I am generally an audience member and rarely speak, because relatives are at different levels of cognition, and their views on happiness are not the same, and the times are changing so fast, few people think that studying and going to college can change their fate, but many people think that children must go to college.
The 36-year-old cousin who works in the JD P6 post, a secondary school student 18 years ago, has a very good salary, he lamented that there are many college students in JD company, and there are graduate students who deliver food on the road. My cousin, who later received a diploma in teaching, said that if he had a bachelor's or a graduate degree, he could move up to a higher level of management. Among the relatives, there are those who make goods and lala, one or two thousand yuan a month, and feel very satisfied, and there are also professional and senior online games at home, and the money they earn is not what ordinary workers can imagine, and they raise dozens of acres of crayfish in their hometown, and they can earn 200,000 yuan for five months a year. Listening to them share the joy of "success" and "harvest", I listened quietly, smiled and nodded, I think that as long as I choose the path and do what I like, as long as it is legal, it is okay.
I never want to give too much guidance to the younger generations of my family, because the path I have traveled is difficult for them to replicate, especially perseverance. I am the first college student in my family, the first master's degree, the first doctorate, the first professor, the first doctoral supervisor, my life growth road is long and firm, to say that it is difficult, because I like to read, interested in scientific research, so in the poorest doctoral era, I did not feel how hard, but every day is very happy. On the road of my growth, there was never anyone to guide me, I was groping all the way forward, and since graduating from university, I planned to have a significant change every three years, and there should be a significant improvement.
I didn't become a dependant and life mentor for the younger generations of my family, and trying to change others is the stupidest thing in the world. In fact, I never wanted them to become people like me, everything is mainly on their own, and the road is their own!
The first generation of rural scholars want to achieve a leap in life, and I personally believe that working hard to graduate with a doctorate is the best route to reach a new class of mutual achievement, and it takes "one change in three years", and it will definitely be achieved in five or three years, with planning and perseverance.