Giving up is an attitude towards life. In life, we will always encounter some things that we can't do anything about, and at this time, we should learn to let go of those unnecessary attachments. As the ancients said: "Life is determined by heaven, and fortune is born by oneself." This sentence reminds us that on the road of life, we need to be both obedient to fate and take the initiative to grasp it.
In the small corner of society, we are like an insignificant little star in the vast galaxy. Perhaps, we will envy those who have the light, hoping to live a higher quality of life through their own efforts. However, no matter how hard we try, the gap with the rich always seems to be insurmountable.
Eat cheap food all your life, wear cheap clothes, and live a humble life in obscurity. Although we are frugal and budget-conscious, we always feel that we still don't have enough money when we encounter big things. I have wronged myself all my life, thinking about others everywhere, and always taking into account the feelings of others, but the results are not satisfactory. There are many people who have offended, and sometimes they can't even accept it.
I have been reflecting and summarizing all my life, but troubles and pitfalls have appeared one after another. We have been trying our best to make up for our regrets, but we have left a lot of regrets. Time flies, half a life has passed in a hurry, except for the traces of the years, there doesn't seem to be much of its own. At this time, I couldn't help but think of Mr. Yu Hua's words: "When you are middle-aged, you realize that you have never lived the way you like." ”
In life, we need to recognize the reality, tailor it according to our actual situation, and pursue a new self. We need to understand the true meaning of obeying the destiny of heaven to the best of our ability, and understand that being at peace with what happens is also a kind of wisdom in life. After all, the true meaning of life is to be happy.
There will always be things in life that cannot be changed, and we should learn to reconcile with fate. People who are as insignificant as the stars must also live transparently. When I was young, I always thought that as long as I set a goal and work hard, I would one day ride the wind and waves. However, when I grew up, I realized that some things are not something that can be obtained by dedication, and fate always seems to play a joke on us. Therefore, we should learn to accept reality and not be too ourselves. Be down-to-earth and do your best, do your best to obey the destiny of God, cherish the people and things around you, even if your life is ordinary, it is a kind of happiness.
As Mr. Yang Jiang said, "God will not let all happiness be concentrated in one person. "Life is our own journey, we have to learn to reconcile with ourselves and break away from some powerless things. The most important thing is to let go of those meaningless attachments, cherish the moment, and live every day well.