The aunt refusedUncle old, said that he could not be satisfied.
Busy steaming steamed buns and making noodles all day long, it's really busy and tiring to be with him, it's really no fun at all! "
The aunt expressed helplessness, obviously not very satisfied with the uncle's remarks. After all, middle-aged and elderly blind dates are usually about finding a partner who can enjoy their old age together and live a happy life, rather than letting one of them become a nanny.
81-year-old Uncle Liang is an independent old man, his retirement income has reached 6,400 yuan, and he also has his own independent house. He is now at the blind date, hoping to find a like-minded person to spend the rest of his life with.
Although Uncle Liang is eighty-one years old, his appearance is still heroic, and he doesn't look like a ten-year-old man at all. The most impressive thing is that his words and deeds reveal a kind of righteousness.
I never set foot in the kitchen when I was younger, but since my partner passed away, I started to actively learn to cook, and now I am comfortable with both pasta and simple stir-fries. "
Uncle said proudly.
Uncle Liang is a very serious person, and he is very particular about three meals a day. The matchmaker expressed her admiration for Uncle Liang's living habits, and it can be said that Sima praised Zhuge and admired each other.
My career has been smooth sailing, and the only setbacks are relationships and family. Uncle Liang said with emotion. When he was young, he worked within the system and was promoted step by step to the rank of a department-level cadre by virtue of his talents.
Although his career is going well, his love life has gone through ups and downs. His wife died early, and his son died of cancer, leaving his daughter alone. But there are always ups and downs in life, and there are inevitably joys and sorrows in the world.
We need to stay positive and look forward.
The uncle's criteria for choosing a mate are very traditional, he hopes to find a partner who is about 60 years old, has no bad habits, and does not smoke or drink. The most important thing is to have eyes between them.
Although the uncle is getting older, he is physically tough, financially well-off, and lives a budget-conscious life, so on the whole, there is no need to worry about finding a partner.
The "eye edge" that the uncle is looking for is actually the appearance characteristics of the other party, because when meeting on a blind date, the first impression is the "eye edge". The uncle himself is also very handsome and chic, and it is very normal to want to find a wife with a good image.
Aunt Liu, 67 years old, widowed, has a stable income after retirement and owns her own house. Compared with Uncle Liang, her personal conditions are comparable.
Although Aunt Liu is 67 years old, she is still graceful. The years have left traces on her face, but they can't hide the demeanor of her youth. Aunt Liu is not only tall and curved, but also has a unique temperament.
She shows us a woman with inner beauty who remains attractive even as she ages.
Aunt Liu's life when she was young was also a difficult struggle, she was a tenacious woman, involved in clothing, decoration, business in various industries, hard work to raise children, and at the same time achieved financial freedom.
Whenever these past events are mentioned, Aunt Liu will show a little pride and satisfaction.
When I was a child, I had seven siblings in my family, and life was really difficult! Recalling the past years, Aunt Liu's eyes were full of tears. Those difficult days made her know how to cherish the beautiful life and times now.
Aunt Liu said with deep feelings: "After my wife died suddenly, I realized that life is short and money cannot be taken away, so I should treat myself well." Aunt Liu's words resonated with viewers and readers, many elderly people are always busy for the sake of others, and although their behavior can be called frugal, this notion is indeed somewhat distorted when it comes to enjoying old age.
After all, life is too short and we should cherish and enjoy it.
I don't have high requirements for the other half, as long as I have a good character and good looks, the most important thing is to know how to empathize and be considerate. "Aunt Liu shared her criteria for choosing a mate.
When they met for the first time, the uncle showed his enthusiastic side and immediately invited the aunt into the house to sit down. The aunt has a very good impression of the uncle and hopes to further develop the relationship, but the uncle asks an unexpected question.
The uncle said regretfully: "Why is Auntie's hair dyed like this? I still prefer black because it looks a little more natural. His thinking is quite traditional, and he is a little unhappy to see that the color of his aunt's dyed hair does not match his concept.
The matchmaker respects the uncle's choice, and everyone has the right to make a decision according to their own ideas. The concept of the uncle is more traditional, and there is no need to force the aunt to be equally conservative.
After all, when you meet for the first time, it's more about understanding each other's insides rather than being overly picky on the outside. After visiting the uncle's house, the aunt thought that the area of the house was not spacious enough, and if the two were really together, they might feel a little cramped.
The matchmaker understands the aunt's thoughts, and at the same time understands the uncle's position.
The uncle has a wide range of interests, does not smoke or drink, and often plays sports and basketball, so the aunt has a good impression of him. However, the aunt found a matchmaker, saying that the uncle's blood pressure was high.
For viewers and readers, who is over 80 years old without a little physical problem? High blood pressure is also normal. Therefore, the matchmaker began to care about the physical condition of the aunt.
My aunt told us that her blood pressure is not too much of a problem, but if her grandchildren do not study well, her blood pressure will be a little high. The uncle also said that the blood pressure of both of them was unstable, but this was not a big problem.
After the enlightenment of the matchmaker, the aunt no longer takes the blood pressure problem too seriously, who knows what the uncle said next, which instantly brought the blind date to an end.
The uncle said helplessly: "Although I won't make any complicated dishes, I guarantee that you will eat happily!" ”
This uncle is obviously testing his aunt's cooking skills, and at the same time hoping to find a cooking partner. For everyone, his intention is undoubtedly to find a babysitter.
Sorry, I'm not good at making pasta and can't help. "The aunt's tone looked a little disappointed and helpless.
Uncle means that if the aunt comes, he has to cook for him, and he likes to eat pasta and steamed buns the most. He eats porridge and pickles for breakfast, and makes a little for dinner. Everyone understands this, the uncle is a little confused in life.
The aunt brought it up on a blind date"Compare hearts to hearts and take care of each other"The uncle said that he could not meet it. After being rejected, the uncle said dissatisfiedly that cooking was just a trivial matter for him, and if the aunt couldn't even cook, it wouldn't make much sense.
The blind date between the uncle and the aunt was not successful in the end. The purpose of the uncle is very clear, that is, he wants to find a wife who can cook, and it can even be said that he is a nanny.
The aunt also said that the uncle did not meet her requirements. The uncle thought that the aunt was not good at cooking, let alone making pasta, so the two did not find common ground, and finally chose to be friends.
This blind date ended in failure.
In this blind date, the aunt performed well and there was no problem at all. But the uncle's performance was a little impatient, and he asked the aunt to cook when he came up, which made people feel like they had found a nanny.
Although the uncle may not mean this, this kind of rhetoric may make the other party feel uncomfortable and even refuse. On the contrary, if both parties have a deep relationship, they can learn even if the other person is not good at cooking.
Therefore, the failure of this blind date is mainly due to the uncle's words. Going on a blind date with the idea of finding a wife to cook for you is undoubtedly pushing the cart up a steep step, which is full of difficulties.