In today's society, halfway couples are not uncommon, however, their life trajectories are different, and each couple has a unique story. With the changes of the times and the development of society, the divorce rate remains high, which has led people to think deeply about the stability of marriage. But the fact that everyone longs for happiness and a full life is self-evident.
In the process of this social pain, the phenomenon of middle-aged divorce is particularly prominent, both men and women. Among them, some people choose to embark on the journey of love again, while others choose to face life alone. Behind everyone's choice, there are their own considerations and reasons. In a neighborhood I am familiar with, there is such an example. Sister Zhang, with superior appearance and stable career, seems to be an ideal marriage partner. However, she went on many blind dates after the divorce, but never found the partner she wanted.
According to the head of the building, not long ago, Sister Zhang met a man named Brother Wang. Both of them are middle-aged, and Brother Wang works in a power company and has been divorced for half a year. Their encounter seems to be quite fateful, and each other's life backgrounds are quite compatible, Sister Zhang's son works in Shenzhen, and Brother Wang's daughter works for the same power company. In the eyes of many people, the union of the two seems to be destined for a beautiful marriage. However, an unexpected turn of events put an end to this possible relationship.
What is puzzling is that Sister Zhang and Brother Wang seem to have irreconcilable differences on the requirements for marriage. It is reported that Sister Zhang's only request is to ask Brother Wang to buy another property in the urban area. Although this request seems reasonable, in reality, it has caused a lot of waves. Sister Zhang already has five properties under her name, one of which is ready to be left to her son, one is for herself, the other two are rented, and her parents live in one. And Brother Wang also kept a set of real estate after the divorce, and the other set was given to his ex-wife to live with his daughter.
Given that both parties already have a property, residency is not a problem. However, Sister Zhang insisted that Brother Wang buy another property, which became an insurmountable obstacle between the two. Perhaps in the eyes of outsiders, such a request is not excessive, but for Brother Wang, it is difficult to accept. Although it was not difficult to buy a house based on his job and income, he chose to refuse. This makes people wonder, Sister Zhang has been on dozens of blind dates over the years, and all of them died without illness because of the same reason?
For Brother Wang, buying a house is not difficult, but not everyone can do it easily. Middle-aged couples who remarry face a variety of challenges as they re-embark on the path of marriage. Some are because of incompatible personalities, some are because of children's problems, and it is relatively rare for a woman like Sister Zhang, who already has a rich material foundation but still makes claims for real estate.
Whatever the reason, when two people come together, mutual tolerance and understanding are the keys to maintaining a relationship. Especially for families and children on both sides, this kind of understanding and tolerance is particularly important. Only in this way can we go further in marriage and cherish the second chance. After all, life is short, and we should cherish the happiness in front of us even more.