuan on his girlfriend, isn't that enough?
Not to mention the countryside, the bride price of 100,000 yuan in the city is already sky-high, and you can pay the down payment with this money, but my girlfriend just won't let go.
In desperation, he could only tell his father that the family scraped together everything, and finally borrowed a lot of money from relatives, which was enough to scrape together 100,000 yuan.
After that, the two families held an engagement ceremony in the village, and during this period, he directly handed over the 100,000 bride price to his girlfriend, and the marriage of the two was decided.
So he once again proposed to live together, but was rejected again. Lei Haiming thought that since the bride price was given, she could be regarded as his daughter-in-law.
But when he was fantasizing about the beautiful married life of the two, he didn't expect that his girlfriend's heart had already changed, and he also discovered the change in his girlfriend.
It turned out that after the two got engaged, his girlfriend often ignored him, and sometimes he didn't even reply to messages, let alone go out on a date.
Just when he thought he was worried, he suddenly received a breakup text message from Luo Xiu'e. She said that during the time the two were together, she had a very painful time.
After careful consideration, I feel that it is better for two people to break up. After Lei Haiming saw it, he hurriedly dialed his girlfriend's **, but he didn't expect to be blocked directly.
After that, Luo Xiu'e was like evaporating from the world, no matter how he searched, he couldn't find her. In desperation, his evil energy can run to his girlfriend's house day by day.
At first, the girlfriend's family said that they did not know where the child had gone, and repeatedly said that she had disowned the family.
But this kind of rhetoric can't stop him from coming to the door again and again, and finally his girlfriend's family can't sit still, so they can only tell him the truth of the whole thing.
It turned out that when she was dating him, Luo Xiu'e met a boy in Dongguan on the Internet, and the two chatted every day, and in the process, she fell in love with each other.
So he told his family that he wanted to divorce Lei Haiming and be with the object of online dating, but he was rejected by his family. But who would have thought that she would insist on going her own way.
not only chose to withdraw from the marriage directly, but even ran away from home directly, and even her family couldn't contact her. Knowing this truth, he did not accept such a fact.
naively felt that as long as he waited where he was, he would definitely wait for her to change her mind. But soon the wedding date of the two arrived, but they still didn't wait for Luo Xiu'e to arrive.
Later, he may also know that maybe his girlfriend really didn't come back, so he came to the door again and wanted the other party to repay the 100,000 yuan bride price given at that time.
But the other party said that the money had always been kept by Luo Xiu'e herself, and they had never touched a penny. It probably means that if he wants money, he will go to Dongguan to find someone.
Naturally, he wouldn't go that far away, so he kept putting pressure on the Luo family, thinking that if your daughter doesn't pay back the money, then you will pay it back, anyway, you will definitely have to take the money.
So with people here to make trouble many times, the Luo family took out 4,000 yuan in order to calm the matter, let Lei Haiming spend it first, and as for the rest of the money, I will talk about it later.
It is worth mentioning that Luo Xiu'e has been avoiding him and not seeing him, but she has sent text messages to herself from time to time, and most of the content of the text messages is mainly to ask for money.
Some are dozens, some are hundreds, and he also asked him to call his bank card. This operation, not to mention Lei Haiming, even the Luo family doesn't understand.
While saying that he wanted to cut off relations with Lei Haiming, he also asked for money from others, and affectionately called him dear. This kind of thing makes Lei Haiming very conflicted.
is also pulling each other in this way, and the bride price matter has not been successfully resolved for two years, which also makes Lei Haiming deeply feel that he is being teased.
For this reason, he thought about doing something to regain his self-esteem, and the 100,000 yuan couldn't be handed over to others for no reason.
He thought that since he couldn't find Luo Xiu'e, but the Luo family had always been there, he thought about giving them some colors to see.
So in 2010, he came directly to Luo's house with a bottle of sulfuric acid, and happened to see his girlfriend's younger brother Luo Yulin at the door, and rushed over without thinking about it.
When the other party was unprepared, he directly poured all the sulfuric acid into the other party's mouth, followed by heart-rending screams, and when the Luo family heard the news, they were directly stunned.
Seeing Luo Yulin faint to death, he didn't lose his breath, took out the knife prepared in advance, and threatened the Luo family to contact Luo Xiu'e immediately, otherwise everyone would die here today.
Didn't you pay it back? Then take that money and give it to your son to be cured. ”
In the end, it was because someone secretly called the police, and after the police came over, more people's ** were terminated, and the injured people were also sent to the hospital as soon as possible.
Although Luo Yulin saved a life, his whole body was already poisoned and burned, and his eyes were also told by the doctor that he would not be able to see again in the future because of sulfuric acid.
The cost of ** in the later stage is about 500,000 yuan, and the doctor said that if it deteriorates later, it will still be life-threatening, because his esophagus is also seriously damaged.
Upon learning of this result, the rest of the Luo family collapsed.
In addition, the daughter of Luo Xiu'e's second sister was also accidentally splashed with sulfuric acid, and her face was shockingly burned, and the girl was only 4 years old, obviously an innocent person.
At this point, the Luo family has always insisted that Luo Xiu'e holds the bride price by herself, and since she left, she has rarely contacted her family.
It is worth mentioning that whether it was before or after this incident happened, Luo Xiu'e, as the main character, has never missed the face.
Even if he knew that his brother was affected by himself, he didn't bring it up to the hospital to visit. Although the Luo family hated Lei Haiming very much, they also knew that he was a poor person.
So he proposed that as long as he could pay the best money, they would not pursue anything. But the Lei family couldn't come up with a penny, and the bride price money at that time was all scraped together.
Lei Haiming was arrested, Lei's father was old, and he went to the hospital to ask for forgiveness, and even for his son, he could kneel for the victim's family.
Lei Haiming was eventually sentenced to 5 years to pay for his actions. Obviously, in this matter, he belongs to the victim, and if he relied on the law to defend his rights, the money may have to be returned long ago.
Instead of two years of waiting in vain, which eventually led to the tragedy, she went directly from the victim to the perpetrator, and wanted to go to prison to reflect on what she had done, but the initiator Luo Xiu'e retreated directly, obviously she was the key to the whole thing, but she neither bore the punishment of the law nor suffered any harm.
is still holding 100,000 yuan and still living in style, is this the result that Lei Haiming wants to see? The most pitiful thing is the Luo family, who obviously didn't do anything, but they took it all.
Especially Luo Yulin, who is obviously an outsider in this matter, it can be said that this matter has nothing to do with him, but he is the one who is lying in the hospital now, and he is also the one whose life is in danger.
There should be that poor 4-year-old girl, at an ignorant age, who experienced such a terrible thing, and the scars on her face could not be erased.
She is likely to spend her life with those scars, so how will she face her life in the future? Many people think that the whole thing is all because of the bride price.
If there were no bride price, there would not be so many contradictions. In fact, the bride price is secondary, and since it has been decided to break up at that time, it needs to be broken cleanly.
is not like Luo Xiu'e, who selfishly does not want to repay the bride price, and even teases Lei Haiming many times, wanting him to spend money for himself again, the bride price is not wrong, it is the wrong person.
She has always been a selfish person, she wants everything in her relationship, and she doesn't care about the life or death of her family at all for herself.
Even after the incident, he was still like a coward and never dared to show his face. Obviously, she did all the bad things, but she insisted that others took on everything for herself.
That's the scariest thing in the whole thing. We are all equal in the relationship, and Lei Haiming's humble flattery is also destined to not go long.
There are also people who think that the bride price should be abolished, so that there will be no such tragedy, so what do you think?