The two of them get along, and some men and women are always very enthusiastic.
They can all feel each other's attitude and cherish each other's hearts.
That's a very good feeling.
But there are also situations where you are very passionate about one person, but the other person is not for you.
Sometimes it seems to be very good to you, it looks like I'm very interested in you, and it seems that I want to have a good relationship with you, but sometimes it's very cold, as if I don't want to deal with you at all, and I look like I'm going to break off with you immediately.
Hot and cold, the contrast between the front and back is particularly large.
When a person's attitude towards you is so inconsistent and so different, you will inevitably be very confused, not knowing what the other person means, and not understanding what this situation is.
When you think about it, it's not hard to understand.
I don't want to, I just treat you as a pastime.
You may feel that a person takes the initiative to you because he wants to develop with you, but in fact, there will be some moments when the person who takes the initiative to find you and chat with you does not mean that in his heart.
Although I don't have a partner, I don't want to fall in love with you, and I have any development.
I don't have that kind of mind.,It's just that I'm always alone.,Occasionally I feel lonely.,There's a little bit of boredom.。
So, when it is more fulfilling, I don't bother to talk to you, I have no interest in chatting with you, I just want to be busy with my own things and live my own life, and I am not willing to deal with your news at all, and I will only be more coping and indifferent to you.
It's really cold from time to time, and then, when you don't feel so good and want to talk to someone, you will think of you, and you'll be more warm, and you will look like you want to chat, and you will reply to your words well, and you will continue to take the initiative to find some topics.
Because I want a companionship, because I want to have some fun in life.
happens to have that kind of need, and you just happen to be able to accompany you, so I'll play with you first.
Either it's just a familiar chat, nothing superfluous, everything is ordinary, or maybe some specious things will be said to you, all kinds of flirting with you, so that the boring moment is not so lonely.
It's not just you, it's someone else.
Between people, not everyone is so serious and dedicated.
If you have a good impression of someone, you may put all your thoughts on the other person, and you will not have other ideas, and you will not deal with other people, but the person you meet may not be the same as you.
When chatting with you, I may still be chatting with others, even ambiguously.
That is to say, you are very caring, but for the other party, you are not the only one, maybe just a spare tire, the other party is sometimes with other people, and sometimes they will share a little time for you.
When you are with others, you naturally don't have so much energy to deal with you, and only when you have free time, the time dedicated to you will be a little more enthusiastic.
Maybe you just want to choose among several people and find one to be together, maybe you want to fall in love with one person, and you don't want to lose the other, and you have always had some contacts, and you want to keep it for yourself.
Or, the other party may not be single, not alone, have a love partner, or even be married.
I am not satisfied with my feelings, and I want to find some stimulation, so when I don't have to accompany the person in front of me, I will take the time to talk to you about some things that you don't have, so that you can't see clearly at all, thinking that you can't figure it out.
It's very insincere, and I'm playing tricks with you.
In this era, there are always many different voices, and there are many different opinions about the same thing.
For the people they like, some people advocate exchanging sincerity for sincerity, sincerity is the best way, but some people always feel that playing more means is the best, which will be more conducive to the relationship.
Some people will always believe such statements, and they always like to play with people in the palm of their hands, thinking that they are very smart like that.
Among them, many people always feel that being enthusiastic all the time will seem very cheap, but it is more able to show their high profile and make the other party pay attention to themselves.
I believe that such a statement will always deliberately behave enthusiastically all at once, and behave coldly all at once.
Whenever you just feel that you are in a good state and think that the other party is interesting, the other party begins to regress and becomes very cold, so that your heart is hanging, and whenever you want to quit and feel hopeless, the other party will start to be enthusiastic again, making you unwilling to let go.
And so over and over again, maximizing your likes, controlling your emotions, trying to make you more obsessed, even, and start to take control of your relationship.
Believe in this way, as for saying that if you get rid of it, you just give up, ignore it, and choose to delete, until that moment the other party will probably wake up and feel that it is not like that.
Most of the people who are hot and cold to you don't have much sincerity, and it's not a good choice.
When a person always treats you like this, you must not follow the rhythm of the other person, but be sober yourself.
Snub you a few times, and you should understand that the other party doesn't like you much and doesn't respect you much.
Instead of spending time with such a person and waiting for each other's enthusiasm, you might as well stop staring at each other, just be a little bit more and let yourself withdraw from this relationship.
You should always reply to someone's messages and keep in touch with them, and you should find someone who treats you like that.
All of them are good and have a good attitude, which will be a good relationship.
At the beginning, he was sincere enough, and then he was really trustworthy to be able to be together and go on well.
Text: Tan Meng.
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